Tell Me... Would You Seriously Consider A Relation

[meemiathai]

tell me... would you seriously consider a relationship let alone marriage to a prostitute in your own country?

I see this question all the time here.

And my answer is "WHY NOT?"!

It really matters why or what had got her into that situation, doesn't it?

[Erawan]

I think that's more of a wake up call to their possible hypocrisy. They may have some 'romantic ideal' surrounding the whole thing of marrying a prostitute from a foreign country.

[ThaiPauly]

Prostitutes become Prostitutes for many different reasons, mostly financial, OK in the UK many University students go through college selling themselves to get their degree. I have seen blue movies where they actually interview the student before she gets down to it!!! (made in the good ole' US of A)

If you are a BUYER then there must be a SELLER. I married a bar girl and am glad I did. I was buying, she was selling, does that make me better than her just because I HAVE money?If you saw her you would not think she had ever been a bar girl ( and NO I am not posting her pic) but "Needs Must When the devil drives" How can you support a child and give him/her a reasonable existance without MONEY. How can you live on 5,000 baht a month? Could anybody reading this do it? what does "Girl from bar" think. In my 2 years here I have never come accross a BG who actually does it out of choice, but WE go to Cowboy, Nana, Patpong because we CHOOSE to. (I dont anymore -but that is irrelevant)

Some are Good, some are Bad, sod's law, you make your bed etc, my marrige may not last (I speak from experience having tied the knot 3 times before so this is my 4th marriage) But I will tell you this, if it goes T#ts Up then I knew the risk to start with, and will not be crying in my beer, I will just as like head up to the three places I mentioned before and try again,

hey guys, we've only one life, LIVE IT, you are a long time dead. To coin a phrase "I don't give a hoot" what you out there think, I am HAPPY and those that look down on me, hey S##W you, you are not me and for christ's sake leave your morals in "Moral Land" = Farang Land

Sorry to go on- it's passion

[meom]

Indeed why not? I started the relation while she was still working; I am not the jealous type so I didn't really care that she must've f****d a couple of thousand guys before me. In the end I was the last one standing I suppose and outside the bedroom we really enjoyed eachother's company so whatever she did before was never an issue.

Although I have to admit that she gave better head while working

[mbkudu]

Although I have to admit that she gave better head while working

In most conventional western marriages this activity ceases after marriage. It's a worm on the hook so to speak.

And no, I don't have a link to prove it.

[myfriendu]

i have married a bg,and so pleased i have,we have great sex,good fun,go traveling together,we live in uk for six months,thailand the next,she still does the old job in the uk,yes ###### for money 3 days a week the money is great,she earns twice as much as me,she runs a flat also were other girls work,her family are set up,she doesnt want to go live back in bangkok full time,she has many thai friends in the uk,she loves her bmw,she could not of got that working the gogo in nana,im so happy,it works for us,i call her wonder women,her smile can kill a man at 10 feet we have a 3 year plan,going to sell up and set up in koh chang,i could not of done this at such a young age,if not for her,it works for me,dont care what anyone on here thinks,its my life,its my only one,only thing i can say is,bg or not learn to understand your lady,and in turn she will understand you,she makes me laugh every day,thats so important,flame me if you want,im not going to reply

[Harry Palmer]

do the guys that have married a prostitute actually tell their friends & family, about her former profession? what's the reaction?

i don't condone or condem those that choose to marry or comit to a relationship with a prostitute... it's just odd, in my opinion...

[meemiathai]

If both of you are happy with this lifestyle, then everything is fine. It's your life.

[Harry Palmer]

If both of you are happy with this lifestyle, then everything is fine. It's your life.

indeed...

[ThaiPauly]

Harry says "Indeed" as you would expect him to as he is now in grovelling mode, that was not his stance earlier, he was (in other topics realted to this one) very codesending towards me marrying bargirls- on the run now Harry?, well run and run mate, we are getting to suss you out.

[Axel]

do the guys that have married a prostitute actually tell their friends & family, about her former profession? what's the reaction?

These kind of questions psychos me off. Before we go on discussing, can somebody explain to me what is a prostitute?

Is it the girl who marries to get a better future?

Is it the girl who marries her father's business partner to rescue the company?

Is it the princess who marries the neighbouring country's prince to re-unite the kingdom?

Is any girl who take of her pants FOR YOU a prostitute?

Jeez, get real and stop drooling.

