if a Thai girl who isn't a bar girl accepts money for sex....

[wym]

for many of us, that is a huge waste of time, money and effort, and in thailand, geographically difficult as well

All depends on your priorities dunnit? Me, I just can't see settling for a 32-year-old, some of my ex's from when I first got here might be hitting that range about now?

Plus they can be sweet when they're so grateful. . .

[Scarpolo]

i have got a "lady friend" picking me up from airport soon, must stress "not a bargirl" ha ha!! has got a new car - house in chiang mai - nice 2 bed condo in rama111, i worked out she earned 84,0000 baht this month.,(probably company car and company house) yeah as if, her sister also very well off, their mum thinks they have a "good job" in the city, well they do ??, send loads of dosh home to ma ma, so she aint complaining too much me thinks.

Are you saying a bar girl earned 84,000 Baht in a month? that's impossible..

i know a ladyboy wo makes more than that ,drives a red sportscar and owns her own condo

all the topp girls in poseidon or anywhere big and expensive clear a few grand per customer

and thats not even counting the money they get from overseas bank transfers lol

what world r u living in ?

Thats a fact:

And, I do not think they pay taxes, so, they are far better off financially than most of their peers, including many small business and restaurant owners

the good ones clear 150,000 a month, for a full month.

Edited April 4, 2014 by Scarpolo

[Scarpolo]

for many of us, that is a huge waste of time, money and effort, and in thailand, geographically difficult as well

All depends on your priorities dunnit? Me, I just can't see settling for a 32-year-old, some of my ex's from when I first got here might be hitting that range about now?

Plus they can be sweet when they're so grateful. . .

funny you should mention that,

the only fear ever expressed by my soap star, was that I would want a younger girl,, as she considers herself old at 32

[wym]

Heather Thomas in the Fall Guy...or is that just me?! hehe

Maybe just you, never heard of either, maybe I was out of the country or something when that aired.

[wym]

as she considers herself old at 32

Rightly so by Thai standards she's all washed up.

[Donnie Brasco]

Will she be willing to share the proceeds with you.

It'll be a cross cultural gesture on both your parts, right.

As well, this is the issue that really separates the men from the boys.

(Enough for a thin crust meat lovers pizza and a 3 litre box of red wine.)

Only then will you know.

Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app

[speedtripler]

i know a ladyboy wo makes more than that ,drives a red sportscar and owns her own condo

all the topp girls in poseidon or anywhere big and expensive clear a few grand per customer

and thats not even counting the money they get from overseas bank transfers lol

what world r u living in ?

He's now saying he got the exchange rate wrong 8-)

theres a special catalogue for almost super-model quality women .........

the rich thais that drive ferraris and lamborghinis can afford etc

(i know this because my old employer showed me a girl he paid almost 60k to spend a coulpe of hours with but that price included

the suite and a couple of drinks and snacks 58k total )

go to poseidon ,copa cobana club on ratchada 17 ,colonze or any top end bkk knocking shops and ask to see their best girls and prices lol ......

some are also semi famous in the thai acting or modeling industry or magazine covers etc

these kind of girls command more money than you could spend ...........they have real gucci and coach bags and sunglaases

and all the other original designer shit that 99.9% of thai females copy

even a poor hooker in a relatively unwealthy pattaya suburb probably gets as much or more than any qualified professional worker

in any other industry ,the ladyboy i lived beside used to give the security guards 1000 notes as tips so she could park at the gate of our condo under the "no parking ' sign and they would push her car up or down every time the gate needed to be opened

some of them would spend a farang salary on beauty products alone in a month .........

[Scarpolo]

but escorts do not always have sex

Same with lots of go-go girls getting barfined, some for weeks' long holidays to the beach.

Save your breath, you're talking to people who think there's something wrong with it - all aspects - anyway.

I am not quite in your camp, and certainly not in the absolute moralists camp.

I dont need to be entertained by a 20 something year old and prefer the 30's.

I enjoyed IMMENSEly, girls in the mid 20's when I was divorced first time at 42, starting with two legal assistants.

Now though, I prefer some maturity, but will resist forever the notion, that I meed a "real woman"

they are too complicated. I prefer a developing woman, one not sure of her future, but sure of her past

[Scarpolo]

i know a ladyboy wo makes more than that ,drives a red sportscar and owns her own condo

all the topp girls in poseidon or anywhere big and expensive clear a few grand per customer

and thats not even counting the money they get from overseas bank transfers lol

what world r u living in ?

