The overwhelming number one determinant of happiness in a relationship is if both parties were happy and functional before the relationship. I’m with someone who likes her job, likes, but it’s not beholden to her family, does charitable good deeds at the temple, and has respectable professional women friends. On my end, I fill my days productively and working on my health. So add in a plausible dose of mutual attraction and we are good to go. Like I said, the mutual attraction has to be vaguely believable. Which is why I remain skeptical about the OP who is still being very coy about his age.
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