I was once at a house get together for kids both Thai and farang with a pool. All the kids were excited to go swimming. One little Thai girl jumped in without any floaties and just started sinking. None of the other adults were paying attention. I couldn’t reach her so I had to jump in with my clothes on, phone, keys, to save her. I got out soaking wet, stuff ruined, but saved the little girl from definite drowning. One of the Thai fathers looked at me like I was disgusting since I was soaking wet. Like I was embarrassing myself. I’ll never forget that look on his face. And he knew I just saved the kid from drowning.