He's now saying he got the exchange rate wrong 8-)

theres a special catalogue for almost super-model quality women .........

the rich thais that drive ferraris and lamborghinis can afford etc

(i know this because my old employer showed me a girl he paid almost 60k to spend a coulpe of hours with but that price included

the suite and a couple of drinks and snacks 58k total )

go to poseidon ,copa cobana club on ratchada 17 ,colonze or any top end bkk knocking shops and ask to see their best girls and prices lol ......

some are also semi famous in the thai acting or modeling industry or magazine covers etc

these kind of girls command more money than you could spend ...........they have real gucci and coach bags and sunglaases

and all the other original designer shit that 99.9% of thai females copy

even a poor hooker in a relatively unwealthy pattaya suburb probably gets as much or more than any qualified professional worker

in any other industry ,the ladyboy i lived beside used to give the security guards 1000 notes as tips so she could park at the gate of our condo under the "no parking ' sign and they would push her car up or down every time the gate needed to be opened

some of them would spend a farang salary on beauty products alone in a month .........

I have been trying to tell people here this very same thing as I pulled a top girl from one of those spots, and kept her to myself.

I may have it all wrong, and according to many here, I should have held out for a "nice girl"

But I found exactly what I wanted to see in bed next to me, and I paid for it.

When we shopped, it was clear what her tatse was, and her closet spoke louder than her eyes.

Once she understood there wouldnt be any Louis Vuitton, but I would buy her any necssity she needed, she understood where I stood, and where she did as well.

She likes the arrangement, and I do want to get back and see her and lie again in the bed, of my own making.

We need not justify our desires, and our decisions, same as those who prefer it the old fashioned way,

but as the guy who was about the screw the bank manager found out,

it is all relative, and a matter of price

[casualposter]

But I found exactly what I wanted to see in bed next to me, and I paid for it.

You're obsessed.

Ever heard of the term "holiday romance"?

Sorry to be rude, but you sound hopelessly inexperienced.

[Donnie Brasco]

Harvard, Yale, Stanford, Brown, Rice, UCLA, etc. are never referred to as "colleges"

Yes they are, in the states more often than not.

Hate to tell you but you've adopted a "britishism" there

I disagree. I view it primarily as a cultural phenomenon. Among a large segment of the Thai population, concepts such as morality and ethics are either not recognized as being legitimate paradigms, or these considerations are patently ignored, with a particular demographic of Thai people deciding, if money is being made, nothing else matters. While this behavior is not restricted to Thai culture- it is often found in places where people have very limited knowledge of History/culture/Philosophy, etc., and in places where people exhibit a high level of Nationalism and feelings of cultural superiority. How many times have we seen Thai people extort their own countrymen and say, charge 3 times what something is worth? Very rarely will someone from their social group question their morality or ethics, choosing rather to believe that the seller was lucky, and that the buyer chose to buy at that price. The Thai cultural system often functions to allow it's adherents to avoid confrontation, reflexive thought, guilt, and accountability. There is a tremendous amount of latitude in Thai society because the laws are rarely enforced and Police are easily paid off. This often renders legal and ethical value systems irrelevant. When there are no repercussions for a particular action, there will be little or no fear of engaging in that action. Limited education and experience, coupled with lax enforcement of the law, exasperated by limited access to resources and the naïve nature of the Thai psyche, often result in sendind Thais into a feeding frenzy in which western ideas of morality, compassion, responsibility and the notion of fair play, have absolutely no meaning.

All that pile of excrement means is you have observed that Thais often don't conform to YOUR view of "morality".

There's nothing wrong with taking money for sex, back home OR here.

Fer chrissakes, do I have to send you letterhead ?

I'm not quoting some dumbass ESPN doofus here.

"Sometimes, 'fuggedabowdit' just means fuggedabowdit. . . . "

[Scarpolo]

But I found exactly what I wanted to see in bed next to me, and I paid for it.

You're obsessed.

Ever heard of the term "holiday romance"?

Sorry to be rude, but you sound hopelessly inexperienced.

What means you?

Of course I do,

I spent my late teen years and early adult years in Miami Beach, where new girls came every week, to the same limited clubs and hotels, and swimming pools

we mastered that art at 16

[BohemianDaddyo]

Interesting theory, Bohemian, quite at odds with the usual evolutionary theory that the female is the driver of monogamy due to her need for a provider. You could probably seduce a feminist or two with it!

Regarding female satiation, I believe that their satisfaction is much more psychological than ours. All these guys fretting about their dicks have been chasing a red herring since they were jacking off to Heather Thomas in the Fall Guy...or is that just me?! hehe

Not really at odds with evolutionary theory at all in regards to the sexual superiority of a woman over a man.. Do you really think you can keep up with a woman who is sexually liberated to enjoy sex without all the societal BS running through her head? Physically you will be unable to compete sexually with a woman.. They can exhaust one man after another in quick succession or all at once.. Men may be superior in physical strength, but not sexual abilities no matter the size of their unit or libido!

