Some get it, some do not get it, it is just the nature of the game, because it is a game you need to understand from beginning no matter where you are, as well accept the risk when you gambling on a younger woman being true to you rest of your life. There will always be some signs and warnings this is wrong, and also an equal right to end a relationship if one part do not feel the relationship/marriage is not right!
Some believe as long I do what she want, she will keep me for life, it is a terrible mistake. Would that work for you ? A woman who paid you land, house, food and a car because you could not afford that life yourself, and that is a lifetime contract?