I also understand where you are coming from. Corruption has helped me out in the past, I got my father in law out of jail once, not buy paying but using police connections. However, it gets very complicated and dangerous when you play the 'boon koon' game, as people in power here are routinely replaced.
Yes, I find corruption to be convenient sometimes, like when going through the wrong turnstile onto the elevated highway. 300 baht to to cop, or go back into Bangkok to the police station, not being able to park, and adding 3 hours to my trip to Khon Kaen. Yes, thank God for corruption here. When one of my kids just can't pass a Chinese exam, paying the teacher 500 baht an hour for 'help' is also convenient. Actually, I can think of many more ways it is useful, but as I mentioned it can backfire against you.
Regarding the Red Bull guy, it's terrible how he has been hounded by the international press, and you are correct, the deceased's family have been very well compensated, especially as in similar cases I've known, the deceased family gets 50,000 baht. The penalty should definitely not be more just because the guy is from a rich family.
Most people like corruption if they have money. It's interesting to see people's view on corruption as their personal circumstances change. Similarly, with Cronyism and Nepotism. Thai culture embraces 'boon koon' which I guess is similar to 'old boy's network' in the UK or US., where corruption is frowned upon but happens at a national level.