As to being the 'driver' of monogamy, I agree to disagree. Any woman I have every known always has a guy in the rear seat, or the back burner just in case the one in the driver's seat or front burner isn't working out - especially if she is pregnant or has a kid. Women I've known tend to get over a man emotionally far quicker than the other way around - nature might of intended it that way so a woman can move on quicker in securing the next provider for offspring. And again, if women are in the driver's seat of monogamy, it is because they were indoctrinated to be monogamous by the monotheistic morals of a patriarchal society to believe that monogamy is 'god's way' because the male image of society's imaginary sky daddy demands it is the 'right' way in life..

But what's the real reason once you discount that imaginary Sky Daddy? The human female is biologically no different than many other female species in that she was designed by evolution to mate with, and receive the sperm of multiple males, and often in quick succession. Her sexual superiority to satiate multiple men in the home 'cave' castle is biologically quite adaptive because it ensures she will become pregnant. The human male mate in a patriarchal society wants to monopolize a human female, to dominate her by controlling and often time oppressing her sexually superior abilities and pleasure so that he can be assured he is the father of the children he then provides for at home in the 'cave'. Why do you think nature left women multi-orgasmic able to enjoy penetration by many men over and over and over again for hours on end leaving male after male exhausted? Most men just role over and go to sleep typically after 20 minutes of sex - if they're lucky, while the woman craves more.. Or maybe men believe all the white lies about how they gave a woman her first orgasm or an orgasm after a few minutes of pounding the meat steak? Thinking of the movie nymphomaniac you can watch free on line here - interesting 2 movies, and arousing for any guy of course, but the movie is wrong about what what nymphomania actually is based on the original behavioral science definition..

Ever notice after child bearing years women start straying at a far greater rate than during? You'll find vast numbers of over 40 MILFS cheating on their hubbies at 'hook up' sites because they don't really want or need monogamy after they'd done their child rearing duties as mothers. If that's what you mean by being in the driver's seat of monogamy after coming to the conclusion she doesn't need it anymore, I'll agree And by the way, at a statistical level, women are far more adulterous than their male counterpart boyfriends and husbands - at least in the US and I would suspect most anywhere in the world because women are sexually superior to their male counterparts and there are evolutionary reasons for this to insure the survival of the species regardless of all the religions in the world that hate and negate the reality of evolution.

Edited April 4, 2014 by BohemianDaddyo

[casualposter]

But I found exactly what I wanted to see in bed next to me, and I paid for it.

You're obsessed.

Ever heard of the term "holiday romance"?

Sorry to be rude, but you sound hopelessly inexperienced.

What means you?

Of course I do,

I spent my late teen years and early adult years in Miami Beach, where new girls came every week, to the same limited clubs and hotels, and swimming pools

we mastered that art at 16

No you didn't.

If a Thai man were to see how you talk 10 or 20 times a day about a prostitute, he'd just laugh at you. He'd think you're crazy.

You need to drop it.

Enjoy your life. See your family and friends. Pursue your hobbies.

You had a holiday (paid-for) romance with a prostitute. So what?

Find yourself a new girl. Move on.

Seriously, you're obsessed.

[Scarpolo]

But I found exactly what I wanted to see in bed next to me, and I paid for it.

You're obsessed.

Ever heard of the term "holiday romance"?

Sorry to be rude, but you sound hopelessly inexperienced.

What means you?

Of course I do,

I spent my late teen years and early adult years in Miami Beach, where new girls came every week, to the same limited clubs and hotels, and swimming pools

we mastered that art at 16

No you didn't.

If a Thai man were to see how you talk 10 or 20 times a day about a prostitute, he'd just laugh at you. He'd think you're crazy.

You need to drop it.

Enjoy your life. See your family and friends. Pursue your hobbies.

You had a holiday (paid-for) romance with a prostitute. So what?

Find yourself a new girl. Move on.

Seriously, you're obsessed.

Obsessed by what?

I am in south florida, having the best of florida's weather and lifestyle,

while people in thailand are suffereing in 100 degree weather, and trying to make a living,

please,

speak for yourself,

I am maintaining my connection to a girl I spent over 4 months with exclusively in her home and traveling about,

you, sound jealous of people like me

[casualposter]

Not really at odds with evolutionary theory at all in regards to the sexual superiority of a woman over a man.. Do you really think you can keep up with a woman who is sexually liberated to enjoy sex without all the societal BS running through her head? Physically you will be unable to compete sexually with a woman.. They can exhaust one man after another in quick succession or all at once.. Men may be superior in physical strength, but not sexual abilities no matter the size of their unit or libido!

