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2 minutes ago, KannikaP said:4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:
Fair enough... I'm sure your standards of poof reading are up there with the best...
Yep, always read it through before hitting Sumbit Relpy. 555
oh.. no... I did it again... that should have read pRoof reading... honest mistake... 555
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11 minutes ago, KannikaP said:22 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:
The famous saying on this forum, something I've been hearing since arriving here...
"Always look both ways when crossing a one day street"....
And the other is to proof read what you are sending. 555
Fair enough... I'm sure your standards of poof reading are up there with the best...
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23 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:
The way you squeal and carry on I suspect you of having high estrogen levels.
And I am not the only one.
You are not the only one who has high estrogen levels... Makes sense again...
Male menopause, non-existent testosterone levels, baldness, onset of Alzheimers and high estrogen... your openness to identify your issues is a huge step in your journey towards self improvement....
Your emotional development is impressive Malcy...... well done...
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36 minutes ago, 2long said:
If anyone wants to see regular cases of buses deciding that waiting in traffic or driving on the correct side of the road are 'not their thing' then this stretch of road every late afternoon almost guarantees results. Northbound buses.
Several years ago, my wife was driving when a Bangkok Metropolitan Authority (BMA) bus sped through a red traffic light, narrowly missing her.... (evidence on dash-cam).
She promptly contacted the widely advertised BMA complaint hotline to report the dangerous behaviour. Unsurprisingly, the response was dismissive: something along the lines of, “So what? You’re alive, aren’t you? The bus didn’t hit you.”
Nowadays, social media is the only truly effective tool for addressing such issues. It forces those in power to act - but only once a certain level of public attention has been achieved. The problem is, not every case attracts media coverage. Additionally, generating the necessary social media spotlight requires careful and strategic effort to avoid accusations of defamation.
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17 minutes ago, jerrytr said:
Typical Thai drivers. Until the lawless county starts to enforce traffic laws for Thai also & not just farang it will continue to have the highest road deaths in the world. At first it was entertaining to watch the bedlam, but now it's got to be enforced.
"& not just Farang"... Where in the nation are 'Farang' specifically singled out and targeted for law enforcement ?
(with the exception of the Patong and Pattaya shakedowns of non-licensed tourists).
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5 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:What happened to jobs for Thai's?
Now the boys will view explicit clips from other countries OnlyFans websites.
Anyway, leave the girls alone, the boys need masturbating material, prostate cancer is on the rise.
Send the cops to Pattaya, put them to good work, clean up the trashy foreigners in town.
How you've managed shoe-horn a 'foreigner bash' out of a news story where there has been not one mention of a foreigner is truly outstanding....
That said: I agree with your sentiment to leave the girls alone - they were making their own decent money, they weren't coerced, its seems this was clearly their own choice... Its seems the videos were not public domain but for private membership... Quite unfair on them I'd say...
... there's a stench of puritanical hypocrisy when I read stories such as this...
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49 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:
Must be male menopause, almost non existent testosterone levels, male pattern baldness and onset of Alzheimer’s that gets to me.
It certainly explains a lot about you...
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6 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:No thank you, no need to, if you got on better with foreigners you wouldn't need to also
It's not about need at all. No one needs to become friends with anyone - most of us are perfectly capable of living solitary lives in relative comfort.
But having trusted friends to socialise and connect with is one of life’s pleasures for many.
From my perspective, there’s no reason why that circle of friendship shouldn’t include a Thai, or indeed any foreign male, if there’s genuine common ground.
So when someone deliberately avoids such interactions and states they would only befriend fellow foreigners, it suggests a certain negative attitude - a kind of quiet prejudice towards the local population.
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21 hours ago, VocalNeal said:
She did look right but then ignored the bus and walked right into it.
Yeah... I just rewatched the video to double checked why she didn't see the bus coming..
And it does look as though she 'leaned forwards' to take a look up the road... but somehow completely ignored the oncoming bus and stepped out anyway.... Almost as if this was nothing more than just a 'movement habit' in the same way Thai's will 'duck slightly' when passing a an elder... more muscle memory than active action.
