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  1. Remember she has the Norwegian guy who also cares for her, maybe he can help too.

    What documentation of her condition have you seen ?

    The Norwegian guy is married to a Thai back in Norway. I found both him and her on FB. My GF has no interest in him according to her. He was just someone who made her feel appreciated at moment of despair.

    As she does not offer any future what so ever in terms of children, her own career or supporting my career. I'm paying lawyers big money for things she should be able to learn to handle, but there is no will from her side. Adding her betrayal makes it even more difficult. I have been living in Thailand for more than 12 years and she is probably the most beautiful girl i have ever seen, and i think it is her looks combine with here shyness, the non-fading passionate love and her respect for money that made me "trapped" in this relationship.

    I will probably support her treatment financially, But i will keep my distance emotionally..... But that may kill her will or power to accept the treatment though as she will totally alon as she refuse to tell anyone.

    She went to Bangkok Pattaya hospital yesterday and she emailed me the receipt after. In 7-days we will get the answer.

  2. I was not allowed to edit the first post:


    She never thinks or plans for the future. It is almost like she has known from the first i met her that she was going to die in a near future. I have thought about this odd behavior since we met. She don't want to work or study, not even learn about how to help me with my thai companys administration. Her only wish is to stay home and care about home and get children. We have tried to get pregnant for more than 2 years without any results. She tried to get pregnant before with here ex-thai-bf, but it did not worked either.


    Im 45-years-old. I have no children, but i want to have children now. I have spent my whole life on my career but im ready both mentally and financially to get kids and build a family. She will never be able to get pregnant, nor support my future career or make one for herself. I forced myself to see, after the first horrible shock, the positive thing in this betrayal with the Norwegian, New life and new opportunities will arrice. But i feel so sad for her. Without my help she will die soon for sure...


    It hurts so much to see or think about what she did behind my back, so helping her morally will be unbearable. I can help her financially though.



  3. Hi,


    In March this year 2014 me and my ex-Thai-GF since 4 year broke up after a fight. We have always had a passionate loving relationship. People around us was telling us that we were like teenagers. She 33 and me 45. In May we got together again and we had a wonderful time together and all felt perfect and we had no fights what so ever.

    She has a genuine good heart and has always been careful with money and never asked for any expensive toys, gold or anything.


    Betrayal

    In October this year, i got home after my usual 3 weeks a month trip to China. I had got me a new customer and wanted to celebrate that and had bought her a new 25K smartphone as she desperately needed a new phone. She asked me to install her old Skype to it. When i did, numerous messages popped up from a 41-year-old Norweigan guy who she apparently had been chatting with for a while. I did examine it further (i have never checked her phone or computer before as i'm not a jealous guy) and found that she had been chatting with him for at least 3 month and that they had met each other a few times during his 10 days holiday here in Thailand. Words in chat from both of them looked like "I miss you sooo much" I want to see you again" "thanks for the photos" "You are so beautiful" etc. And the last message was posted the day before i got back home.


    She has always been a timid and shy girl so this was really not her style. As you can understand, this relationship was game over from my side and she was kicked out. After this, she has tried really hard to make me forget this, but not asking me to take her back, but just forgive her and hate her.


    I headed back to China for work and last time i got home she used her own key after i had refused to open the door for her. She said she wanted to talk. And we talked and cried for the whole night and had sex. Next day i told her that i will never forget what she did behind my back and that she should leave, which she did.


    Cancer

    Next day i found her drunk (he never drink otherwise) we had a new fight and suddenly she told me that she was diagnosed with ovary cancer at a clinic at her home town in Issan 6 month earlier in April and that it had spread to her intestines and was untreatable according to that doctor.


    Future

    What should i do? Im fairly financially strong and could help her. She refuses though. She is asking me to forget her and absolute not to tell any of my or her friends or anyone, especially not her sister and mum. I threaten to tell her sister if she did not go to a real hospital as Pattaya Bangkok hospital for a second opinion and she accepted. And she has been there today and new samples been taken. Results will arrive within a week.