As to being the 'driver' of monogamy, I agree to disagree. Any woman I have known as a guy in the rear seat just in case the one in the driver's seat doesn't work out - especially if she is pregnant or has a kid. Women I've known tend to get over a man emotionally far quicker than the other way around - nature might of intended it that way so a woman can move on quicker in securing the next provider for offspring. And again, if women are in the driver's seat of monogomy, it is because they were indoctrinated by the religious morals of a patriarchal society to believe monogamy is 'right' because the male image of the society's imaginary sky daddy says so.. Why? The human male mate wants to monopolize a human female, to dominate her by controlling her sexually superior abilities so that he can be assured he is the father of the children he then provides for. The human female is biologically no different than many other female species in that she was designed by evolution to mate with, and receive the sperm of multiple males, and often in quick succession.

Ever notice after child bearing years women start straying at a far greater rate than during? You'll find vast numbers of over 40 MILFS cheating on their hubbies at 'hook up' sites because they don't really want or need monogamy after they'd done their child rearing duties as mothers. If that's what you mean by being in the driver's seat of monogamy after coming to the conclusion she doesn't need it anymore, I'll agree And by the way, at a statistical level, women are far more adulterous than their male counterpart boyfriends and husbands - at least in the US and I would suspect most anywhere in the world because they are sexually superior than their male counterpart.

Please tell me you're paid to post this crud.

Seriously, please.

[casualposter]

Obsessed by what?

I am in south florida, having the best of florida's weather and lifestyle,

while people in thailand are suffereing in 100 degree weather, and trying to make a living,

please,

speak for yourself,

I am maintaining my connection to a girl I spent over 4 months with exclusively in her home and traveling about,

you, sound jealous of people like me

You're not fooling anyone.

You're sexually inexperienced and have become obsessed with a prostitute.

As I said, if a Thai man were to see your endless posts about this hooker, he'd simply laugh at you.

Move on.

[Scarpolo]

Obsessed by what?

I am in south florida, having the best of florida's weather and lifestyle,

while people in thailand are suffereing in 100 degree weather, and trying to make a living,

please,

speak for yourself,

I am maintaining my connection to a girl I spent over 4 months with exclusively in her home and traveling about,

you, sound jealous of people like me

You're not fooling anyone.

You're sexually inexperienced and have become obsessed with a prostitute.

As I said, if a Thai man were to see your endless posts about this hooker, he'd simply laugh at you.

Move on.

And that would be a Thai man, who does what exactly?

would that be the one in the Ferrari who begs her to become his mistress,

or the TV anchor, who texts her his insane love for her, that she had to get a new number?

or, perhaps it was the lawyer, whom she refuses to have the baby for?

the Thai men, get the actress,

I get the woman.

you, don't know the difference,

I like both, I get both

your insecurity, is on display.

I enjoy her affection; they get a piece of her for 20 minutes, wrapped in latex, and she wont even kiss them,

thai men are mostly jackasses laughing, as their daughters, are in the cue.....

lets see how hard they laugh when their daughters are screwing geezers because their fathers spend all their money, on whores

BFD

Edited April 4, 2014 by Scarpolo

[speedtripler]

Interesting theory, Bohemian, quite at odds with the usual evolutionary theory that the female is the driver of monogamy due to her need for a provider. You could probably seduce a feminist or two with it!

Regarding female satiation, I believe that their satisfaction is much more psychological than ours. All these guys fretting about their dicks have been chasing a red herring since they were jacking off to Heather Thomas in the Fall Guy...or is that just me?! hehe

Not really at odds with evolutionary theory at all in regards to the sexual superiority of a woman over a man.. Do you really think you can keep up with a woman who is sexually liberated to enjoy sex without all the societal BS running through her head? Physically you will be unable to compete sexually with a woman.. They can exhaust one man after another in quick succession or all at once.. Men may be superior in physical strength, but not sexual abilities no matter the size of their unit or libido!

As to being the 'driver' of monogamy, I agree to disagree. Any woman I have known as a guy in the rear seat just in case the one in the driver's seat doesn't work out - especially if she is pregnant or has a kid. Women I've known tend to get over a man emotionally far quicker than the other way around - nature might of intended it that way so a woman can move on quicker in securing the next provider for offspring. And again, if women are in the driver's seat of monogomy, it is because they were indoctrinated by the religious morals of a patriarchal society to believe monogamy is 'right' because the male image of the society's imaginary sky daddy says so.. Why? The human male mate wants to monopolize a human female, to dominate her by controlling her sexually superior abilities so that he can be assured he is the father of the children he then provides for. The human female is biologically no different than many other female species in that she was designed by evolution to mate with, and receive the sperm of multiple males, and often in quick succession.