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32 minutes ago, lordgrinz said:1 hour ago, actonion said:
This is the third case of Pedestrians being hit while on Pedestrian crossings in 7 days in Bangkok alone. let's see if they will do something other than a 500b fine
I believe the fine is 4000 baht for a vehicle going through a Zebra crossing with pedestrians in it, and 40,000 baht if someone is injured.
Are they the 'minimum fines' or the 'up-to' fines ?
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2 minutes ago, Thingamabob said:21 hours ago, VocalNeal said:
She did look right but then ignored the bus and walked right into it.
Should she have known that she was about to be hit by a bus speeding on the wrong side of the road ?
Should she have stepped into the road unaware that such a danger was even a possibility - especially in Thailand?
Of course she should have known.
Or rather, she should have been aware of the potential for vehicles travelling the wrong way, or using the outer lanes (in the wrong direction) to bypass stationary traffic.
Had she simply looked, she wouldn’t have been hit - though that doesn’t absolve the bus driver, who was clearly in the wrong.
What continues to astonish me is that anyone would step into a lane of traffic without first checking for oncoming vehicles. It’s basic self-preservation.
In situations where traffic is at a standstill, it's nearly always motorcycles tearing up the outside. It's common. Predictable, even. And it must be anticipated for basic measures of road safety.
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1 hour ago, henryford1958 said:
That's the real danger of zebra crossings. Even if one car stops it will block the pedestrian's view of what is coming down the outside. You start to walk and in the middle get hit by the car/bike that doesn't stop.
No, it doesn’t block the view outright, but it does impair the ease with which one can see up the road.
That said, in nearly every recent thread discussing pedestrian crossing accidents, the individuals who were struck t because they stepped out without looking, distracted and unaware.
This isn't to place blame squarely on the pedestrians, but there was undeniably a lapse in self-preservation - a failure to exercise the caution necessary in such situations, which contributed to their injuries or worse.
When traffic halts at a pedestrian crossing, it takes but a moment to glance up the road - in both directions - before stepping into the next lane. This is perfectly feasible even if the vehicle that’s stopped for you is a bus or lorry. In fact, the larger the vehicle, the more critical it becomes to check that the adjacent lane is clear. Just because it looks easy doesn’t mean it is. A motorcycle lane-splitting at speed can appear from nowhere, and without that glance, you’re dangerously exposed.
This is basic road safety 101: never assume, always look - and double-check.
Having watched numerous CCTV clips of pedestrian crossing incidents in the news, two common threads emerge every time:
- Someone wasn’t paying attention.
- A vehicle didn’t stop.
It almost always comes down to one - or both - of these avoidable failures.
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6 hours ago, spidermike007 said:
Well not only the fluency in English but the fact that they're highly educated means that they're likely more open-minded and the exposure to higher education has encouraged them to be more curious about people and about the world.
Absolutely... that's precisely how I see it too.
It's the same story everywhere: educated individuals tend to be more open-minded and attuned to what's happening around them and in the wider world.
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5 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:5 hours ago, fredwiggy said:5 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:
What "amount" is that? A very small number to be precise.
I can remember at least 10 that have been reported just here,
Specifics would add kudos to your claim of knowledge of at least ten and over what period of time?
This 'kudos' you speak of? You may file it alongside your tiresome pedantry, where it rightly belongs.....
67‑year‑old Irishman fell from the 31st floor of a luxury hotel in Pattaya on 19 August 2024
36‑year‑old New Zealander, Akuhata Edward Robert Hammind, fell from a 7th‐floor balcony of a Pattaya hotel and died on 29 August 2024.
32‑year‑old Russian woman fell to her death from the 7th floor of a condo in Sattahip district on 14 August 2023
26‑year‑old Russian woman identified as “Ms K” jumped from the 14th floor of a Pattaya condominium on 7 April 2025.
34‑year‑old Polish tourist, “Swalomir,” lost balance and fell from a 5th‑floor Phuket condo balcony on 3 May 2025
British tourist, Martin, age 69, fell from the 4th floor of a Pattaya hotel on 4 February 2024 and later died.
74‑year‑old British man, paralyzed, fell from the 4th floor of an East Pattaya condo on 22 January, 2025.
25‑year‑old Uzbek woman, Ms Choksanam, fell from a 6th‑floor balcony at a Pattaya hotel on 7 December 2024, survived with serious injuries.
