ishan14 Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 hey all the farangs out there , i require some suggestions on what should i do with my thai wife cuz recently there's been a lot of weird stuff goin on in our relationship and i really don't know how to get out of all this . i have been in a relationship with her for like an year and 7 months now , and it seems like as the time keeps on passing she keeps on changing into a more dominating, rude and feelingless kinda person. screamin shit about me and my family on the road with everyone listening for no bloody reason, tryin to hit me , breaking stuff etc. is all what im goin thru for since the last 5-6 months. The reason this is not normal because i don't have any ego problems or me being superior, with her and im quite sure she's not after my money cuz its never been dat way b/w us. its been this way from the day when we had our first child. im not sure if it has to do anything with that or not but the main point is everythings goin outta my hands, she's forced me to not talk to my folks back home and even tried to suffocate our 5 month child at times.. i really dont know what should i do? everything i own is registerd in her name , i made a big mistake and now im STUCK Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edwinclapham Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 (edited) A dreadful situation to be in, I feel for you. My major priority would be to safeguard your child. That would be paramount for me. I would be seeking immediate legal advice very very swiftly. Your wife could well be in need of some good professional medical help particularly after giving birth where her hormones have been disrupted, but sort a place of safety for your child immediately. Eddie Edited July 22, 2012 by edwinclapham 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomTao Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 You may want to go to the local police station and start making reports every time something happens, so that you have a running record with the police just in case things get really bad, and do all that is in your power to protect your child. Sent from my GT-I9003 using Thaivisa Connect App Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 A dreadful situation to be in, I feel for you. My major priority would be to safeguard your child. That would be paramount for me. I would be seeking immediate legal advice very very swiftly. Your wife could well be in need of some good professional medical help particularly after giving birth where her hormones have been disrupted, but sort a place of safety for your child immediately. Eddie Yeap time to get out the way for a while with the child, also as regards your statement... "with her and im quite sure she's not after my money cuz its never been dat way b/w us"...of course it isnt as it appears you have already given her everything... First step...get the kid and get away for a while, dont tell her were you are going... just get away stay in contact by phone...if all of sudden with you gone she all becomes "nice" again...then seek legal advice...as she is playing you, and maybe time to get out 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meom Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 She might have post natal depression. Go see a doctor or shrink. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geekfreaklover Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 post-natal-depression. Had the same thing with my Thai ex-wife. Good advice above. I went to the police station, gathered reports, and then took my ex to court and obtained custody of our child. Hope it works out for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edwinclapham Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 (edited) I am always interested at what point does one become classified as a Troll on a forum. Do some guys join due to a specific problem, hence Post No 1? Stating that the OP's wife has been known to try and suffocate the child then as a Troll surely this would be some sort of sick joke! Hence I prefer to believe! I always feel it is better to reply than to ridicule disbelieve. Being naive can have its benefits OP, enclosing a link which may be of interest to you. http://www.blackdoginstitute.org.au/public/depression/inpregnancypostnatal/postnataldepressionpnd.cfm Edited July 22, 2012 by edwinclapham 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geekfreaklover Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Troll or not, the above situation happens. And readers can benefit from any advice should they find themselves in the same situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajw1982 Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 If the OP is legit, maybe he also has problems if he's got to come on an internet forum to get advice while his kid's life is at risk. Grow a pair, grab your kid and get out. Then you can evaluate your options (with a lawyer). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharp Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 hey all the farangs out there , i require some suggestions on what should i do with my thai wife cuz recently there's been a lot of weird stuff goin on in our relationship and i really don't know how to get out of all this . i have been in a relationship with her for like an year and 7 months now , and it seems like as the time keeps on passing she keeps on changing into a more dominating, rude and feelingless kinda person. screamin shit about me and my family on the road with everyone listening for no bloody reason, tryin to hit me , breaking stuff etc. is all what im goin thru for since the last 5-6 months. The reason this is not normal because i don't have any ego problems or me being superior, with her and im quite sure she's not after my money cuz its never been dat way b/w us. its been this way from the day when we had our first child. im not sure if it has to do anything with that or not but the main point is everythings goin outta my hands, she's forced me to not talk to my folks back home and even tried to suffocate our 5 month child at times.. i really dont know what should i do? everything i own is registerd in her name , i made a big mistake and now im STUCK Report her to the police first, god forbid something happens to the child and you will blamed or accused . Sent from my iPad using ThaiVisa app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ishan14 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Share Posted July 22, 2012 my lawyer sucks ,he;s some indian guy in samut prakan , everytime i discuss anything of this kind with him , he's never helpful . the guy always tells me to not to get into a problem with any person who's thai. im tryin my best to keep my child away from her. im worried if she can sue me or something if i take the child and go back to my country and what if i sale all my assests and take the cash with me too. is there anything she can do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 my lawyer sucks ,he;s some indian guy in samut prakan , everytime i discuss anything of this kind with him , he's never helpful . the guy always tells me to not to get into a problem with any person who's thai. im tryin my best to keep my child away from her. im worried if she can sue me or something if i take the child and go back to my country and what if i sale all my assests and take the cash with me too. is there anything she can do? In this situation do not just abscond with the child, she could possibly have you up for kidnapping further, if you sell "your assets" per your previous statement are in her name could also have you charged on Theft/fraud...if these assets are in her name...they are not yours...they are her's...end of story. Get away somewhere in Thailand, phone her, tell her you have got to get out of her way for a while because of the way she is acting..but do not tell her were you are, if you dont want to talk to her..leave a note then. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Nonsense posts have been removed. Some people do come on here seeking advice from our seasoned members, if you have nothing to contribute, don't bother posting. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ishan14 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Share Posted July 22, 2012 i think that's what im gonna do. thanks people for your help. thot no one cares about what all i was going through . feels good to have shared all this . THANKYOU EVERYONE :'( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ishan14 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Share Posted July 22, 2012 i have never seen someone so stomnehearted and selfish. dat bitch keeps on troubling me . i feel like comitting suicide Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JSixpack Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 what if i sale all my assests and take the cash with me too. is there anything she can do? You said everything you own is in her name, so you got nothing to sell. Now that you've verified your troll status, bye! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ishan14 Posted July 22, 2012 Author Share Posted July 22, 2012 do u guys even know what a troll means. u dumbass thats wrong to say to a person who is in trobule hope you suffer the same as im sufferring U TROLL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 If the OP is legit, maybe he also has problems if he's got to come on an internet forum to get advice while his kid's life is at risk. Grow a pair, grab your kid and get out. Then you can evaluate your options (with a lawyer). Exactly what I was going to say. If the baby is at risk of being seriously harmed or killed, than get that child and yourself away from your wife, pronto. After that and if you still wish to be in a relationship with your wife, than seek counselling and some professional psychiatric treatment for her, if she refuses, than it`s as our ajw1982' says; go and hire a lawyer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacktrip Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 How is you/her relationship with her Thai family? The family Thai's that bind are significant. It could be a cultural issue with her having problems having a western family, which snapped after the child was born. Strange that she is focusing on your family rather then just snapping in general. I think that tells you something. Family therapy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdnvic Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 do u guys even know what a troll means. u dumbass thats wrong to say to a person who is in trobule hope you suffer the same as im sufferring U TROLL When you learn to post with readable English and some degree of politeness you may get a proper answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.png.3b3332cc2256ad0edbc2fe9404feeef0.png)
Recommended Posts