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WHATEVER YOU DO...DO NOT JUST GIVE HER MONEY OR BUY HER THINGS THAT IS TOO EXPENSIVE WHEN YOU MEET HER...she will just expect the gifts to keep on coming..and i hope she does not ask you to buy alcohol for the whole village if that is in fact where her hometown is...NEVER AGREE TO SEND HER MONTHLY ALLOWANCES...as this is a sign that she is using you for money..if she likes you she could truly accept all of this that i just mentioned, if not, run....run far away

There are exceptions. I have to pay my GF to go away. A couple of thousand baht and she goes home for a week. 4 thousand baht and she will stay for two weeks. No worries she always comes back.

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Very common on these dating websites are Thai women that are escorts who describe themselves as tour guides or as a companion for the duration of a foreigner's visit to Thailand, for an agreed price of course or the visitor will be expected to pay for all expenses including himself, the girl and her services.

These are not always ladies of ill repute, but can be those that are seeking to earn additional income apart from working at they’re regular jobs. Could be described as a sort of higher market escort service. As a matter of fact, the servicing of businessmen and single tourist visitors to Thailand has proven to be a lucrative business for many educated Thai women.

There are no concerns regarding any sleeping arrangements as this is included in the service or with how kind and generous the girl is expecting the visitor to be for her company during the trip.

A dumbed down Prostitute that has a Map, sounds great..

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Very common on these dating websites are Thai women that are escorts who describe themselves as tour guides or as a companion for the duration of a foreigner's visit to Thailand, for an agreed price of course or the visitor will be expected to pay for all expenses including himself, the girl and her services.

These are not always ladies of ill repute, but can be those that are seeking to earn additional income apart from working at they’re regular jobs. Could be described as a sort of higher market escort service. As a matter of fact, the servicing of businessmen and single tourist visitors to Thailand has proven to be a lucrative business for many educated Thai women.

There are no concerns regarding any sleeping arrangements as this is included in the service or with how kind and generous the girl is expecting the visitor to be for her company during the trip.

A dumbed down Prostitute that has a Map, sounds great..

A woman who can read a map is not dumb, that is a rare find. Marry her quick.

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F1 Fantasist

EVERYONE wants respect. The difference is that whilst everyone demands it, only a few people deserve it.

We all know that and only show respect where it is deserved and earned.

[END QUOTE]

Sirinoue

though it is a valid respond (" whilst everyone demands it, only a few people deserve it.")

is easy to enter the "slippery slope " of becoming the arbiter of who merits respect and who does not.

Personally As I get older , finally, I have learn that I have very little control over other peoples behavior, and the only thing that I really have control over, is my own behavior,

So I have decided to treat all people with respect, and “Let the chips fall where they may”. It is an attitude that I highly recommend to everyone.It is truly a liberating attitude.

[uNQUOTE]

In this respect (no pun intended) I agree with you Sirinoue. WHO said 'that whilst everyone DEMANDS it'?! I suspect from F1's previous postings it's herself. Look out, your slip's showing ...

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well that's different, i can see that, but i mean as far as unnecessary spending goes...if it sounds silly, then don't do it

WHATEVER YOU DO...DO NOT JUST GIVE HER MONEY OR BUY HER THINGS THAT IS TOO EXPENSIVE WHEN YOU MEET HER...she will just expect the gifts to keep on coming..and i hope she does not ask you to buy alcohol for the whole village if that is in fact where her hometown is...NEVER AGREE TO SEND HER MONTHLY ALLOWANCES...as this is a sign that she is using you for money..if she likes you she could truly accept all of this that i just mentioned, if not, run....run far away

There are exceptions. I have to pay my GF to go away. A couple of thousand baht and she goes home for a week. 4 thousand baht and she will stay for two weeks. No worries she always comes back.

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WHATEVER YOU DO...DO NOT JUST GIVE HER MONEY OR BUY HER THINGS THAT IS TOO EXPENSIVE WHEN YOU MEET HER...she will just expect the gifts to keep on coming..and i hope she does not ask you to buy alcohol for the whole village if that is in fact where her hometown is...NEVER AGREE TO SEND HER MONTHLY ALLOWANCES...as this is a sign that she is using you for money..if she likes you she could truly accept all of this that i just mentioned, if not, run....run far away

There are exceptions. I have to pay my GF to go away. A couple of thousand baht and she goes home for a week. 4 thousand baht and she will stay for two weeks. No worries she always comes back.

You pay your GF to go away??

Thats incredibly generous of you Marky..mine does it for free (go away that is :P )

Havent you ever considered the possibility that they might be deliberately going away to either visit (shake down) BF 2,3, or 4...OR visit the thai BF?

You'd have to assume a lot of it goes on, but i guess at least they are good enough to give us a few weeks vacation without expenses..lets you build up the wallet again.:rolleyes:

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WHATEVER YOU DO...DO NOT JUST GIVE HER MONEY OR BUY HER THINGS THAT IS TOO EXPENSIVE WHEN YOU MEET HER...she will just expect the gifts to keep on coming..and i hope she does not ask you to buy alcohol for the whole village if that is in fact where her hometown is...NEVER AGREE TO SEND HER MONTHLY ALLOWANCES...as this is a sign that she is using you for money..if she likes you she could truly accept all of this that i just mentioned, if not, run....run far away

There are exceptions. I have to pay my GF to go away. A couple of thousand baht and she goes home for a week. 4 thousand baht and she will stay for two weeks. No worries she always comes back.