51‑year‑old Englishman, Paul Hadfield, heavily intoxicated, fell from the 2nd floor of a Pattaya hotel on 4 November, 2024.
27‑year‑old Swiss man, Luis Anders Engel, fell from a 3rd‑floor condo balcony in Jomtien (Pattaya) on 7 December 2023, breaking his leg and dislocating an ankle after leaning on a railing while smoking
41‑year‑old Chinese tourist, Wang Anjun, fell from a 5th‑floor hotel balcony in Karon, Phuket, early morning 27 December 2024. He was found injured after drinking with friends, later pronounced dead in hospital.
Unnamed South Korean man, aged 62, fell from a 10th‑floor balcony of a Pattaya hotel on 2 September 2024, landing on a terrace below, died at the scene.
Austrian tourist (unnamed) fell from the 4th floor of a Bangkok hotel room on 11 January 2024.
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5 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:7 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:
with the amount of people falling of balconies etc here
What "amount" is that? A very small number to be precise.
Just to elevate the pedantic level of idiocy...
....Being precise... what 'constitutes a small number ??? you forgot to be specific....
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4 hours ago, MalcolmB said:7 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:
meanwhile some on this forum think its ok not to wear a helmet on a motorcycle when popping to the nearby 7-11
They are living proof it is ok don’t you think?
He was probably on his phone not watching where he was going.
Nope.... but thats because you don't understand survivorship bias....
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1 minute ago, Felton Jarvis said:
Not fluent in Thai and I am never GOING to be fluent in Thai. I did not move here to go back to school and learn a language that is useless outside of Thailand.
Does it matter what languages are spoken in other countries or that Thai is a 'single country language' if we are living here all the time ???
I can speak French and have only ever used it sporadically when visiting France, thats is...
But, I also get your point - Thai is a very difficult language to master and some people have a greater affinity for languages than others, many struggle with the tones here... but, I see no harm in making continued efforts to improve - even without lessons etc my Thai slowly improves...
That said, all the close Thai friends I have are fluent in English and that has made a huge difference.... it also makes a difference because they are 'educated' and speak fluent English - hence the ease of overlap - there's just more in common ground in general....
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1 hour ago, wensiensheng said:2 hours ago, Thumbs said:
Good God are those thai police giants or are those balcony railings dangerously low! Any hotel advertising for western guests should have the balcony railings examined for safety
I think it’s a trick of the photo angle. Anyway he didn’t fall over those railings, he fell down the stairs
Agreed... nevertheless, the observation is valid - with the amount of people falling of balconies etc here - this just shows how low some of the railings are.
Separately, as you point out: Its incredibly unfortunate to kill yourself from a simple fall down stairs... but it also highlights how devastating an head impact can be... (meanwhile some on this forum think its ok not to wear a helmet on a motorcycle when popping to the nearby 7-11 - but this incidence shows what a simple fall and head impact can do).
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It’s a curious thing – I can’t imagine living in a country and not forming genuine friendships with the locals - but its not something that can be forced, building a friendship has to be an organic process.
One of my closest friends of over 20 years is Thai.
I’ve played on Thai football teams, made strong friendships along the way, and spent countless nights out together. Later, when married, those nights turned into shared holidays – first as couples, and eventually with our families. Dinners, trips, everyday life... it all blended into something very natural and normal.
Many of my Western friends here have also built close relationships with Thai friends, and through them, there’s been a kind of social overlap – I've ended up becoming friends with their Thai mates too.
The majority of Westerners I know who've spent any meaningful amount of time here have integrated to a degree, forging authentic, everyday friendships.
A key factor, I’ve noticed, is having a similar socio-economic and educational background. When that alignment’s there, there's simply more common ground.... from language and humour to shared cultural references and values.
That said, I’m not likely to be knocking back Lao Khao and getting legless with the win-motorbike lads on the corner - I see Thai males from that 'different' demographic as being somewhat more risky especially when alcohol is included - I think many would say the same thing.
I remember one Westerner telling me he’s never met a Thai guy who didn’t want something from him – usually money. And while that might be his experience, I suspect it's more a reflection of crossing social strata than anything inherently cultural.
Then there are the added 'friendships' that a more like acquaintances through common ground, such as parents of children's school friends.... We've holidayed, had dinners etc and there is a lot of common ground though true friendships have not developed.