    But what about then? I love here over anything, but i still cant forget her betrayal. Her explanation is that she felt terrible cause the death sentence and that we earlier had broken up (but got together again) and that i was in China, and there was this Norwegian "friendly" person who made here feel alive again... I don't hink they had sex as she is too shy to jump in bed so quick. But that would have been easier to forgive than the words "I miss you sooo much" to him numerous times during three month.


    She never thinks or plans for the future. Almost like she knows that she is going to die in a near future. I have thought about this odd behavior since we met. She don't want to work or study, not even learn about how to help me with my thai companys administration. Her only wish is to stay home and care about home and get children. We have tried to get pregnant for more than 2 years without any results. She tried to get pregnant before with here ex-thai-bf, but it hasn't worked either.


    Im 45-years-old. I have no children, but i want. I have spent my whole life on my career but im ready both mentally and financially to get kids and build a family. She will never be able to get pregnant, nor support my future career or make one for herself. I forced myself to see, after the first horrible shock, the positive thing in this betrayal with the Norwegian, New life and new opportunities will arrice. But i feel so sad for her. Without my help she will die soon for sure...


    Thanks for reading. All comments are appreciated...

  4. Wow.. That seems very expensive. Is Sophon your only choice? I pay 899 for 15M/1.5 TRUE cable internet and that includes 72 channels of tv. Even ADSL service can be had for less than that.

    I paid 899 for true adsl 10/1 that I see in your list for 1990thb.

    Are you happy with True? Do you actually get what they promises?

    I'm actually looking at their 20/2 for 1299b. I have had some really bad experiences with True in BKK before. They was fast but NOT reliable and does not work so well with Skype. Maybe it is different here in Pattaya?

    Thanks,

  5. Sophon's internet SUCKS BIG TIME.... It is going down 5-10 times per day and during the last 3 month Speedtest to BKK avarages at 0.2 - 0.5Mbit out but i'm paying for 4Mbit. Ping time up to 800ms to bangkok many times... I have had their people here for 5-6 times and nothing changes.....

    Sad as CAT was BY FAR the best internet in Bangkok.....

    Is it possible to get a contract direct with CAT in pattaya without involving Sophon???

    Did they change the box? (cant call it a router) because I just had the same problem, which was cured by changing the box yesterday, I pay for 10MB but can hit up to 13MB downloading torrents

    Wow, 13Mbit, i wish i had 10% if that. They have change the small black box with 3 blue lights on it, twice and I'll start to think they just change it to make me feel like they are actually doing something. Some days it works just fine for some hours, then it can go days with ridiculous problems and then work fine again for a couple of hours.

    A good day I'll get around 2mbit and I'm happy chap. But most of the time it is around 0.2 - 0.5. In Bangkok we had three lines in with loadbalancer 50/5 with True, 2/2 with CAT and a 4/0.512 from TOT. The CAT outperformed the other two in reliability BIG TIME. True was nice, when it worked, to download from, but impossible to Skype from. TOT was even more crappy then True in reliability and it was slow.

  6. Oh, i get dizzy of all abbreviations OMP, SED,TDS, GoR. - just made up them, but anyway. I get headache to read about all theses exceptions and if and buts.

    I'm 43 years old, non-native English guy (i had to look up the word "abbreviations" above) who have been living in Thailand for more then 9 years. It is time to get my self a health and accident insurance that covers the bigger things like heart diseases, kindly, liver failure, falling of my bike and hurt my self really bad etc. I have really hard times to read all these complex texts and hope for some advice here.

    Which insurance is the best to cover the serious medical issues mentioned above without breaking the bank? I'm okay if i could pay like 3000 baht a month

    I have a work permit since 2004 so im in a way covered, at least i'll let me to believe that anyway. - any comments?

    I'm a non smoker, lightly over weight 103kg at 183 cm

    Cheers,

    I have looked over all of the options many times, and I have been with BUPA now for about 5 years. I have never had a claim, thank goodness.

    But, I have read many threads like this one, and they all say the company pays when it is supposed to. This month, I am upgrading my insurance from 2 Million, to 5 Million, which is the best plan they offer.

    By the way, the time to buy health insurance is when you do NOT need it and you are healthy. After you get sick, or come down with a disease, you might not be able to get health insurance, and if you do, it will not cover what you have.

