Why Does The Danish Man Have What I Don't?

[zaza]

OK!

Here is my outrageous rant

There is a freshly-new handsome young Danish man in the establishment I work for he started working a couple of weeks ago with us; and ever since he has started working here; he got it all smoothly and so easily for him, he got all the local staff :helping-showing all the ropes-facilitating-translating-feeding-tour guiding-insighting-enlighting-filling forms-applying for credit cards-pampering-bringing coffee to his desk!-over and on and only for................HIM

I don't want this kind of services; I can depend on myself somehow to get around most of it.

But I can't stop comparing the difference between our starts(me and him),by my time when I started with them; I never had any of the above mentioned easily; I always had to beg-ask-plead and rattle to get their help if I need it.(And NO- don't assume I am a bitch in the office;so I deserve what I got: I do have a pleasant social personality in real life though )

I am hel_l jealous now of his status in the office;although; we work in a complete different separated work-assignments but still in the same room. I know it's not his fault! In fact, we get along perfectly well together, but I can't stop being envious!

I am a farang too(falang-this one is for you-gallo-garro ) so; wth; is this a new kind of discrimination going around here? HUH????????

I had confronted the local staff yesterday of my ""jealousy-rant"" and they've said: am not blonde as him to be regarded as a farang!

OK! if this is it :

THEN:I will buy WELLA -EXTRA-Golden-blond hair color and dye my hair and will use colored-green or blue contact lenses and I will see if me turning into a white Caucasians' farang looking woman; things would change in my office or not? Will I be treated like a god too or not?

Good on you ""falang men"" here; you got it all ;IMHO

[barky]

It seems you answered your own question. You've got almost nothing in your favour.

Your not a man, nor western or at least white skinned enough. If most of the staff are women, then can't you kinda put 2 and 2 together?

[ShugNorris]

It was only a rant but I wouldn't be jealous, this guy sounds like he's living the dream, you should be happy for him.

Or... spread a vicious rumour that he is in fact gay.

EDIT: Jealous - Always gets me

Edited August 6, 2008 by ShugNorris

[lifeisrandom]

Physical attractiveness is something highly valued in the world, and even more valued in Thailand than it is in the West. It sounds like thats the problem. Plus, as always, it seems like Thai men are too shy or uninterested to show farang women any love, whereas it sounds like the ladies in the office are drawing straws to see who goes first.

[zaza]

It seems you answered your own question. You've got almost nothing in your favour.

Your not a man, nor western or at least white skinned enough. If most of the staff are women, then can't you kinda put 2 and 2 together?

The sum is 4, right?

[PoorSucker]

Men from the north are good.

It's that simple.

[cynthialee]

is it the men fawning over this danish stud or it is the women?

its a fact of like very few got charisma, this guy got it, you dont!

[zaza]

Physical attractiveness is something highly valued in the world, and even more valued in Thailand than it is in the West. It sounds like thats the problem. Plus, as always, it seems like Thai men are too shy or uninterested to show farang women any love, whereas it sounds like the ladies in the office are drawing straws to see who goes first.

There was only one IT Thai lad when I did start working ; he was helping me until he resigned a month later, because the other female local staff were bugging him and mocking him because of that ........

[ozsamurai]

This sounds like my elder sisters, you know when we were young we didn't have as much freedom as you, we didn't get the cool toys like you, you're spoilt... to which my answer is Thanks for wearing the parents in....by the time I got there it was all smooth sailing. So that's what you were perhaps, the first draft! You can take solice in the fact that your hard won knowledge is a far better education than what is being done to him, at the end, he ends up clueless really since they did it all for him.....touche!

[larvidchr]

Vikings rule :D

[zaza]

is it the men fawning over this danish stud or it is the women?

its a fact of like very few got charisma, this guy got it, you dont!

I have the charisma but I don't have other characteristics that he has such as being not ""handsome"" enough

[cynthialee]

charismatic doesnt mean handsome. bill clinton got it.

