Phoenix1312

Gee was I whining by asking if the story is true? I didn't see ant whining. Some people live for this forum and can quote everything you have posted. They must have an awesome life. Nothing better to do.

well you have been bitching about this now for 6 months in here, admittedly you have a good reason but its time to give it a rest. You say you are over it but simply cannot stop whinging to us about it. It takes two to tango so there is a good chance you pushed him into this in the first place, we will never know but so far you have bagged lawyers, thai women, farang men etc and you are still going. My ex was screwing around on me after I suffered a major spinal injury and was severely restricted in what I could do, I didnt bitch or carry on like you and just accepted it, we seperated then divorced, yes it hurts like hell but dwelling on it causes more grief and hatred to fester. Its time you got some professional help to get over this sh*t and stop all your whinging to all of us in here, 6 months is way too long to listen to someone elses sh*t, either get over it or find a womens group to bitch to. You will probably find that a lot of them have screwed around on their hubbies as well, both males and females do it, it isnt onesided, maybe even you have tried it out as well, again we will never know, just give it a rest.

Who's whining? No wonder you are full of anger.

I would have left you too. What a pr@ck of a human being you are. Good she saw the light.

well you have been bitching about this now for 6 months in here, admittedly you have a good reason but its time to give it a rest. You say you are over it but simply cannot stop whinging to us about it. It takes two to tango so there is a good chance you pushed him into this in the first place, we will never know but so far you have bagged lawyers, thai women, farang men etc and you are still going. My ex was screwing around on me after I suffered a major spinal injury and was severely restricted in what I could do, I didnt bitch or carry on like you and just accepted it, we seperated then divorced, yes it hurts like hell but dwelling on it causes more grief and hatred to fester. Its time you got some professional help to get over this sh*t and stop all your whinging to all of us in here, 6 months is way too long to listen to someone elses sh*t, either get over it or find a womens group to bitch to. You will probably find that a lot of them have screwed around on their hubbies as well, both males and females do it, it isnt onesided, maybe even you have tried it out as well, again we will never know, just give it a rest.

Who's whining? No wonder you are full of anger.

Wow. I really didn't expect all the insinuating comments from some. They really must have been burnt by a farang woman.

I hope they don't have daughters as the obviously hate women and are very bitter.

To clarify a few things. Was I a bad lay? Maybe maybe not. I wish he lasted more than 3 minutes. If I was any better, he may have only lasted 1 minute. That really would have sucked.

I don't want his assets. He has a 10 year old Toyota Pick up and the lease on a restaurant. What would I do with them? She owns them now anyway. I still have the luxury apartment in Phuket that I bought before he entered my life so no he can have his lot. I also run a successful business and well on my way to making my life just what I want it to be.

Can I compete with Thai women? Again maybe yes maybe no. I don't really want to. I am happy with myself and the person I am. I am not over weight, and I am in pretty good shape. Well I am a confident farang woman.

I was hurt yes very badly from a man I loved. Not sure if I want to trust again just like some of you nasty bitter men. The difference is I will most likely meet another but I will put this behind me and not be bitter. You guys will carry hatred forever. I am very sad for you.

Your ego sounds a little bruised and battered, and do come across as somewhat bitter as well. publishing the fact that your husband lasted only three minutes is like having a go at him when he cant defend himself, and your so more successful than him and are happy with your life...really ! and yes if you stay in Thailand you will be competing with Thai women ,but hey your in good shape and your well on your way to making your life just the way you want it to be. Except your lonely and cant get out of the mentality of the women scorned stuff. Guys don't carry hatred forever we just move on and put the experience behind us and as for daughters the same can be said for what women tell there daughters after a nasty divorce.. perhaps you should have written into an agony aunt column. And maybe your husband did leave because he found a better lay! after all isn't that what all men do,,according to farang women!. When you wake up to smell the roses better look to see if they are still there..