    The thing I do NOT like about BUPA’s plan is that it really does not cover “Out Patient Care” The maximum coverage that you can buy is 60,000, and at my age, which is 55 it cost 30,000.

    The reason that this is a problem, is because some forms of cancer treatment are performed on “Out Patient Basis”, and they can be quite expensive.

    If you are a non smoker, you really should consider getting a cancer supplemental policy in addition to BUPA’s regular policy, just to be safe. BUPA offers a cancer rider, but not for foreigners.

    I found this other company Thai Health Insurance that does offer a cancer policy, but I am not sure if they cover foreigners. So, you are going to have to check it out.

    This is BUPA website where you can read over its policies, and get a direct quote.

    It would cost a 43 year old for their 1 Million Policy about 31,000 a year.

    It would cost a 43 year old for their 2 Million Policy about 34,000 a year.

    It would cost a 43 year old for their 5 Million Policy about 40,000 a year.

    Good luck

    I have never bought a health insurance before as i'm a Swed and there are all medial "for free" but paid by huge taxes. This will not cover my long time visit in Thailand though. When i read about the Thai insurance companies maximum coverages, it seams to be very low. Paying 35 000 a year for a maximum coverage of lousy 1.2 Mbaht. I mean, i read often about people getting multimillion bahts bills after some "minor" issue. I have some saved and could pay the 1.2millons my self, but not a 5-10millon medical issue... Maybe i have misunderstood the whole meaning of insurance companies maximum coverages??

  7. Sophon Broadband has good and quick service/support but the speed is a JOKE... im paing for 4/0.512 and most of the time i get around 1/0.2 except for early morings i can get 3/0.4...

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    You're the only one of MANY reports about Sophon that is negative. Myself and many others I know are very happy with Sophon and have no such problems. If what you're saying is true, there's some technical anomaly that needs to be addressed. Sophon's service techs have always been very good at finding and fixing problems, so your claims are suspicious.

    You can get CAT ADSL directly from CAT but it will cost you about 3 times what Sophon charges. Just call them or go to their office on South Pattaya road and you'll be up and running in a couple of days.

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    Yea, you make things up to fit your purpose (what ever it is) I can see at least TWO complains in just this small thread.

    Again, your lack to basic math knowledge, wink.png paying three times for something that is 10-20 times better seems for my to be a bargain. I will for sure look at it. Thanks for the advice, but im afraid that they are using the same CAT-line as Sophon.

    True Internet sucks big time in Bangkok, but how is it in Pattaya?

    Cheers.

  8. Sophon's internet SUCKS BIG TIME.... It is going down 5-10 times per day and during the last 3 month Speedtest to BKK avarages at 0.2 - 0.5Mbit out but i'm paying for 4Mbit. Ping time up to 800ms to bangkok many times... I have had their people here for 5-6 times and nothing changes.....

    Sad as CAT was BY FAR the best internet in Bangkok.....

    Is it possible to get a contract direct with CAT in pattaya without involving Sophon???

  9. Oh, i get dizzy of all abbreviations OMP, SED,TDS, GoR. - just made up them, but anyway. I get headache to read about all theses exceptions and if and buts.

    I'm 43 years old, non-native English guy (i had to look up the word "abbreviations" above) who have been living in Thailand for more then 9 years. It is time to get my self a health and accident insurance that covers the bigger things like heart diseases, kindly, liver failure, falling of my bike and hurt my self really bad etc. I have really hard times to read all these complex texts and hope for some advice here.

    Which insurance is the best to cover the serious medical issues mentioned above without breaking the bank? I'm okay if i could pay like 3000 baht a month

    I have a work permit since 2004 so im in a way covered, at least i'll let me to believe that anyway. - any comments?

    I'm a non smoker, lightly over weight 103kg at 183 cm

    Cheers,

  10. I used Big Move, albeit within Bangkok. They were very cheap, but nevertheless did a very good job.

    http://www.bigmoveth...m/eng/index.asp

    I have tried to contact them via email and phone for two days now but no one replies, just a phone receptionist who hardly speaks any English answers the phone when calling, but she dont know that i want... A BIG NO NO for me anyway.......

  11. Hehe, the guy from Italy change his shipping price from €30 to €75 ohmy.png

    So I found another one who only charge me €170 incl shipment. The reason for this low price was that he could deduct the EU VAT from the price.

