Would You Ever Trust a Shady Girl?

[212Roger]

All women are "shady," by definition.

[Mekong Thunder]

Let's be 100% honest here...it depends how hot she is?
If she's an absolute stunner of course you would!

[212Roger]

Just now, Mekong Thunder said:

Let's be 100% honest here...it depends how hot she is?
If she's an absolute stunner of course you would!

Well, of course.  That is the only valid exception. 555

[jerojero]

Go in with eyes open and clear head, then no problem. If you're an idiot, you get what you deserve.

[eldragon]

On 8/24/2016 at 1:52 AM, fusion58 said:

The real question should be "why, in a land where desirable and available women grow on trees, would you need to settle for a 'shady' girl in the first place?"

 

B/c most of em aren't interested in foreigners. Or they're just boring.

[fusion58]

6 hours ago, eldragon said:

 

B/c most of em aren't interested in foreigners. Or they're just boring.

The first statement is demonstrably false.

The second is subjective.

I, for one, will always take "boring" over "drama queen" or "head case" every day and twice on Sunday, but that's just me. YMMV.

[NoshowJones]

On 8/19/2016 at 7:47 PM, dotpoom said:

Some of the most genuine people I have ever met were scoundrels at one time or other. It's the "suits" I would be careful of.

How very true.

[NoshowJones]

On 8/19/2016 at 10:07 PM, 212Roger said:

Don't trust women, period.  "It's always better to be on your guard, than to suffer once."

There is a lot of good women who can be trusted, you just have to do your due diligence first.

[NoshowJones]

On 8/20/2016 at 7:27 AM, Scotwight said:

Kind of like a Catholic going to confession eh?  Ireland, Italy and America I wouldn't trust any Catholics from there because of the confession issue.  Although it was fun dating Catholic high school girls. 

 I bet you enjoy your day around the12th of July, and support that new team from Glasgows south side.

[eldragon]

9 hours ago, fusion58 said:

The first statement is demonstrably false.

The second is subjective.

I, for one, will always take "boring" over "drama queen" or "head case" every day and twice on Sunday, but that's just me. YMMV.

 

The statements were meant to be related. Like, "if they are interested in foreigners, then they're usually boring, or shady (forgot that last part)".

 

I see your point. There's definitely a tradeoff with intellect. Studies show intelligent people are more likely to develop a mental illness (aka, think too much). But I just can't stomach being with someone and feeling the whole time like she doesn't care what I think.

[Rc2702]

On 19/08/2016 at 6:44 PM, swissie said:

Right on with regard to "cultural differences". If only Farangs would pay more attention to this fact. Example: A Thai does "a bad deed". Thai Buddhism allows for instant forgiveness, as soon as the Thai visits the nearest Wat and hands over a liberal amount of money. = Walking out of the Wat with a clean shirt. Over and over again........

If Farangs would spend the time to familiarize themselves with such "cultural differences", there would be less comments from Farangs, exclaiming "how could she do this to me". Also over and over again..........

Cheers.

I believe a western religion has such thing called a confession. Might not be too popular but serves same purpose and I believe most religions have a similar "cleanse you sins" process. I read your posts and know who is author before I see the name of the author.

[Rc2702]

I trust the Mrs and I reckon she had been a tad shady in the past as she been involved in multi level marketing, married a japanese guy for less than 5 months before fleeing japan told me a few stories in her past where a mean streak arose and saved my life when some tossers in hua hin drugged me and followed us on motorbikes to our hotel and accessed the hotel and were outside our door. All in the first 6 months! Mrs looks 23 but is 33 and has a heart of gold but she finds trusting people very difficult and she has a hard time making friends wirh other ladies. She's also useless at hiding her emotions but she has my complete trust to handle what I ask her to handle but she is not savvy she's not too much of a go getter so whilst I trust her to save cash for, drive car. I do not trust her to make simple enquiries such as homes for sale etc and I do not always trust she is singing from the same script as me, so there are just some things I choose to handle myself and I tell her honestly that this is a matter I can only trust myself to handle and if she ever questions my trust or my faithfulness I remind her quietly that if not for her I would not be in this country.

[pigeonjake]

f££k me you only want to ride her not marry her

[fusion58]

On 10/9/2016 at 0:28 PM, eldragon said:

 

The statements were meant to be related. Like, "if they are interested in foreigners, then they're usually boring, or shady (forgot that last part)".

 

I see your point. There's definitely a tradeoff with intellect. Studies show intelligent people are more likely to develop a mental illness (aka, think too much). But I just can't stomach being with someone and feeling the whole time like she doesn't care what I think.

 

^

 

Two problems here:

 

1) The amended version of the first premise still doesn't hold up. That is to say, if a Thai female is interested in a foreigner, it doesn't necessarily follow that she's "usually boring." Plenty of counterexamples can be cited.

 

2) "Boring" and "unintelligent" are not interchangeable. "Boring" is a subjective statement re: your state of mind and your expectations. Thus, if a girl, for whatever reason, doesn't generate the desired level of excitement or intensity for you, then this doesn't necessarily reflect on her intelligence.

 

Personally, I find most people who complain of boredom to be unintelligent, intellectually lazy, unimaginative, entitled or some combination of all of these.

 

[eldragon]

4 minutes ago, fusion58 said:

 

 

I can't remember what the original post said, but what I'm trying to communicate here is most of the decent women I've met in Thailand are conservative to the point of being boring. Most of em have no intellect and seem to be lacking empathy. The shady ones are far more interesting, engaging, and generally seem closer to western women in attitude.

[tutsiwarrior]

I've known a few shady women in the past and I never trusted them as far as I could throw them...and I've fallen for a couple of them as they were memorable in every possible way...

 

you can always have a great party with shady ladies...the trick is to beat them at the game if ye don't wanna lose something but that detracts from the enjoyment...what's a few thousand dollars here and there?

 

an attraction that only exists in wild imagination: 'so tutsi, ...d'you like me, then?'' as tutsi lies collapsed on the floor like a wet rag and has lost all perception of time and space...

 

 

[eldragon]

2 hours ago, tutsiwarrior said:

I've known a few shady women in the past and I never trusted them as far as I could throw them...and I've fallen for a couple of them as they were memorable in every possible way...

 

you can always have a great party with shady ladies...the trick is to beat them at the game if ye don't wanna lose something but that detracts from the enjoyment...what's a few thousand dollars here and there?

 

an attraction that only exists in wild imagination: 'so tutsi, ...d'you like me, then?'' as tutsi lies collapsed on the floor like a wet rag and has lost all perception of time and space...

 

 

 

Everything is good with these girls as long as you let em believe they are the kind of girl they pretend to be.

[tutsiwarrior]

or you can say to them: 'look here darlin' ye don't fool me...but let's pretend that ye do...'

 

and then she goes into feline mode and starts to purr...

 

(jeezuz...this is horribly sexist and I'm compromised in my efforts to appear progressive...but I am thinking of 2 women that both caused me to discard any pretense of rationality...)

[tutsiwarrior]

hmm...maybe I'm thinking of Halle Berry and Michelle Pfieffer in their Catwoman roles, both of which were panned severely by film reviewers...but the pornographic visual effect of which caused a suspension of rationality...

Edited October 12, 2016 by tutsiwarrior