alleypanda Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 Yes, very simple question anyone care to share the experience? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medicinebox Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 Yes, very simple question anyone care to share the experience? You never know for sure. Put it like this. Somewhere out there, there is the perfect once only partner for you for life. But the chances of meeting her are zilch. So we compromise and accept each others faults. We "make do" with what we have. i.e. she's a bit fat but can really cook. As one gets older, he/she usually accepts more than he would when he was younger. the old "I don't want to get left on the shelf" part. So try to find one with the least faults. Measure them against other ex gf's, and if she has less faults than them, she'll do for now. Even when you think you have, circumstances can change i.e. she gets drunk on a a night out with her mates and gets squirted. Then its all tits up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wild Republic Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 Trial n' error. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eyespan Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 The earth moved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rainman Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 Many men seem to think she's the one when she tells you that she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 Many men seem to think she's the one when she tells you that she is. That is so, so very true Rainman. If she's got you by the nuts, your heart and mind will always follow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rainman Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 If she's got you by the nuts, your heart and mind will always follow. Lizards can drop their tails; too bad we can't drop our nuts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chanchao Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 > How Do You Know She Is The One It's kind of like asking "How do you know your data is secure". You don't. Always have a backup. Cheers, Chanchao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dondi Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 u just know ....! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NedKelly Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 I reckon there is no 'right one'...................people are all individuals and to think we can find the perfect one is a bit silly. How do you know you are the right one for her ? She tells you right !! My brother had it right.......about his wife he said...'she'll do because she likes a beer and a root' ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandy Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 I never know if "he" is the one. You would think u do know sometimes, but u just dont. Until u 2 actually grow old together, and the only reason u part, is cause of death. Then u would sit there and think, she/he was the one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluecat Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 Until u 2 actually grow old together, and the only reason u part, is cause of death. Then u would sit there and think, she/he was the one. Sandy, not smoking does you a lot of good. You will always know. When it is too late,... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KevinN Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 If she's got you by the nuts, your heart and mind will always follow. Lizards can drop their tails; too bad we can't drop our nuts. How true,,but that is one of the design faults of the human body,,nuts stay and your teeth fall out. Seems like the things that we don't use anymore would be the first to go,not something you have a need for til the day you die. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stocky Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 I reckon there is no 'right one'...................people are all individuals and to think we can find the perfect one is a bit silly. How do you know you are the right one for her ? She tells you right !! My brother had it right.......about his wife he said...'she'll do because she likes a beer and a root' ! Struth, talk about sticking to the national stereotype Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluecat Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 Seems like the things that we don't use anymore would be the first to go,not something you have a need for til the day you die. You're right, Kevin. In Asia, no need of teeth, the food does not require much chewing. Or much cutting. Hence no knifes available. But,.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rainman Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 Until u 2 actually grow old together, and the only reason u part, is cause of death. Like falling off the couch together at age 80? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 She's the one when you think more of her than yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rainman Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 She's the one when you think more of her than yourself. "She took my money, the kids AND is now going out with a guy 20 years younger than herself. I can't stop thinking about it ...she was the one!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stroll Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 "She took my money, the kids AND is now going out with a guy 20 years younger than herself. I can't stop thinking about it ...she was the one!" Looking at your new avatar, I believe you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghengis Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 How Do You Know She Is The One, how special she is? I work with a guy who looks after the computer network - he must be about 35. He was in a pop band when he was younger and had some hair. His girlfriend has just left him; maybe she was fed up of his lack of commitment. I think he is an example of someone who is clinging on to the 'rock star' lifestyle, which has faded a long time ago and now needs to 'get real' or face a lifetime of being a sad old bachelor. Getting older means that your expectations of 'The One' need to become more realistic. No, Claudia Schiffer will not want you as her shagmeister. Maybe someone who can look after you, be your friend, laugh at your jokes should be 'The One'. Maybe someone who likes you for what you are, not the flash 1000CC motor bike or sports car you drive. Maybe someone you can totally relax with, someone you don't have to impress constantly. Maybe she is your best friend, almost a part of you. I think you know it when she is not there - only then can you appreciate the gaping hole in your life without her. How Do You Know She Is The One - I think the answer is 'pure contentment’. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alleypanda Posted July 3, 2004 Author Share Posted July 3, 2004 Getting older means that your expectations of 'The One' need to become more realistic. No, Claudia Schiffer will not want you as her shagmeister. Maybe someone who can look after you, be your friend, laugh at your jokes should be 'The One'. Maybe someone who likes you for what you are, not the flash 1000CC motor bike or sports car you drive. Maybe someone you can totally relax with, someone you don't have to impress constantly. Maybe she is your best friend, almost a part of you. I think you know it when she is not there - only then can you appreciate the gaping hole in your life without her. How Do You Know She Is The One - I think the answer is 'pure contentment’. That was wonderful writing.I really like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snapshot Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 How Do You Know She Is The One - I think the answer is 'pure contentment’. Good thinking ghengis ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluecat Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 How Do You Know She Is The One - I think the answer is 'pure contentment’. Good thinking ghengis ... More like no more thinking,... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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