LukKrueng Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 It wasn't her birthday, and she's not my girlfriend (working on it), but I brought her 2kg of oranges and she was so happy because I noticed she loves oranges. This girl doesn't wear gold/jewelry/perfume/designer cloths or purse so none of those would make her happy. Just saying-if you don't know your girlfriend well enough after a year of being together, how do you expect to get any good advice from a form of people that don't know you nor the girl?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedtripler Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 Cash is the best gift! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildewillie89 Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 1 hour ago, Laza 45 said: My girl loves gold.. sure, she likes to wear it on special occasions.. lots of gold ..big face.. but the main reason she likes it is because it is a form of saving money.. if she needed money in a hurry she would just take it down to the gold shop and sell it or take it to a pawn shop and collect it later.. it is an old habit and seems to work for her and her family. Blenders and things for the house don't make it.. 'it is for the house.. not me..'.. A dinner out with family and a birthday cake is always a winner.. Buying gold.. 1/4 bhat doesn't do it.. 1/2 is acceptable.. 1 bhat is for true love and wishful thinking... As a form of saving money is a good way to look at it from the girls point of view. I ended up with the opposite, the Mrs will be lucky to put on a dash of make up lol. I think a lot of face ends up in people's own imaginations rather than actually achieving the desired outcomes if that makes sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedtripler Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 4 hours ago, thailand49 said: Just my opinion, based on 1 year, is gold or cash. Based on time frame not too big the bigger the bigger the expectation since one year isn't much to based a relationship since you aren't here full time? To Thais gold is the same as cash, anything brand name is just that today popular tomorrow not! It should be a porsche cayenne turbo..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
50baht Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 I would get her a insurance policy for her families buffalos. Those things get sick all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seancbk Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 2 hours ago, Suitcase said: Forget the perfume! Many Thai women are using it now and I find it very offensive to smell someone else’s body! I doubt very much you'll be sniffing the OP's girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaipopsy Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 Money or Gold.... Anything else she may not like even if she will show appreciation. She may use the money or sell the gold to buy what she REALLY like. Thai way. My way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ujayujay Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 Gold....allways Gold works....ever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsensam Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 (edited) my experience is that thais culturally tend not to give each other birthday presents, school/university friends aside. however it is also my experience that thais dating foreigners often 'expect' a birthday present. i'm a keen photographer and to be honest the best received birthday gifts have given have been photos of the gf and myself in a decent frame. add a meal at a decent restaurant or trip to a resort if you want to make more effort. giving gold seems a bit boring to be honest, but then i've never dated a money grabbing girl or dated a girl who expected to be financially rewarded for being my gf. if your gf is interested in the financial side of her relationship with you then you may have to give gold or similar 'expensive' gift. up to you as they say in these parts. Edited January 14, 2018 by samsensam clarity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien365 Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 Depends on your budget and how well you know her. Personally I would never buy gold. If you buy something cheaper the next time she'd probably be disappointed. For me, last time I took her to a studio to have our photo taken together. We chose a few pics we liked and framed them. It went down very well as there were lots of smiles and laughter aswell as a bit of romance too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 18 hours ago, A. BOOZER said: Or do what most Thais seem to do, completely ignore it! dead right, get her what the Thai normally get you sweet F.A Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 11 hours ago, seancbk said: I doubt very much you'll be sniffing the OP's girlfriend. why, the OP not living here, i bet plenty of men are sniffing her as we speak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 17 hours ago, Colabamumbai said: Many Thais are unsure of their birthdays. everyday day of their lives if their with a farang. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuang Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 Thais love gold just buy her at least a baht.. Only 20K. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laza 45 Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 12 hours ago, wildewillie89 said: I think a lot of face ends up in people's own imaginations rather than actually achieving the desired outcomes if that makes sense. ...I agree with that one.. delusional ego polish.. but in a culture that is so status conscious it helps establish the pecking order... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 45 minutes ago, chuang said: Thais love gold just buy her at least a baht.. Only 20K. fool and his money soon parted springs to mind again. the OP dose not even live here in Thailand with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 On 1/14/2018 at 4:00 PM, smotherb said: Then the answer is easy, give yourself. Oh dear. Not up to your usual standard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Birdman Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 On 1/14/2018 at 2:01 PM, Lacessit said: Give her something she can cook or clean with. That way you benefit as well. so you had a paperhanger brush last birthday? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracas Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 On 1/14/2018 at 4:14 AM, LukKrueng said: It wasn't her birthday, and she's not my girlfriend (working on it), but I brought her 2kg of oranges and she was so happy because I noticed she loves oranges. This girl doesn't wear gold/jewelry/perfume/designer cloths or purse so none of those would make her happy. Just saying-if you don't know your girlfriend well enough after a year of being together, how do you expect to get any good advice from a form of people that don't know you nor the girl?? Now there's a sensible gift. Oranges. Will also help in preventing your girlfriend from getting scurvy. Don't know how serious the OP is with his girlfriend, but I don't think it requires a gift of gold at this stage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bigfarang1948 Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 On 1/13/2018 at 11:18 PM, thailand49 said: Just my opinion, based on 1 year, is gold or cash. Based on time frame not too big the bigger the bigger the expectation since one year isn't much to based a relationship since you aren't here full time? To Thais gold is the same as cash, anything brand name is just that today popular tomorrow not! Use some imagination!!! I always opted for the hand made 4 meter cast net since we live on the bank of the Mekong River. I bought the net from her granny who always gave me a good discount, so I got out pretty cheap for 1,000 baht. Gold is a waste because as soon as the little lady needs some quick cash, off to the local pawn shop. As a sign of even greater love I gave her two well seasoned cane poles to use when her arms tired of casting the net. She loves me too much, sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 11 hours ago, Lacessit said: Oh dear. Not up to your usual standard. Hardly, I tough it was typical of my high regard for myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedtripler Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 On 14/01/2018 at 6:22 PM, thaipopsy said: Money or Gold.... Anything else she may not like even if she will show appreciation. She may use the money or sell the gold to buy what she REALLY like. Thai way. My way. Give her Herpes The gift that keeps on giving! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 On 1/14/2018 at 4:46 PM, baansgr said: Form of saving your money. Makes me sick to the stomach seeing the victims at the gold shops... What a joke seriously Gee, not sure who the joke is here. I wonder why gold has been the preferred specie standard for the world for thousands of years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geronimo Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 Whatever your favourite tipple is, buy her a bottle of that ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isaanbanhou Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 1 minute ago, geronimo said: Whatever your favourite tipple is, buy her a bottle of that ..... Why not make it more special and buy her a bottle of her favourite tipple... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geronimo Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 Just now, isaanbanhou said: Why not make it more special and buy her a bottle of her favourite tipple... It was my weird sense of humour actually, and "her favourite" just doesn't do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geronimo Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 (edited) On reflection, looking at all the replies, perhaps one should just go with the gut feeling on this one ..... Edited January 15, 2018 by geronimo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seancbk Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 7 hours ago, speedtripler said: Give her Herpes The gift that keeps on giving! I guess the OP might know where to go and get it for her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 On 1/16/2018 at 6:20 AM, smotherb said: Gee, not sure who the joke is here. I wonder why gold has been the preferred specie standard for the world for thousands of years It may have something to do with the total debt of the USA being almost $18 trillion, and people not trusting printed bits of paper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
champers Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Without wishing to sound too cynical, it is good that her birthday coincides with your visit here. It is not unknown for some Thai ladies to have more than one birthday per year. Bit like the Queen in England ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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