You pay your GF to go away??

Thats incredibly generous of you Marky..mine does it for free (go away that is :P )

Havent you ever considered the possibility that they might be deliberately going away to either visit (shake down) BF 2,3, or 4...OR visit the thai BF?

You'd have to assume a lot of it goes on, but i guess at least they are good enough to give us a few weeks vacation without expenses..lets you build up the wallet again.:rolleyes:

Poor research, mate.

Do your background reading, and then try and wind him up.

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Just as I suspected might happen, the OP is gone after his initial post. He was either a troll or we scared him so much he never came back. It happens all the time.

I should learn to never try and honestly help someone. Just let them make the mistakes that we all learned the hard way. Whatever you say, no matter how well thought out, it will ALWAYS be taken the wrong way and twisted into something entirely different by those who like to criticize. It is amazing how some people can jump to wild conclusions, using the barest of assumptions on which to base their viewpoint.

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If this is not a troll you then are going to get a lot of odd replies to this subject. It comes up so frequently that eveyone has a go at the poster. Read some of the old stories and you will know what I mean.

I've always had success leaving it up to the women to make the decision about intimacy. If you can read body language at all then you will know what I mean. Proper Thai women are actually quite modest and shy. If they are not then that is when your signals better be on high alert. Proper Thai women do not jump into bed with strangers until they get to know each other better. Part time hookers also use the dating sites to meet men who they MIGHT want to have a relationship with. They usually start asking for things after the first night of sex.

Good luck.

wHAT'S A PROPER tHAI WOMAN?

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If this is not a troll you then are going to get a lot of odd replies to this subject. It comes up so frequently that eveyone has a go at the poster. Read some of the old stories and you will know what I mean.

I've always had success leaving it up to the women to make the decision about intimacy. If you can read body language at all then you will know what I mean. Proper Thai women are actually quite modest and shy. If they are not then that is when your signals better be on high alert. Proper Thai women do not jump into bed with strangers until they get to know each other better. Part time hookers also use the dating sites to meet men who they MIGHT want to have a relationship with. They usually start asking for things after the first night of sex.

Good luck.

wHAT'S A PROPER tHAI WOMAN?

gOOD qUESTION :)

Im thinking the word "proper" (in BK anyway) might include one whos married to a Thai, got a few kids, possibly works when she can, and has never been to Khao san road or to the places farangs frequent in Sukkhumvit :whistling:

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If this is not a troll you then are going to get a lot of odd replies to this subject. It comes up so frequently that eveyone has a go at the poster. Read some of the old stories and you will know what I mean.

I've always had success leaving it up to the women to make the decision about intimacy. If you can read body language at all then you will know what I mean. Proper Thai women are actually quite modest and shy. If they are not then that is when your signals better be on high alert. Proper Thai women do not jump into bed with strangers until they get to know each other better. Part time hookers also use the dating sites to meet men who they MIGHT want to have a relationship with. They usually start asking for things after the first night of sex.

Good luck.

wHAT'S A PROPER tHAI WOMAN?

One that realizes that jumping into bed with strangers is a perfect way to get to know each other better.

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wHAT'S A PROPER tHAI WOMAN?

gOOD qUESTION :)

Im thinking the word "proper" (in BK anyway) might include one whos married to a Thai, got a few kids, possibly works when she can, and has never been to Khao san road or to the places farangs frequent in Sukkhumvit :whistling:

Exactly. But her husband has a mia noi, and the proper Thai wife also has something running at the side.

As long nobody knows. Why do "motels" have curtains for the cars? They are solely for proper Thai husbands and wifes!

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wHAT'S A PROPER tHAI WOMAN?

gOOD qUESTION :)

Im thinking the word "proper" (in BK anyway) might include one whos married to a Thai, got a few kids, possibly works when she can, and has never been to Khao san road or to the places farangs frequent in Sukkhumvit :whistling:

Exactly. But her husband has a mia noi, and the proper Thai wife also has something running at the side.

As long nobody knows. Why do "motels" have curtains for the cars? They are solely for proper Thai husbands and wifes!

I use them too. My car is shy.

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If this is not a troll you then are going to get a lot of odd replies to this subject. It comes up so frequently that eveyone has a go at the poster. Read some of the old stories and you will know what I mean.

I've always had success leaving it up to the women to make the decision about intimacy. If you can read body language at all then you will know what I mean. Proper Thai women are actually quite modest and shy. If they are not then that is when your signals better be on high alert. Proper Thai women do not jump into bed with strangers until they get to know each other better. Part time hookers also use the dating sites to meet men who they MIGHT want to have a relationship with. They usually start asking for things after the first night of sex.

Good luck.

wHAT'S A PROPER tHAI WOMAN?

One that realizes that jumping into bed with strangers is a perfect way to get to know each other better.

It has been very cold for the pasts three days.

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Girls from that site are all desperate and clingy, and the only thing on their mind is getting freaky all the time. there is no socialising on the site just getting contacts from strangers.

Goodluck with your girl, like you even need a luck.

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