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Gimmick

The idea of the Western man as a product of Hollywood is irresistible to them. 

Sweet smelling fresh flowers

Cellulose

4 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said:

Normal people don't take pills.

Yeah.

Just find the thing you love doing, the thing that you were born to do, it can even be painting. Get organised. Let the child take care of itself, so to speak. Get my point? 

15 minutes ago, Kenny202 said:

Haha. Well now you mention it I haven't been sleeping well. Erectile dysfunction definitely not. Little Kenny is up before me of a morning :-)

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Good. Have you seen a doctor about sleep? On a personal note, I was able to quit my pills only after I got back to India after saying goodbye to a painful relationship of 4 years. 

23 hours ago, bazza73 said:

He/she has appointed himself/herself as your diagnostician, probably in partnership with Dr. Google.

555, I dont absolutely rely on Dr Google for the answers in my research, after all it's only a search engine. And in Kenny's case, I cant just copy and paste his story into Google and get all the answers, can I? Nor is it humanly possible to find a match for him where there has been a successful diagnosis and the issue/issues resolved after following a line of therapy or treatment. I deal with cases on a daily basis as a counsellor. I might not be as good as I want to be. But I keep trying. 

23 hours ago, Kenny202 said:

Most you mention are treatable but incurable. Long long time or not. What is ur point?

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Kenny202, we have to rule out absolutely that the problem does not lie in you. 

Western women who understand abuse very well but are not going to impose their ideas of feminist bullshit should be welcomed to 'visit' Thai society to reform Thai women's lot. Then instances of Thai Women Saying #MeToo might increase.

Methinks, the idea of sexual abuse does not exist in Thai culture. Thai men or those who understand the culture very well should identify what constitutes abuse and lend their support to freeing Thai women from it. Imposing Western ideas of abuse might not work in Thai society. 

We need more Thai women in the media....just a thought.

Why Few Thai Women Are Saying #MeToo

They are being under-reported, possibly?

3 hours ago, sanemax said:

Explain how that works ?

The attacked should speak to the attacker ?

The potential rapist would not do it if someone spoke to him and asked him not to do it ?

The attacker and his potential victims must be separated. I hope the Kingdom maintains a database of sex offenders. They must be exiled permanently to one of the many uninhabited islands in Indonesia until such time as they are not ready to be reintegrated into society without abusing. 

Just now, sanemax said:

Where did I suggest that groping was harmless ?

I was merely suggesting that jailing somebody for life for say groping would not be excessive. You did not expressly suggest that groping was harmless, so am sorry.

3 minutes ago, AGareth2 said:

but sexual predators can't stop

ask Donald

would you recommend medication or surgery?

Donald Trump was having fun with words, he is incapable of abusing anybody. 

2 hours ago, sanemax said:

How long should they be "put away" for ?

Jail them for life for say, groping ?

I am personally against the idea of imprisonment which only perpetuates abuse, only the subject changes. Groping is not as harmless as you think it is, it can cause significant hurt. 

Obliterated

curmudgeon

Why Few Thai Women Are Saying #MeToo

Maybe survival instinct. They dont want to ruin the party?

Some men are only bothered with their sexual appetite and pretty much nothing else. It is such men who need to be put away. It is such men who given other men with healthy sexual appetite a bad name.

Oblivion

14 minutes ago, sanemax said:

What would be the second step ?

Tell me how you would go about stopping sexual attacks ?

If I may,

The second step is to understand what is stated in the first step. 

Sexual attacks can be stopped by creating a culture of communication. 

Harassment is caused by a breakdown of communication. From the male's inability to read the female mind.