1. Go and sew your oats with as many nice young bar girls as you feel the need to.
2. Find a girl that is not a bar girl, and marry her.
I put it around for many years like many of you, enjoyed every minute of it, then married a divorced teacher.
Amazes me why people see bar girls as anything else than just an experience !
I do not pay my wife a salary, I give her 40k a month to cover all the bills, food, rent etc, and the rest she can do with as she pleases. Its about a woman's relationship with money more than anything else