When my son turned 14 he asked for a new/upgraded computor system for A.. school work, research and also pleasure use.
He was already accessing info using a mobil phone..
So the solution .. "If you want it, you have to research the info and build it yourself." and that he did .. every component hand selected and installed in the chasis of his choice.. plus 2 stock monitors, by himself. ( with me watching )
Today at 20 he is running and supervising the audio and lighting ( all computor controlled ) for his college campus theatre productions. He's also has a natural talent for painting and sketching, with several of his works receiving awards and display.
We still video chat at least 5 days a week .. and there are always 1 or 2 "live" guitar sessions so I keep him on his toes.
... and he really digs Hendrix !
There was never a lack of hands on life info .. using tools, doing manual work indoor,outdoor, carpentry, electrical,plumbing and plenty of exercise , and I taught him how to use and respect firearms.
But most of all.. using your brain to find solutions.
So bottom line.... kids have it in them .... you just need to be involved and help nurture their development