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AlexRich

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  1. Interesting dilemma. the first thing that struck me was the fact that you have cleared all of your wife's debts, hopefully it wasn't too much? A nice gesture but I'd be careful not to do that in the future because it soon stops being a nice gesture and starts being what is expected of you.

     

    I fear you might have reached the "expected" stage when you are now being asked to clear the mother's debts. I think you need to make it very clear to your wife that you won't be clearing anyone else's debts going forward, including hers. Then watch to see what reaction you get over the next few months. If there is no understanding there then you may well have married someone who only wants you for money, and cares little for the relationship. In which case, sorry to say, you need to start planning your exit. 

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  2. These idiots arrive in South East Asia and think, because people are generally respectful, that they are "soft touches" who they can intimidate. This fool is going to find himself on the wrong end of an angry mob who don't know when to stop. Let's hope he has purchased quality health insurance. 

     

    I really hate the way that social media has incentivised offensive behaviour.

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  3. As my poorly educated, but very wise Grandmother used to say:

     

    "self praise is no praise at all"

     

    I've lost count of the many "experts" I've met in my life who turned out to be nothing of the sort. Unless you are on par with Stephen Hawking or Albert Einstein, probably not a good idea to tell the world how smart you are. 

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