Ever notice after child bearing years women start straying at a far greater rate than during? You'll find vast numbers of over 40 MILFS cheating on their hubbies at 'hook up' sites because they don't really want or need monogamy after they'd done their child rearing duties as mothers. If that's what you mean by being in the driver's seat of monogamy after coming to the conclusion she doesn't need it anymore, I'll agree And by the way, at a statistical level, women are far more adulterous than their male counterpart boyfriends and husbands - at least in the US and I would suspect most anywhere in the world because they are sexually superior than their male counterpart.

Designed by evolution to recieve the sperm of whoever she thinks has the biggest wallet ............

I disagree with your assumption that a man will be exhausted long before a woman .......get yourself to the gym and into decent physical shape and try again ...........

you will find the woman will get tired/sore every time long before the man is finished with her if you put in a decent effort ..........whether or not your capable of that or not is the only question ..........

when you can do a couple of hundred pushup in a set ,squats ,dips ,situps and 5-8 miles running a day youll be pretty close to ready ........it might take a year to get this fit or even more depending where youre at now but its worth it .......

i have met very few women over the years that can handle that pace for long ........

and thats just 1 guy , with multile guys shed need a taxi to hospital after having her guts pounded into the back of her head as mike tyson so

eloquently put it when referring to sarah palin ...........lol

[Scarpolo]

Interesting theory, Bohemian, quite at odds with the usual evolutionary theory that the female is the driver of monogamy due to her need for a provider. You could probably seduce a feminist or two with it!

Regarding female satiation, I believe that their satisfaction is much more psychological than ours. All these guys fretting about their dicks have been chasing a red herring since they were jacking off to Heather Thomas in the Fall Guy...or is that just me?! hehe

Not really at odds with evolutionary theory at all in regards to the sexual superiority of a woman over a man.. Do you really think you can keep up with a woman who is sexually liberated to enjoy sex without all the societal BS running through her head? Physically you will be unable to compete sexually with a woman.. They can exhaust one man after another in quick succession or all at once.. Men may be superior in physical strength, but not sexual abilities no matter the size of their unit or libido!

As to being the 'driver' of monogamy, I agree to disagree. Any woman I have known as a guy in the rear seat just in case the one in the driver's seat doesn't work out - especially if she is pregnant or has a kid. Women I've known tend to get over a man emotionally far quicker than the other way around - nature might of intended it that way so a woman can move on quicker in securing the next provider for offspring. And again, if women are in the driver's seat of monogomy, it is because they were indoctrinated by the religious morals of a patriarchal society to believe monogamy is 'right' because the male image of the society's imaginary sky daddy says so.. Why? The human male mate wants to monopolize a human female, to dominate her by controlling her sexually superior abilities so that he can be assured he is the father of the children he then provides for. The human female is biologically no different than many other female species in that she was designed by evolution to mate with, and receive the sperm of multiple males, and often in quick succession.

Ever notice after child bearing years women start straying at a far greater rate than during? You'll find vast numbers of over 40 MILFS cheating on their hubbies at 'hook up' sites because they don't really want or need monogamy after they'd done their child rearing duties as mothers. If that's what you mean by being in the driver's seat of monogamy after coming to the conclusion she doesn't need it anymore, I'll agree And by the way, at a statistical level, women are far more adulterous than their male counterpart boyfriends and husbands - at least in the US and I would suspect most anywhere in the world because they are sexually superior than their male counterpart.

Designed by evolution to recieve the sperm of whoever she thinks has the biggest wallet ............

I disagree with your assumption that a man will be exhausted long before a woman .......get yourself to the gym and into decent physical shape and try again ...........

you will find the woman will get tired/sore every time long before the man is finished with her if you put in a decent effort ..........whether or not your capable of that or not is the only question ..........

when you can do a couple of hundred pushup in a set ,squats ,dips ,situps and 5-8 miles running a day youll be pretty close to ready ........it might take a year to get this fit or even more depending where youre at now but its worth it .......

i have met very few women over the years that can handle that pace for long ........

and thats just 1 guy , with multile guys shed need a taxi to hospital after having her guts pounded into the back of her head as mike tyson so

eloquently put it when referring to sarah palin ...........lol

Bringing them to orgasm twice in 15 minutes, doesnt take a ton of pushups,

but it will cause them to scream, if you dont get off them soon after,

and will bring them back,

every time

Edited April 4, 2014 by Scarpolo

[LaraC]

Havent read all the replies, so maybe has been mentioned.
How do you know that she was serious?