There is also an added facet to friendships, and I think it holds across all cultures and nationality - thats Age... Its far easier to develop friendships when younger.
When older we are perhaps more cautious of new people, more guarded, and socialise less which reduces opportunity.
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2 minutes ago, lordgrinz said:I hope both bus drivers are fired, fined heavily, and hopefully lose their licenses. They by no means should be allowed to drive a bus or any other large vehicle ever again.
And the taxi driver behind the bus...
I see it here a lot... One vehicle breaks the law and makes and illegal manoeuvre in heavy traffic... as soon as one vehicle does so, others follow... "clear'y with the thought... OK, if they are going to do it and get away with it, so will I"....
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5 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:
I often see vehicles in Thailand travelling in the wrong direction, that's OK it's Thailand but what is weird, these vehicles are travelling at speed.
You're not expecting a vehicle on the wrong of the road but if these vehicles were travelling slow you can adjust.
The famous saying on this forum, something I've been hearing since arriving here...
"Always look both ways when crossing a one day street"....
Clearly, this wasn’t a one-way street, but even so, the bus was unlawfully driving on the wrong side of the road. Yet again, we witness another pedestrian failing to look, seemingly operating under the assumption that it’s safe to cross with disregard for their own wellbeing.... Thats not to suggest its the pedestrians fault, but I could never imagine crossing a road here or anywhere, without checking, checking and then checking some more...
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45 minutes ago, Cameroni said:1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:
this is where you have it upside down…She falls because she’s pulling so hard on his arm…. When his arm slip away from his body, she loses balance & grip & falls…. That’s it…
There is no push at all..
You need to focus on his left arm. You just missed it. It's at the very beginning of the video.
You can clearly see his left arm pushing her to the floor. Look at the motion the arm makes.
An obvious and forceful push.
Yep.. thats what I'm looking at...
He's got his arms coving his head.
She's trying to wrench his left arm from his head.
He either slips, or just lets his left arm go, and backwards she calls, because she's off balance and using all her weight to pull his arm...
It only 'looks like a push' (to some) because of his arm movement, but thats just because he's let his arm go free rather than resisting her....
His arm is only lowered because she managed to wrench it free from his head, but in doing so lost her purchase of his arm and her balance.
His other had remains on his head - I'm guessing if he wanted to push her, he might have done so with both hands. He was being very defensive, she slipped...
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13 hours ago, Cameroni said:
You have to focus on his left arm. It's at the beginning of the video. You just missed it. If you focus on the left arm you will see that he pushed her to the floor by shoving her with his left arm. She didn't "slip", she didn't "lose her balance", she was pushed. The motion of the left arm gives it away, and is completely aligned with the timing and direction of her fall. She was pushed.
And yes, she was pushed as the Swede got a little angry, due to the Thai girl holding on to him.
this is where you have it upside down…She falls because she’s pulling so hard on his arm…. When his arm slip away from his body, she loses balance & grip & falls…. That’s it…
There is no push at all..
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12 hours ago, Cameroni said:
Clearly the woman instigated the fracas, however, her holding the Swede resulted in him pushing her hard to the ground, so with that action it is clear who was the cause, the Swede.
You keep saying he pushed her - there was no ‘push’ at all…She was grabbing his arming, trying to wrench it from his head, she was using her body weight & leaning back…
… when his hand slipped off his head, she lost her grip & fell back…
Its a simple slip… but because his hand moved away as she was was dragging on it & she fell backward some are incorrectly seeing that as a push…. perhaps because they don’t want to see it any other way than ‘bad farang’….
You are clearly seeing the push because that’s what you want you see…
look where her feet are positioned when she’s dragging on his arms… one slip & she on her bum - that’s it….
Then she was slapping him around a lot…
The Swede has a good case to file assault charges & against both the woman & the other men involved in the group attack.
I still don’t see any trigger point from him & visuals show total non-aggression to the point of total submission.
No idea what he may have said - it might have been something quite nasty to trigger her… or something mild & shes just an unhinged nutter.
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Sunburn Nightmare: British Teen’s Thailand Trip Derailed by Sun
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Easy enough - but the question was quite realistic... "does anybody actually do that ?" [check the UV index]