[ThaiPauly]

do the guys that have married a prostitute actually tell their friends & family, about her former profession? what's the reaction?

These kind of questions psychos me off. Before we go on discussing, can somebody explain to me what is a prostitute?

Is it the girl who marries to get a better future?

Is it the girl who marries her father's business partner to rescue the company?

Is it the princess who marries the neighbouring country's prince to re-unite the kingdom?

Is any girl who take of her pants FOR YOU a prostitute?

Jeez, get real and stop drooling.

You are spot on Axel, what the f33k has it got to do with him, I hope you see what mean about him. I think he is lying through his teeth. What sort of question is that to ask?

well for the record I met my wife on Sukhumvit Soi 33 (Well known to many) I have told all my family where I met her and what she WAS, there I have said it now, and I do not give a flying F##K what other people think that why zealots like HP pi#s me off, its got FA to do with him and should be of no interset considering his perfect life. For the record Axel I DO deserve my Wife and I am a GOOD husband to her, but.... well.... him, I want to stick on of his speard right up his a##e.

sorry I dont mean any harm, but I defend those that have relationships or marriages to BG's so attack people like me at your peril (not you Axel) I am here so shoot me, Come On!!!

[meom]

do the guys that have married a prostitute actually tell their friends & family, about her former profession? what's the reaction?

i don't condone or condem those that choose to marry or comit to a relationship with a prostitute... it's just odd, in my opinion...

I am not exactly a romantic guy so was never very good at chatting up to girls in the pub or whatever. " Fancy a <deleted>" were words not immediately appreciated by the average falang girl.

So I ended up with a prostitute; family was happy for me blablabla. Nothing odd about it.

[Axel]

Sukhumvit Soi 33 (Well known to many)

No TP, 33 is high class.

Sorry, now no joke, a few years ago I talked to a client who asked me if I could recommend some foreigners who might be willing to handle his business here.

I did, a few friends who I knew for years, married in Thailand and running their own companies.

Client comments: I don't want anybody who got a prostitute here and married.

That's when I looked at his wife, Filipina, and said "Darling havn't we met before?"

To him in his own language, "No, I don't think so, she is too beautiful for your brains.

[kitty]

Can i just ask...

If a man met a prostitute in the Uk i doubt very much he would forget what she was before or marry her.

Why does it seem to be different in Thailand? as if because they are prostituting in Thailand it's because they "have" too.

[bodypaul]

No Kitty I think the way prostitutes sell their wares is so different in Thailand and the Far East to the western world.

In Thailand the bar / go-go bar girls treat you like a boyfriend!

In the West generally the prostitutes are short time 15 /30 minute shags. No kissing no touching the breasts and various other rules. Just shoot your bolt and go. Escorts are slightly different but are a lot more expensive!

The big difference is that the guys in Thailand are made to feel special ..... just like you picked someone up in a pub in USA or England but generally a lot prettier and slimmer than they would be able to there.

It is an ego boost to the guys in Thailand generallly as the girls can be a lot younger than in the West. If they asked a girl of the same age in England for a dance (never mind a shag) they would be told "<deleted> off you pervert!!"

Most of the prossies in England do it to feed a drug habit and are so rough as well. THEY HAVE TO to feed the habit.

I hope this makes sense to you!!

Paul

[RooBoy]

While I have no interest in condemning anyone, nor would I judge them for their choices of marriage, I would not marry a prostitute at home, neither would I do it overseas. Just doesnt do it for me..

[penelope]

Each to there own I say.

Strip away all the bulls**t, the stuff we accumlate or are born with, the social labels ,the dinner tables,the attitudes.....and we are all just people trying to get happy.

Everyones road is different, but the destination is the same.

[Felt 35]

Christian Marriage

Ephesians 1-33.

1 Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. 2 And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma. 3 But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints; 4 neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks. 5 For this you know, F13 that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. 7 Therefore do not be partakers with them. 8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light 9 (for the fruit of the Spirit* is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), 10 finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. 11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. 12 For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret. 13 But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light. 14 Therefore He says: "Awake, you who sleep, Arise from the dead, And Christ will give you light." 15 See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, 16 redeeming the time, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is. 18 And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, 20 giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21 submitting to one another in the fear of God. [/b]22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing,but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. 30 For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. 31 "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

[Narachon]

Uhhhh...

[ThaiPauly]

A Sermon for our own good no doubt, we should read it carefully and take everything on board

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