    So if not stuck in customs, the helmet will cost me 6977 Baht totally.

    Hi,

    I got the Helmet today from Italy. Looks good and it fits perfect. 59 cm head so a Large was perfect. No trouble with the customs even as it was declared as 170 euro value. 170 euro = 6977 baht. clap2.gif

    PM if you want to buy one too from him.

    Thanks

  12. Hi,

    I was looking to rent a front corner unit at La Royale but THREE different real estate agents have advised me not to due to unfinished common areas, building of Centara and another objects right next door and some other problems. Should i avoid this building?

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  13. Hehe, the guy from Italy change his shipping price from €30 to €75 ohmy.png

    So I found another one who only charge me €170 incl shipment. The reason for this low price was that he could deduct the EU VAT from the price.

    So if not stuck in customs, the helmet will cost me 6977 Baht totally.

  14. Bad luck that the package got stuck in customs.

    I ordered one white N43 Air from Ebay today. €160 plus €30 for the freight. I only had problem once of all the 20-25 times i have got something from abroad, both large and small packages so i think the risk is minimal.

  15. you'll be more likely to get stopped because youre a farang on a big bike then riding it with plates from another province

    out of all the times ive gotten stopped in thailand its never been about the plates ( they stop you from the front by blocking the road so if your going to be stopped ul be waved to the side before they would get a chance to read your plates )

    Thanks, yes i can imagine that. Anyway i went to Real Motorsports today and had hopes to buy a yellow/black Versys today and this was whats welcomed me.

    You are not allowed to use that image extension on this community.

    https://www.sugarsync.com/pf/D6140680_2484875_09661

    This looks good i thought. But after talking with a sales representative, i was told that it is 8 weeks waiting time on the Y/B. 8 weeks ohmy.png . I could get a black one in Februari but i want the yellow/black... Tomorrow i will call them in Pattaya and see.

  16. Hi guys,

    I'm leaving BKK for Jomtien in 2-6 weeks. I have decided to buy a Kawasaki Versys 650 this week but where should a buy it? In Bangkok or Pattaya? What are the pros or cons to have a BKK bike in Pattaya? Will a BKK bike be more likely be stopped by the police for coffee/sangsom support money in Pattaya/Jomtien area?

    Thanks

  17. Hi and thanks for your input.

    I have followed Tony and Nikster in threads about Versys for the last 6 month.

    Yes, i could buy them 2nd-hand but i think the price between 2nd-hand and new is too little to be worth it. It is easy worth 50-80k to get a brand new Versys. It looks like i "need" them both :-) So for the KLM250 i could consider a 2nd-hand later.

    As i'm know my self, i will wait with the purchase till i get my new Swedish driving license in couple of weeks as i have lost the old one. And then with an international translation, people says i can get a Thai license without any schooling. Is that true?

    Thanks again for all your input and your old threads about riding Versys in Thailand.

  18. Hi,

    I'm leaving Bangkok for Pattaya/Jomtien after 6.5 years in the smog and it would be nice to have a bike again.

    I have been driving small and big bikes some month/years here and there but i would not say i'm an experient driver, not now anyway. Last i was driving was when I had a Honda Wave 125cc and a JRD Quest 125cc for 1.5years when living in Phuket 6.5 years ago.

    Now to my Question:

    I don't know which bike i want, actually i want them both. Kawasaki KLM250 for off-road and driving around the town, and a Kawasaki Versys for long adventure trips around Isaan and even further. But i cant really afford them both. If Thailand had the KLM450 in the same price range i would easy choose that one but they dont.

    I have read that Versys is quite capable of some off-roading if changing tires to Pirelli MT60 but not even near as good as a pure dual-purpose bike like KLM250. I think i have already decided to go for the Versys but then it would be very nice to have a real off-road bike too. Okay, go for the KLM250 then, Yes, it is a nice play bike and would be prefect in and outside town.... But it is powerless and my rear would start to hurt after couple of hours in to a long trip.

    I have been driving them both but still can't make a decision... Any ideas???

    I'm 182cm tall and weighs in at 103kg

    Thanks, Peter

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