For all you know she was thinking your friend is a <deleted> for offering her money, and was like yeh, sure, gimme the money (with no actual intention of having sex with him).

I was on a dating site some years back, there were some real creeps on there.
Id sometimes give some smart or fake answer to the guys who non-verbally screamed "ass-h0le"
(ie: "are you a prostitute?" Me: "yeh baby, and i do housecalls. YOu want me? I have an identical twin sister too." Etc. You get the gist. What can i say, i messed with the idiots, dunno why, but i did.).
..anyway, probably a good thing for her if you decide not to persue her, because frankly you sound creepy for testing her out in this way in the first place.

[BohemianDaddyo]

Not really at odds with evolutionary theory at all in regards to the sexual superiority of a woman over a man.. Do you really think you can keep up with a woman who is sexually liberated to enjoy sex without all the societal BS running through her head? Physically you will be unable to compete sexually with a woman.. They can exhaust one man after another in quick succession or all at once.. Men may be superior in physical strength, but not sexual abilities no matter the size of their unit or libido!

As to being the 'driver' of monogamy, I agree to disagree. Any woman I have known as a guy in the rear seat just in case the one in the driver's seat doesn't work out - especially if she is pregnant or has a kid. Women I've known tend to get over a man emotionally far quicker than the other way around - nature might of intended it that way so a woman can move on quicker in securing the next provider for offspring. And again, if women are in the driver's seat of monogomy, it is because they were indoctrinated by the religious morals of a patriarchal society to believe monogamy is 'right' because the male image of the society's imaginary sky daddy says so.. Why? The human male mate wants to monopolize a human female, to dominate her by controlling her sexually superior abilities so that he can be assured he is the father of the children he then provides for. The human female is biologically no different than many other female species in that she was designed by evolution to mate with, and receive the sperm of multiple males, and often in quick succession.

Ever notice after child bearing years women start straying at a far greater rate than during? You'll find vast numbers of over 40 MILFS cheating on their hubbies at 'hook up' sites because they don't really want or need monogamy after they'd done their child rearing duties as mothers. If that's what you mean by being in the driver's seat of monogamy after coming to the conclusion she doesn't need it anymore, I'll agree And by the way, at a statistical level, women are far more adulterous than their male counterpart boyfriends and husbands - at least in the US and I would suspect most anywhere in the world because they are sexually superior than their male counterpart.

Please tell me you're paid to post this crud.

Seriously, please.

What? If you read something crude, I'd say your a bit over sensitive about relationships and human sexuality - perhaps from your upbringing? Maybe you've been conditioned by your western patriarchal society to believe human sexuality is an embarrassing topic?.. It is what it is..

Oh wait - you said crud, not crude! Tell ya what - when you can make some valid point by rationally debating what was written rather than resorting to the meaningless forum ad hominem fallacy uttering 'crud', by all means go for it.. Or is debate beyond the utterance of 'crud' exceed your reasoning abilities? Try expressing your thoughts with reason, rather than unsubstantiated opinion.. You might learn something in the process..

Edited April 4, 2014 by BohemianDaddyo

[Scarpolo]

Havent read all the replies, so maybe has been mentioned.

How do you know that she was serious?

For all you know she was thinking your friend is a <deleted> for offering her money, and was like yeh, sure, gimme the money (with no actual intention of having sex with him).

I was on a dating site some years back, there were some real creeps on there.

Id sometimes give some smart or fake answer to the guys who non-verbally screamed "ass-h0le"

(ie: "are you a prostitute?" Me: "yeh baby, and i do housecalls. YOu want me? I have an identical twin sister too." Etc. You get the gist. What can i say, i messed with the idiots, dunno why, but i did.).

..anyway, probably a good thing for her if you decide not to persue her, because frankly you sound creepy for testing her out in this way in the first place.

its creepy,

its juvenile,

and it smacks of social ineptitude

and pre ejaculation failures causing inadequacy to mushroom,

I pity the last few females he has encountered, and feel a sense of duty to warn others

Edited April 4, 2014 by Scarpolo

[speedtripler]

Interesting theory, Bohemian, quite at odds with the usual evolutionary theory that the female is the driver of monogamy due to her need for a provider. You could probably seduce a feminist or two with it!