[PoorSucker]

Sounds like you fancy him

Oh, and vikings rule...

[bachelor]

This sounds like my elder sisters, you know when we were young we didn't have as much freedom as you, we didn't get the cool toys like you, you're spoilt... to which my answer is Thanks for wearing the parents in....by the time I got there it was all smooth sailing. So that's what you were perhaps, the first draft! You can take solice in the fact that your hard won knowledge is a far better education than what is being done to him, at the end, he ends up clueless really since they did it all for him.....touche!

Absolutely spot on with that answer

[koheesti]

It sounds like petty jealousy is eating you up from the inside. If might help to realise that there are probably some things in life that are easier for you than they are for this Dane. So you're even.

[zaza]

This sounds like my elder sisters, you know when we were young we didn't have as much freedom as you, we didn't get the cool toys like you, you're spoilt... to which my answer is Thanks for wearing the parents in....by the time I got there it was all smooth sailing. So that's what you were perhaps, the first draft! You can take solice in the fact that your hard won knowledge is a far better education than what is being done to him, at the end, he ends up clueless really since they did it all for him.....touche!

That is right I guess, I was the first pioneer non-local staff here. When the 1st Korean lad came in ;he was married ;so all were disappointed. Then the 2nd Korean man joined in;also was married but he enjoys playing around out in the wild not in the office so both were ruled out. Then; there was the Japanese lad who is hooked up with one of them now but he didn't last too long before he was taken; so I wasn't able to notice this kind of (Special Privilege) that is given to that lad. There were other men-staff from other Asian countries ;but all had not been blissed with such pleasures.

[donna]

i think that he doesnt necessarily need to have anything, zaza. just the fact that he is there may be enough.

you are gorgeous anyway, and dont need to have to deliver coffee with a smile to get a bloke.

[cynthialee]

zaza you looking for a man? are you a man also? im kinda lost.

[zaza]

i think that he doesnt necessarily need to have anything, zaza. just the fact that he is there may be enough.

you are gorgeous anyway, and dont need to have to deliver coffee with a smile to get a bloke.

Thanks honey!

In fact; I can share all but I will never ever offer or deliver coffee to anyone; It's hardly enough for me

[zaza]

zaza you looking for a man? are you a man also? im kinda lost.

me too

[cynthialee]

dont worry lots of avaialble women for women in bangkok. i see em everyday all over town! holding hands aand all that good stuff. im sure one will take a liking to you. good luck!

Edited August 6, 2008 by cynthialee

[DB84]

We've got the swagger.

BR,

Some other young Danish guy

[donna]

zaza is one hot mama.

[TheDon]

Could you imagine if I turned up to your office?

The place would go into a frenzy.

Mate grow some nuts, its all about confidence, you could look like a douche bag and still pick up all the ladies.

having both like myself also comes in handy.

[zaza]

Could you imagine if I turned up to your office?

The place would go into a frenzy.

Mate grow some nuts, its all about confidence, you could look like a douche bag and still pick up all the ladies.

having both like myself also comes in handy.

[percy2]

Could you imagine if I turned up to your office?

The place would go into a frenzy.

Mate grow some nuts, its all about confidence, you could look like a douche bag and still pick up all the ladies.

having both like myself also comes in handy.

Not many people have the confidence to admit they look like a douche bag , I'll give you that.

Cheeers

[donna]

guys, zaza is a woman. not a bloke.

[cynthialee]

hey the don, zaza is a womans woman. she doesnt have balls......................lol.

to be fair donna she comes across as being a dude!

Edited August 6, 2008 by cynthialee

[zaza]

hey the don, zaza is a womans woman. she doesnt have balls......................lol.

to be fair donna she comes across as being a dude!

and what are you ? can you tell by now

[TheDon]

Oh ok then, well I have no idea what to say.

I would get you a coffee if I was there.