JustAnotherFarang

Aye, you are doing what most of us do here after a prolonged stay, eyes wide shut and hope for the best

Well I didnt say that but if you want to compare then yes, my country is far more honest than Thailand. Sometimes i wonder why foreigners are so defensive but I then remember, I too once wore rose tinted spectacles

I feel for this poor lady but what can you expect in a country that has so many dishonest people in so many guises

"Nicotine is bad for you no matter how it enters the body." he said claiming that the devices cause many illnesses" Anutin is a dodgy character as are the cronies he surrounds himself with. How does he say this with a straight face knowing that every 7-11 and small store will sell cigarettes and tobacoo which is by far more dangerous and noxious to public health. As a previous poster said, he is just trying to protect the tobacco monopoly and increase their profits.

This is why I would like the moderator to now close the thread but my foggy mind cannot work out how to do it. Its great advice though

I was legally married and you are right, upon sale of the property she is entitled to 50 per cent of the sale unless she chooses to waive that right an signs accordingly.

in the event of divorce you have to sell the property and split it 50/50. This is my only home and I have no family back in the UK.

Yes, it was my mistake and ii have offered my apologies. Thank you for taking the time

Sorry Liverpool Lou didnt mean to offend. Im Liverpool Merseyside btw

Thank you to all the posters for your time and advice. I think I am a little more clued in now. Moderators please feel free to close this thread

I did and now I dont and will deny all knowledge until I receive counsel or wise advice which has been forthcoming on a pm from another poster,

It is my home, I built it and paid for it from my earnings whilst married to my wife. But instead of putting my name on the house andhers on the land, she went and put it all in her name and tried to assume control when our marriage went pear shaped. Sorry for the lack of info but I havent slept and maybe have confused you in the process.

No your assumption is wide of the mark. I bought and paid for my home, it was ours, not hers but she fandangled her way to trying to assume control of everything. I prevented her from doing so with the video evidence against her and had lived happily alone until I met my ex gf who now poses a danger to the status quo.

I do not want to divulge such sensitive information but it is morally repugnant and criminal behaviour. I will leave you to read between the lines

Im a fool for not hiding my password better from my gf but she was always insecure and I wanted her to see that I was not chatting to other women as she always suspected. I have taken the precaution of moving all evidence to a safer place and wil deny any knowledge of it if push comes to shove because it was only ever meant to be leverage against my wife and her greedy family

You are right but she knows the video evidence against her and ran away back to Bangkok 2 years ago. The last time we communicated she said I could stay in the house for as long as I lived providing I did not seek her prosecution, its was a sordid status quo that worked well enough for me and I have had no dealings with her whatsoever. Now its the ex gf who is making threats knowing that if she tells the police they will come and arrest me first and seek the evidence, which no longer resides on Google.

it is of explicit nature and will result in the arrest of my ex wife. You may well ask why I have not used it and my answer is simply this, my home and the land is in her name and by seeking divorce I would be forced to sell it. I instead chose to keep it as leverage and keep the wolves at bay

thank you so so much fo taking the time to relate, I appreciate it and will seek legal representation albeit I live in a small town and there is not much choice. Thank you once again

I did but she memorised my password and accessed it.

It was my new gf that has made the allegations after I asked her to leave. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned and this is her scorched earth policy. The allegations relate to videos of my ex wife which she has seen after accessing my tablet. I had to hold onto these videos to obtain leverage against my ex wife

Nothing to do with violence but more to do with the sins of my ex wife who committed a quite dreadful sin which she recorded and it was automatically backed up to my google drive at the time. I have held onto this evidence as leverage to keep my ex wife and her family from taking away my home. I was not impolite to the police and complied with their requests and they escorted her off my property. I was always led to believe that if you allow them to come onto your property mobhanded they would have no qualms in wandering around and snooping inside my home which I felt as an invasion of my privacy.

Hi guys I am in the unfortunate position of having an ex partner who has made or intends to make some serious allegations to the police. The problem arose because I asked her to leave my home after seeing she was talking with other married men. I gave her time to pack her things but on returning to my home she called the police using an app that is meant to protect females in dangerous situations. The police came mob handed and asked if they could comeonto my property but I declined and explained to them in thai that my partner was free to leave and was welcome to do so whilst the police waited outside the gate. Now she has threatened me online in messages that the police will be calling to arrest me because of the serious nature of her allegations. What exactly are my rights regarding my right to remain silent and in obtaining good counsel to steer me through tricky waters. I have lived in my home for 22 years and have never had any dealings with the boys in brown but in light of her allegations my intuition tells me that they will be back

The reason I married was so we could stay together in Thailand and I was then able to get my non immigrant o visa and a work permit for our business. Now that Im over 50 I have a retirement visa and another thai lady who takes care of me ????

caveat emptor.......my missus did the same, changed her name because her mum said it was lucky but it was all a lie, she was trying to avoid any prosecution for past financial misdeeds. Once I found out she was being dishonest with me as well she did a runner. A leopard can change its name but it never changes its spots