Not bitter. He did me a favour and so did she. You need to wake up and look at the real world. I am really very good and happy now thanks you

I woke up a long time ago princess! I the real world is not so nice to look at, I much prefer the imaginery one I inhabit!!Then I don't have to put up with whining women!

Well stop reading and commenting. You sound like a fat ugly bitter man.

Let me try break it down for you.

My husband met a Thai woman, I think she was his masseuse.

Your husband went to Tulip soapy massage in Thong Lor. She was his masseuse.

Over a month or so she saw he was spiritual and did yoga.

Over a month or so, he saw her 4 times a week for sex and the practice yoga-type positions.

She told him that she had been living in a monastery with the monks for 7 years.

She lied. She went to a temple once, in 2009.

She said her heart was broken because her Australian boyfriend went back to his wife.

Her cashcow died when the other idiot did exactly what yours will do soon when he runs out of money and the demands get too big.

She also told him she hadn't had sex for 7 years

Completely implausible. I would not have believed 7 hours.

She got my husbands birthdate and said the monk she took it to said they were meant to be together as they knew each other in a past life.

Make believe voodoo bull$hit for the weak minded.

Needless to say my husband was enchanted and started an affair with her. I caught him out and left him. She now has all his assets in her name so I can't claim anything.

Your husband was enchanted with the sex.so enchanted he signed over all his assets. I would double-check that. Not many men are that stupid. How did you catch him?

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way and continually go for married men? Also would she have sex with my husband after a couple of visits? I think not. I think she got exactly what she wanted and all his assets as well.

Irrelevant question. She may have visited a temple once. She acts this way with ALL men. She would have sex in the first 30 minutes of a massage if there was money involved. Her business plan was faultless. Your husband was a mark, and she probably has 10 others.

Any opinions????

Opinion is to forget him and not look back. You look and sound like a nice person. You will recover and your day will come. Be strong.

I caught him going for massages everyday and being away 3 hours at a time. I asked him to tell me the truth. His expression and red face said it all.

Thank you for your post. It's nice to see there are still nice people around. I am trying to be strong and look forward to a great future. Xxx

Wow. I really didn't expect all the insinuating comments from some. They really must have been burnt by a farang woman.

I hope they don't have daughters as the obviously hate women and are very bitter.

To clarify a few things. Was I a bad lay? Maybe maybe not. I wish he lasted more than 3 minutes. If I was any better, he may have only lasted 1 minute. That really would have sucked.

I don't want his assets. He has a 10 year old Toyota Pick up and the lease on a restaurant. What would I do with them? She owns them now anyway. I still have the luxury apartment in Phuket that I bought before he entered my life so no he can have his lot. I also run a successful business and well on my way to making my life just what I want it to be.

Can I compete with Thai women? Again maybe yes maybe no. I don't really want to. I am happy with myself and the person I am. I am not over weight, and I am in pretty good shape. Well I am a confident farang woman.

I was hurt yes very badly from a man I loved. Not sure if I want to trust again just like some of you nasty bitter men. The difference is I will most likely meet another but I will put this behind me and not be bitter. You guys will carry hatred forever. I am very sad for you.

Is it just me ... or does cheated write like a man?

Most woman I converse with look for empathy, speak with empathy.

They seek a listening compassionate ear ... they don't particularly want their problems solved, just listened to.

Advice is well received and sure, revenge if appropriate.

Masculine style ... who knows ... could just be me ...

No I am all woman but thank you for the compliment. It's just you. Maybe to many weak woman in your life. I am not looking for sympathy though it is nice to have some compassion. I was asking a question simple as that

Wow. I really didn't expect all the insinuating comments from some. They really must have been burnt by a farang woman.

I hope they don't have daughters as the obviously hate women and are very bitter.

To clarify a few things. Was I a bad lay? Maybe maybe not. I wish he lasted more than 3 minutes. If I was any better, he may have only lasted 1 minute. That really would have sucked.

