Foundation urges people to step in as domestic violence cases rise

By The Nation

 

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AS MANY as 367 cases of domestic violence have made the headlines in the first seven months of this year. Of these cases 242 resulted in death.
 

The Women and Men Progressive Movement Foundation, which has been monitoring reports in 11 newspapers between January and July, revealed the statistics yesterday to bring public attention to domestic violence. 

 

“This means 65.9 per cent of domestic-violence cases in the period involve murders,” the foundation’s senior staff member Angkhana Intasa said at a press conference. 

 

She said the percentage had gone up from 48.5 per cent two years ago. 

 

“Alcohol consumption and drug abuse are key factors in the murder of family members,” she said, adding that motives behind the fatalities were usually jealousy, fury and money. 

 

“Up to 94.9 per cent of people witnessing domestic violence decided not to intervene,” she said, adding that it was time for Thai society to change its attitude. 

 

Several old adages, taught for generations in Thailand, suggest that one should not interfere in the domestic affairs of others. One of the most common sayings is that, “If you intervene now, you become a dog when they reconcile.”

 

“We should embrace the new way of thinking. Let’s treat such matters as a social issue. If we see domestic violence, step in to provide help or at least alert relevant authorities,” she advised. 

 

She added that her foundation and allies would soon call on the Social Development and Human Security Ministry to launch campaigns promoting respect for other people’s bodies. 

 

Ploy (not her real name), 44, said her husband had stopped abusing her only after the foundation stepped in two years ago. 

 

“Before that, I had lodged a police complaint against him more than 10 times. But every time, things went back to the same. I put up with it because I cared about my children,” she said. 

 

She said her husband’s behaviour changed because the foundation had followed up on the case closely. 

 

“And this is the last opportunity I have given to him. If he gets violent again, I will leave him,” Ploy said.

 

Praewdao Siwaphoowadonpitak, who recently stepped in to help protect a woman from her violent lover, said she had decided to come forward out of concerns for the victim’s suffering. “Nobody has the right to harm others,” she said. 

 

Source: http://www.nationmultimedia.com/detail/national/30352831

 

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"...Up to 94.9 per cent of people witnessing domestic violence decided not to intervene,” she said, adding that it was time for Thai society to change its attitude. 

Several old adages, taught for generations in Thailand, suggest that one should not interfere in the domestic affairs of others. One of the most common sayings is that, “If you intervene now, you become a dog when they reconcile...”

 

Unless and until societal attitudes begin to change and domestic violence is treated the same way as other assaults, not a thing will change. 

 

Domestic violence should be at the same societal approval level as the transmission of gonorrhea.

 

 

This country must be one of a kind in all areas of life, right?

Since when does a country accept that foundations go out and make positive remarks for civilians to intervene in domestic violence situations.

That´s the police work. They are trained for that, or do they want more victims to take care of. Utterly stupid!

personally I would like to see thais speak up more ,and not just about domestic abuse...call the police,take a photo tell someone..make a difference, GET INVOLVED.!!!!

Edited August 23, 20187 yr by mok199

I was often told by other foreigners that you should never intervene. It’s just part of the culture. Will this be another thing that can’t be excused as ‘it’s part of the culture’?  Seems there will be more and more as Thailand develops. 

3 hours ago, webfact said:

Before that, I had lodged a police complaint against him more than 10 times.

How many times do you need to tell a Thai policeman to do his job without offering inducements?

3 hours ago, Get Real said:

This country must be one of a kind in all areas of life, right?

Since when does a country accept that foundations go out and make positive remarks for civilians to intervene in domestic violence situations.

That´s the police work. They are trained for that, or do they want more victims to take care of. Utterly stupid!

I disagree ... this is a family matter where elders should step in with the backing of the village chiefs and local counsel ... police should be a last resort.  Know of one case where the wife's aunts and sisters attacked the husband on his way home from work and beat the crap out of him. He never laid a hand on her again = simple solution

On 8/24/2018 at 3:23 AM, OmarZaid said:

I disagree ... this is a family matter where elders should step in with the backing of the village chiefs and local counsel ... police should be a last resort.  Know of one case where the wife's aunts and sisters attacked the husband on his way home from work and beat the crap out of him. He never laid a hand on her again = simple solution

Simple solution if you want to keep it as it´s always been. If you really want things to start work as it´s supposed too, you are as wrong as you can be.

I see your point, though. Leave everything as it is. Ok, but do not ever complain over anything in Thailand.

Edited August 26, 20187 yr by Get Real