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tim armstrong

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  1. True - many farangs meet their future wife/gf in a bar in Pattaya or elsewhere. Also true the majority of bar girls come from Isaan because they can earn more away from home. Also true that many Thai women who work o/s for a few years have a very different and more realistic view of farang and their 'wealth'. Probably most of these women don't come from Isaan.My wife is one. She worked o/s in factories for 10 years before I met her, doesn't come from Isaan and has never been a bargirl. TRy reading some history about Isaan post WW11. The whole area was pillaged of its natural resources long ago and hs never really recovered.

  2. My wife has now been to Oz 3 times. My siter and BIL love her and she loves them. My two 30yr+ sons love her and think she is crazy - in a nice way. So do I. My sons stay in Thailand maybe every 15 months or so . We've been married for 12 years now. Its more companionate than sexual, but I'm an old bugger so that's ok for me and my wife is not bothered. She still talks about money a lot, but is really quite happy with our life. Most of our concerns are about my unmotivated 18yr old stepson, whose main activities are his phone and skateboard.

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  3. The guy that built our house 12 years ago has about five houses on the go at once. He is a country builder, equally at home building houses and rice factories.The quality is obvious, sometimes the design similarities are too. Our house is large, modern, two storey Thai style that will never fall down and would probably withstand a small nuclear bomb. The builder is not the cheapest, but he delivers on time, his quotes are accurate to the last baht, and his workforce have been with him for more than 10 years. But this is country thailand - it's different here.

  4. The problem is that many of these students are not smart enough to get into a university. ...And at 18 or so they are not very employable as they are not 21. So for them they have to wait out 3 years still being at school -which they have disliked most of their lives. So what's left is to 'belong ' to a local gang of similarly dissaffected young people. If they don't get into drugs or minor crime what's left is fighting with each other. Some type of paid community service scheme might help a few.

  5. A few years ago UNICEF I think it was came out with a report on a long term study of what would lead a country into being a 'failed state'. Surprisingly, it did not rate finance, infrastructure or politics as the main culprits, but rather the education or lack of for women. Maybe the idea of woman's place being in the home is too entrenched to change anytime soon, but I believe it will, and I can see it happening already in Thailand. But some changes need to take place first - stop the rote learning principles at schools and universities, so students are taught to think and understand,rather than blindly accept what they are told.

    Employment based on skills and competence and equal employment principles rather than family or social connections should become the norm, particularly in the public sector may considerably improve efficiency and reduce nepotism and waste. but education is the key and it needs some worldly, intelligent, Thais who are open to new ideas to provide the inspiration. I'm sure they are there, they just need to be let out of the box.

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