dirtycash

Good about time.

really ? so how do any overstayers affect your personal life ? ...........eh ??????????/

Isn't your condo ready?

what has my condo in pattaya got anything remotely to do with me going to live with my girl in ban chang ? are you depressed or just sad ?

Perhaps I've read too much John Grisham and the like, but you introduced the topic so the question is allowed. Please answer.

what kind of retard would ask such a question ? do you own homework and look for yourself , heres a starter ( CCR matrix )

lived in isaan , ban chang could be no worse.

kiss food, 2nd road in pattaya has something like this, i dont know if its a service charge or vat but the bill is allways slightly more . i never bother to ask.

Isn't your condo ready?

what has my condo in pattaya got anything remotely to do with me going to live with my girl in ban chang ? are you depressed or just sad ?

my gf has asked me to come down there and live with her in ban chang, she cant move away due to her job. anyway im just seeking any advice of what its like to live there, things to do etc. according to her not much lol. im interested in any gyms , muay thai gyms, mma gyms or even tennis courts / clubs , any decent beaches nearby or maybe nearer to rayong, any nightlife at all as in bars , resturaunts etc. i will go stay with her for a few weeks to get the feel of the place but i dont want to be sat down there twiddling my thumbs and pulling my hair out with boredom. i think on a positive note , koh chang is not that far away or is pattaya and also utapao airport and its not exactly out in the sticks.

also she lives in a smallish room, not my style. if i did go stay with her i would like to rent a small house for a year initially, so any info on where to rent a nice room ,small house per year.

cheers

DC

Medellin is a rat hole.

really, an explanation would be helpfull.............. and bkk isnt ?

too many americans in panama...

lol, thats the only thing thats putting me off

Medellin seems to be a bit of a red herring. No sensible long-term visa arrangements and high taxes put it right off the menu as far as I'm concerned.

A shame as the cost of living and climate and language would be perfect for me, and all other things being equal (for example, the availability of foreign restaurants) I would go there like a shot.

how is 180 days ( 6 months ) that bad, you get nothing like this oppotunity in thailand.

https://www.gov.uk/foreign-travel-advice/colombia/entry-requirements

http://latintravelguide.com/colombia/tourist-visa-renewal

http://www.gringos.com/forum/f77/

plenty of info and advice on here, i have been looking into it myself. thailand for me is just f*** **d now , it has fuc** d itself . only good point about thailand is the availability of woman but im getting older and my list of priorities are changing.

if you really do have that kind of money then just rent a villa, why buy ? you might as well tear it up and throw it away becuae you will never ever ever get your money back !!!

cats do not scare rats ... ive seen rats and cats feeding from the same bin bags in kao san road in bkk. rats would probably kill the cats, i dont believe for a minute tht rats are scared of cats ive witnessed it many times in bkk. i have a video of it in my files here but i cant copy and paste it here for some reason.

buy a good terrier.

i was with a very good thai friend last week in bkk around sukumvit just at the junction heading towards soi cowboy there are a lot of street beggers. some of these children had no arms or were blinded intentionally. my friend told me that a lot of them are kidnapped by mafia gangs and sold and made to beg. i knew there was some truth in it but my friend assured me it is very real situation.

dear god how can anyone be so cruel . and surely the police can do something about this ? or any charitable organisations ?

best visa option if i were you would be the non (o) you can get it in 2 days from the thai consulate in hull . it will do you for 1 year and 3 months im pretty sure though you,ll need to ask the experts in the visa section.

check this link, im sure you have the 800000k - http://www.youblawg.com/immigration-law/royal-thai-consulate-in-hull-uk-said-non-o-visas-now-need-800000-thb

MONEY.

ok , im corrected i did think that some teachers here were also working as english teachers whilst studying the ED visa, i did think that was allowed, im no expert.

and i,ll correct some of you, i did not mention skin colour once !!

africans get a free 60 day entry. you know the ones selling <removed> on walking street and nana. thats just an example , what about the arabs and iranians / indians ? why give poorer countries better visa options. i cant understand the logic behind their thinking. and then they are now making it harder for the ED visa , making it difficult for the decent hard honest working guy to earn a living, why ?

ive spent countless millions upon millions of baht here so im dumbfounded

"But came anyways because it was cheap and women are submissive. "

I've never found any 'submissive', but have found many 'readily available'.

As for what happens here,

My money is imported, so generally speaking, and short of civil war,

The worse things are locally, the better off I am as a retired person.

bet you look like your avatar

no.................stopped caring a long time ago.

why should i ,its all take with thais and no give !! hey , sometimes i even laugh at their downfall.

http://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/country_result.jsp?country=Venezuela

not cheap !!!

some people think child abuse is great fun eh ? what kind of moron sits behind a computer in the safety of his own home and slags off and flames someone seeking genuine advice about possible child abuse ?

sad pathetic individuals.