I don't want his assets. He has a 10 year old Toyota Pick up and the lease on a restaurant. What would I do with them? She owns them now anyway. I still have the luxury apartment in Phuket that I bought before he entered my life so no he can have his lot. I also run a successful business and well on my way to making my life just what I want it to be.

Can I compete with Thai women? Again maybe yes maybe no. I don't really want to. I am happy with myself and the person I am. I am not over weight, and I am in pretty good shape. Well I am a confident farang woman.

I was hurt yes very badly from a man I loved. Not sure if I want to trust again just like some of you nasty bitter men. The difference is I will most likely meet another but I will put this behind me and not be bitter. You guys will carry hatred forever. I am very sad for you.

Your ego sounds a little bruised and battered, and do come across as somewhat bitter as well. publishing the fact that your husband lasted only three minutes is like having a go at him when he cant defend himself, and your so more successful than him and are happy with your life...really ! and yes if you stay in Thailand you will be competing with Thai women ,but hey your in good shape and your well on your way to making your life just the way you want it to be. Except your lonely and cant get out of the mentality of the women scorned stuff. Guys don't carry hatred forever we just move on and put the experience behind us and as for daughters the same can be said for what women tell there daughters after a nasty divorce.. perhaps you should have written into an agony aunt column. And maybe your husband did leave because he found a better lay! after all isn't that what all men do,,according to farang women!. When you wake up to smell the roses better look to see if they are still there..

Not bitter. He did me a favour and so did she. You need to wake up and look at the real world. I am really very good and happy now thanks you

I've only got one question, why did you agree to come to thailand when you knew you couldnt compete with thai girls?

Legit question.

It was my idea to come to Thailand. It has been my dream for ever. I really didn't think competing against other women was an option I needed to consider.

THE REAL STORY , YOU ARE A BAD LAY AND HE FOUND BETTER, GET OVER IT MOVE ON, HAPPENS TO ALL FERANG IMPOSTER WOMEN AT LAST HE FOUND CONTENTMENT

Go seek attention elsewhere, troll..

I mean no disrespect as if that is you in the photo,you look a very nice and attractive lady,but could there possibly have been things in your marriage,that were not going so well,whist i feel sorry for what has befallen you there are always two sides in every story.

You are right there is always 2 sides. I am not asking for people to take sides, I was merely asking if her story could be true. Yes that is really me and my husband didn't have any reason to stray. But he was obviously not happy with me.

No, her story is obviously not true, and is likely something your ex. has fabricated, as he thought it would be easier for you to swallow some story about being soulmates rather than the truth that he fell for a bargirl.

He may not be as stupid as everyone thinks he is. It seems he has afterall managed to avoid giving you any part of the assets. Of course, getting them back from the new girl later may be a problem, but he stood to lose a big part of the assets to you anyway, so taking a chance on this does make some sense.

I agree... Its probably partly true that he meet a thai girl and banged her after 7 hours.. Then fell in lala land.

Sounds like he made it up...who knows his reasons.

Good luck.

Sent from my c64

It wasn't made up. My ex staff confirmed it. She told them all about her self and they told me. I might add everyone of them resigned as they hated her. Some of my Thai friends also told me about her. She is the ex lover of a club member. He has the lease on a yacht club restaurant in Chalong