Regarding female satiation, I believe that their satisfaction is much more psychological than ours. All these guys fretting about their dicks have been chasing a red herring since they were jacking off to Heather Thomas in the Fall Guy...or is that just me?! hehe

Not really at odds with evolutionary theory at all in regards to the sexual superiority of a woman over a man.. Do you really think you can keep up with a woman who is sexually liberated to enjoy sex without all the societal BS running through her head? Physically you will be unable to compete sexually with a woman.. They can exhaust one man after another in quick succession or all at once.. Men may be superior in physical strength, but not sexual abilities no matter the size of their unit or libido!

As to being the 'driver' of monogamy, I agree to disagree. Any woman I have known as a guy in the rear seat just in case the one in the driver's seat doesn't work out - especially if she is pregnant or has a kid. Women I've known tend to get over a man emotionally far quicker than the other way around - nature might of intended it that way so a woman can move on quicker in securing the next provider for offspring. And again, if women are in the driver's seat of monogomy, it is because they were indoctrinated by the religious morals of a patriarchal society to believe monogamy is 'right' because the male image of the society's imaginary sky daddy says so.. Why? The human male mate wants to monopolize a human female, to dominate her by controlling her sexually superior abilities so that he can be assured he is the father of the children he then provides for. The human female is biologically no different than many other female species in that she was designed by evolution to mate with, and receive the sperm of multiple males, and often in quick succession.

Ever notice after child bearing years women start straying at a far greater rate than during? You'll find vast numbers of over 40 MILFS cheating on their hubbies at 'hook up' sites because they don't really want or need monogamy after they'd done their child rearing duties as mothers. If that's what you mean by being in the driver's seat of monogamy after coming to the conclusion she doesn't need it anymore, I'll agree And by the way, at a statistical level, women are far more adulterous than their male counterpart boyfriends and husbands - at least in the US and I would suspect most anywhere in the world because they are sexually superior than their male counterpart.

Designed by evolution to recieve the sperm of whoever she thinks has the biggest wallet ............

I disagree with your assumption that a man will be exhausted long before a woman .......get yourself to the gym and into decent physical shape and try again ...........

you will find the woman will get tired/sore every time long before the man is finished with her if you put in a decent effort ..........whether or not your capable of that or not is the only question ..........

when you can do a couple of hundred pushup in a set ,squats ,dips ,situps and 5-8 miles running a day youll be pretty close to ready ........it might take a year to get this fit or even more depending where youre at now but its worth it .......

i have met very few women over the years that can handle that pace for long ........

and thats just 1 guy , with multile guys shed need a taxi to hospital after having her guts pounded into the back of her head as mike tyson so

eloquently put it when referring to sarah palin ...........lol

Bringing them to orgasm twice in 15 minutes, doesnt take a ton of pushups,

but it will cause them to scream, if you dont get off them soon after,

and will bring them back,

every time

why stop at 2 ?

fitness is never wasted ,it doesnt hurt to stay in shape for more reasons than i could mention if i typed

the rest of the night

having lots of pleasureable sex without ever getting tired sex is just one of them ........

if your a 15 minute guy .........shes probablyt going to be disapointed ,whether she says anything about it or not

is another question.........

[johnbits]

I have been trying to tell people here this very same thing as I pulled a top girl from one of those spots, and kept her to myself.

I may have it all wrong, and according to many here, I should have held out for a "nice girl"

But I found exactly what I wanted to see in bed next to me, and I paid for it.

When we shopped, it was clear what her tatse was, and her closet spoke louder than her eyes.

Once she understood there wouldnt be any Louis Vuitton, but I would buy her any necssity she needed, she understood where I stood, and where she did as well.

She likes the arrangement, and I do want to get back and see her and lie again in the bed, of my own making.

We need not justify our desires, and our decisions, same as those who prefer it the old fashioned way,

but as the guy who was about the screw the bank manager found out,

it is all relative, and a matter of price

I don't think many people are saying you should have held out for a "nice girl". In fact, since you are a tourist and might not ever come back, better to have the soapie girl, they aren't counting on you coming back. Why mess up a "nice girl"?

I think what people are really thinking, anyone of them could have "pulled" her from the job and lived with her a few months. All it would take is the money you spent. But you seem to think that what you did was a major accomplishment. Maybe it is, but I don't think anyone believes that.

I think you had a nice time, handled it well, and you do seem a bit obsessed by it all now.

Odds are like 30:1 you will be back. Lets see how it goes the second time around.

[BohemianDaddyo]

Designed by evolution to recieve the sperm of whoever she thinks has the biggest wallet ............