DO NOT under any circumstances...leave your daughter alone with these two boys...she may have been molested already and does not want to be left alone with them...she is vulnerable and defenseless...you are her only protector,..DO YOUR JOB...

sorry for any mix up, all kids are now living in uk with their mum who is thai , with who i am seperated and living apart soon to be divorced.

i have allways sat down and told my daughter the rules :

1. not to sit with her skirt up,

2. not to go into toilet when a boy or man is in the toilet,

3. not to talk to strangers,

4. never ever to keep a secret ( she can allways trust her daddy or a teacher ) without us blaming her in anyway.

5. if she goes away with mum she has never to be left alone in bed ( her mum goes away regularly to stay with friends )

so she does know and understand the rules. as i say ive bought her a phone to keep with her at all times. her aunt is a police woman and has also told her the rules. i will get her aunt to keep drumming these rules into her . as i also said before when this ladyboy friend of my wifes told me never to let my daughter stay with " thai boy / brothers " that made me really concerned. i told her surely thai boy is the same as any farang boy and her answer was " thai man not good , thai boy is known to do this type of thing with sister because he dont care " also the reason she does never want to be left alone with them, she has grown up with them both in isaan and here in uk since born so why now she doesnt want to stay with them alone, surely this is not normal behaviour ? ive often asked her many times but do not want to push it.

im just asking on here to see if any one else had the same worries , issues.

Sorry just to clear this up...you are all in the UK?

If so leaving a young girl all night in the care of a 15 year old has to constitute an offence in itself I would have thought.

exactly, i have pulled my wife about this, she seems to think the boys can look after her but i go around there and all they do is sit in their rooms playing video games in darkness.

its a sad state of affairs but ive been warned by my sister and previous gf not to involve social services in uk as my child could be taken into care. ive now bought her a small phone to keep on her at all times so i can call her.

The bottom line here is a responsible adult should be looking after your daughter at all times.

You need to fix that immediately.

i have spoken to the 2 twin boys, they have been left under no illusions of what the consequences will be, though i worry if this would stop anything happening. my wife has the mai pen rai attitude when i talk to her about my concerns, she brushes it off. i allways just wonder my my daughter hates staying with them , its wrong. my ex wife needs to go to work to support the kids and i allways now take my daughter but i will need to gom away to work soon.

when my wifes friend told me that abuse is rife amoungst thai teenagers and especially when its with their ( not full sister ) this scared the sh*t out of me. now im more paranoid as ever which is probably a good thing so i allways ask my daughter everyday if she is ok etc and look out for any signs though sometimes she does seem to be withdrawn.

there has been a good few times ive went round to check on my daughter when my wife has went to work and the last time was 8pm at night , i asked one boy where is his young sister , he shrugged his shoulders and said he didnt know where she was, i told him it was dark outside and never leave her outside alone ( dumb stupid little ********** ) its as if they just dont care . lucky my wifes friend a neighbour had her with her at her home. i told my ex wife about her sons letting my kid out at that time and her reply was " yes i yak him because he stupid ) thats not a good enough excuse, though i suspect she didnt really shout too much at them .

wish i had of left them back in thailand years ago, i fought through 3 high court cases against the border agency to let them join their mum in uk but really ive regretted it ever since. seems they do not give a sh*t about much. one was suspended last week for fighting in school. the other has been in constant trouble for being disrespectfull to teachers and telling one teacher to f** k off. all this after the money and heart ache it cost me to get them here.

im living on my nerves everytime my wife has to work.

i really do not know how to word this but i have 2 thai teenage boys 15 yr olds in my ex wifes home both living with my daughter of 6 years old. they arent my biological sons.

i have some concerns regarding my wife going to work at nights as my daughter allways tells me she does not like staying with her older brothers. i ask her why but she clams up and does not go into detail. once 2 years ago when they first came to our country one of the boys was sitting with my daughter on the sofa and i walked in on them unannounced , i noticed his hand down his pants and it was moving as if masturbating , i screamed at him what the f*** was he palying at, i then called my wife who told me not to be stupid that her son " not same dirty farang kids " though this incident has been etched in my memory now. i did not imagine this either.

recently a thai ladyboy friend of my wifes told me to be carefull of thai man and thai boy, asked why she told me that incest was rampant amoungst thai teenage boys and they may touch her , so now im scared sh*tless and really concerned. ok it happens everywhere and one must allways been vigilant.

has anyone any issues of their own regarding something like this , could this ladyboy be only teling me this to cause trouble between me and my ex wife . no smart ass remarks please , this is a very serious question .