<p>My husband met a Thai woman, I think she was his masseuse. Over a month or so she saw he was spiritual and did yoga. She told him that she had been living in a monastery with the monks for 7 years. She said her heart was broken because her Australian boyfriend went back to his wife. She also told him she hadn't had sex for 7 years. She got my husbands birthdate and said the monk she took it to said they were meant to be together as they knew each other in a past life. Needless to say my husband was enchanted and started an affair with her. I caught him out and left him. She now has all his assets in her name so I can't claim anything. I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way and continually go for married men? Also would she have sex with my husband after a couple of visits? I think not. I think she got exactly what she wanted and all his assets as well.Any opinions???? Ah.....c'mon give the OP the answers she wants so that she can move on in life and be happy again.........lets be frank and to the point.........better than being Jim or Harry 1. She was a masseuse..and saw that he was spiritual...yea right (since when have massage girls ever thought that far outside the box)2. Living in a monastery for 7 years.....BS3. Had not had sex for 7 years......BS4. Heartbroken with the departure of the Australian B/f........B/f? or just another customer at the parlour that she told was "spiritual"...then started shagging.5. Birthdate and "meant to be together" according to the monk....yea right the "scam noose" is tightening for sure. Didn't quite "noose" the Ozzie though did she.6. Your ex transferred all his assets to her.........he is an absolute fool and will regret that.7. She would have had "sex with your ex" in the parlour...most likely on the first if not second visit. Give it a year from now..........your ex will come crawling and crying to your feet....broken......despairing........with 500b in his pocket, no assets..... and just the clothes on his back. I apologise to the OP for being so blunt. Life is tough sometimes....so are it's messages.I wish the OP great happiness, a new life, and fame and fortune in the future..........never go backwards no matter what....always go forwards....you can do it...!! You deserve far more than your ex has put you through.Good luck.......remember..... you can do it..........a person can take away your pride but they cannot take away your dignity..!!

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Loved your post. Thank you for taking the time to write it

OP...what are you doing on Sunday night ?

Hahaha

....you know the answers already.....

...this is common in Thailand.....are you not here....???

You know after seeing women stuff their business cards in his pockets in front of me, I was already uncomfortable. He is a good looking man. I kind of knew it was a matter of time. His ego started to get bigger. Everywhere we went the Thai women would say your husband very handsome. I am back in Australia moving on with my life.

I mean no disrespect as if that is you in the photo,you look a very nice and attractive lady,but could there possibly have been things in your marriage,that were not going so well,whist i feel sorry for what has befallen you there are always two sides in every story.

You are right there is always 2 sides. I am not asking for people to take sides, I was merely asking if her story could be true. Yes that is really me and my husband didn't have any reason to stray. But he was obviously not happy with me.

Some used black magic to curse on the victim as he will always thinking of her, so I think your husband is beyond his control as some believed that he is under her curse, That lady have been telling lie to get sympathy from your ex-husband if a person who practice religion sex way no-no things to do more over taken other person husband will be punish in hell, if that man is not married then it's okay for her to fall in loved with.

I can see why your ex didn't give you any assets as he is under her control as some bad monks also found to practice black magic charm with his hair or date of birth,so you should ask local for help to get a good master to release him from spell.

You know I have heard about this. It happened so fast I believe what you say. I didn't think it was possible but now I am not so sure. I didn't believe in black magic.

Two quick points:

1. She had a farang ex.

2. She agreed to sex after a couple of dates / visits.

Avoid women like this.

Actually she has had 4 that I know of. One paid her rent and gave her money if she slept with him.

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way

555 Question is do all western married men act this way?

I hope not. It would be very sad if they did

My husband met a Thai woman, I think she was his masseuse. Over a month or so she saw he was spiritual and did yoga. She told him that she had been living in a monastery with the monks for 7 years. She said her heart was broken because her Australian boyfriend went back to his wife. She also told him she hadn't had sex for 7 years.

She got my husbands birthdate and said the monk she took it to said they were meant to be together as they knew each other in a past life.

Needless to say my husband was enchanted and started an affair with her. I caught him out and left him. She now has all his assets in her name so I can't claim anything.

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way and continually go for married men? Also would she have sex with my husband after a couple of visits? I think not. I think she got exactly what she wanted and all his assets as well.

Any opinions????

Sounds like a very desperate man.

I know a bar girl who hooked up with a Farang. She is now the queen of his restaurant bosses the staff around and to help with the Thai laws, he has now put it all into her name. Her status really did climb.

Easy. Buy a suitcase pack his stuff and tell him to go. What is hard about that?

Yes it is okay. Makes me wonder why Thai women find farangs so irresistible . Could it be money?