I disagree with your assumption that a man will be exhausted long before a woman .......get yourself to the gym and into decent physical shape and try again ...........

you will find the woman will get tired/sore every time long before the man is finished with her if you put in a decent effort ..........whether or not your capable of that or not is the only question ..........

when you can do a couple of hundred pushup in a set ,squats ,dips ,situps and 5-8 miles running a day youll be pretty close to ready ........it might take a year to get this fit or even more depending where youre at now but its worth it .......

i have met very few women over the years that can handle that pace for long ........

and thats just 1 guy , with multile guys shed need a taxi to hospital after having her guts pounded into the back of her head as mike tyson so

eloquently put it when referring to sarah palin ...........lol

Designed to retrieve the biggest wallet like a dog retrieving a bone - surely some, but not all. I think the more equality in pay women get and in equal status to men, this tendency may be left behind in the future as humans evolve..

I don't think you knew the sort of women I did.. Sure a woman can be satiated by one man, but a women can still out orgasm any man and keep on going like an energy bunny individually giving and receiving pleasure to a far greater extent than any one man - even with multiple triathlon athletes if she's sexually liberated enough while in strong physical condition herself.. Believe me when I tell you I've been in enough 'sex party houses' up and down the Cali coast in my younger years to know this first hand..

I work out daily in a home gym - upper half one day, lower half the next.. I'm the same athletic weight and close to the same fitness level now that I was in my 20s with still a 10 inch spread between waist and chest and a BMI, body fat %, and waist to height proportion few men have at my age, or younger, unless they're "college male swimmers" according to the World Health Organization. Determine your own fitness level stats here

Sure the libido is no where near what it used to be in the 20s, but hey, maybe that's a good thing leaving me more able to think with the big head than the little one like I used to in the 20s.. But at least then it didn't cost money - and in fact just the opposite with older women back in those glory days of youth gone by..

[Scarpolo]

yo Daddyo,

read it again,

thats the girl coming twice in the first 15,

who said anything about me?

like you,

I am just warming up about then ;-)

[Scarpolo]

Designed by evolution to recieve the sperm of whoever she thinks has the biggest wallet ............

I disagree with your assumption that a man will be exhausted long before a woman .......get yourself to the gym and into decent physical shape and try again ...........

you will find the woman will get tired/sore every time long before the man is finished with her if you put in a decent effort ..........whether or not your capable of that or not is the only question ..........

when you can do a couple of hundred pushup in a set ,squats ,dips ,situps and 5-8 miles running a day youll be pretty close to ready ........it might take a year to get this fit or even more depending where youre at now but its worth it .......

i have met very few women over the years that can handle that pace for long ........

and thats just 1 guy , with multile guys shed need a taxi to hospital after having her guts pounded into the back of her head as mike tyson so

eloquently put it when referring to sarah palin ...........lol

Designed to retrieve the biggest wallet like a dog retrieving a bone - surely some, but not all. I think the more equality in pay women get and in equal status to men, this tendency may be left behind in the future as humans evolve..

I don't think you knew the sort of women I did.. Sure a woman can be satiated by one man, but a women can still out orgasm any man and keep on going like an energy bunny individually giving and receiving pleasure to a far greater extent than any one man - even with multiple triathlon athletes if she's sexually liberated enough while in strong physical condition herself.. Believe me when I tell you I've been in enough 'sex party houses' up and down the Cali coast in my younger years to know this first hand..

I work out daily in a home gym - upper half one day, lower half the next.. I'm the same athletic weight and close to the same fitness level now that I was in my 20s with still a 10 inch spread between waist and chest and a BMI, body fat %, and waist to height proportion few men have at my age, or younger, unless they're "college male swimmers" according to the World Health Organization. Determine your own fitness level stats here

Sure the libido is no where near what it used to be in the 20s, but hey, maybe that's a good thing leaving me more able to think with the big head than the little one like I used to in the 20s.. But at least then it didn't cost money - and in fact just the opposite with older women back in those glory days of youth gone by..

you only drop 10?

I have been 43-31 for years

[Thongkorn]

Most decent Thai women would not be sen dead with a Falang so make of it what you will. when she is talking with you

[puukao]

It is sad how powerful money can be. We are emotional creatures, and if someone offered me lots of money for something, I would at least listen. if not illegal, i'm 90% sure i would do it.

i am pretty sure many people get married for financial security. i am also pretty sure a lot of relationships fail due to money.

oh, you look better? oh, you got smarter? oh, you are happier? oh, you are broke? bye-bye.

money can be the great equalizer. I'm 4 ft 10 and 400 lbs with 60% body fat, but when flash $100,000 baht i am now Brad Pitt. Or, I do look like Brad Pitt but only have 100 baht. hit the door.