PingRoundTheWorld

Financing development, agriculture, and livestock for the less fortunate. He's one of many saints.

After 48 years of marriage, and working for his pension - let the guy have some fun while he's still breathing. The reason he's doing it "spontaneously" is likely because he doesn't want to deal with the nagging and drama or even worse - requests to take her with him. Some women seem to think they are entitled to be the final say in everything - grave error in the long run - wouldn't be surprised if he took her <deleted> for decades and finally broke and decided he just doesn't give a **** anymore.

Exactly what I was thinking - who cares what the ministry of health thinks - it's not their area of expertise nor should it be his decision.

Exactly. This is extortion and should be a criminal offense. Treating a few broken bones does not cost 1.5 million baht. Not even close. They're overcharging her because she literally has no choice except pay up.

Meals? Registering them for school and making sure everything's alright? Dealing with it when they're sick? etc etc etc. Did you have a hired girlfriend take care of them and you're discounting her cost because you'd hire her anyway? ???? (no offense- only saying this because you've mentioned having a live-in paid gf before - not that I see anything wrong with that mind you) I guess the bottom line is that if you already have someone to take care of them (paid or not) at home then it's "free", but if you do not then paying for child support would probably be cheaper than hiring a nanny etc.

Which is probably exactly the reason she's "protesting". Then again he looks like a bad enough guy that some women would get obsessed with regardless of money. Either way she's unlikely to ever see him again. Best case scenario he goes to jail in Poland, worst case scenario he dies in jail. Either way barred from Thailand for at least 5 years (if they don't blacklist him completely). She'll move on the minute that sinks in, so maybe some of the posters seeking to give a "private consultation" will be able to in the not distant future. ????

Who did the Chinese bosses support? And that might just be the angle here...

Because people are stupid and think vaping is like sucking on candy. It's not- it's exactly like smoking and sometimes even worse. The high-end devices and vape juice (eww) may be slightly less harmful than cigarette smoke, but the cheap mass-market devices contain various substances that may actually be more harmful. The biggest problem isn't people slowly killing themselves with smoking - IMHO let them do what they want in privacy and designated smoking areas - the problem is that vaping is being used as a substitute for cigarettes in designated non-smoking areas. A venue I often go to has a huge "no smoking" sign on the wall, and people will freely blow that **** in your face without a second thought. Vapes need to be legalized, regulated (remove the mass-market ones with cancer-causing substances from the market), and treated like cigarettes by venues and users. That means NO SMOKING means NO SMOKING - vaping in no smoking areas needs to be banned and enforced. Also more effort needs to go into educating the public that vaping isn't harmless, and secondhand smoke from vaping isn't harmless and needs to be regarded as smoking.

But that's just the thing- anybody that is in a position to expose and act on anything has no motivation to. What? Police are going to expose themselves? Government? Is there anyone in charge who *doesn't* have a conflict of interest?

You really think he's been making these moves without authorization from the very top? It's all politics and power moves, and he's just the media face to it. If it has the added benefit of reducing corruption - then great.

Reminds me of the times my gf would go out of her way to give the security guards at our condo little things like coffee of pepsi etc. I guess it's ingrained in society that they need to help those that protect them. Having said that- buying an officer coffee or even giving them a few hundred baht voluntarily is quite different from being extorted for 30,000 under the threat of arrest. I think none of these cases would've made it to the spotlight if the officers weren't greedy and asked for smaller amounts. Sadly I don't think the pay system will change anytime soon, so as the lesser of two evils I hope amounts requested are at least reduced to reasonable rather than extortionate.

That's very common. Likely the entire 7500 baht goes to her mom for her time and effort raising the kid. It's basically a full time job (and more), so 7500 is not that much. It's actually a great deal because raising the kid on your own would cost you a lot more than that. And if you're wondering - she gives her mom money too - a lot of it - they all do. Since this is a kid you're actually in contact with and get to see, and want to keep it that way, I'd offer her a modest increase to 8500/mo and tell her you will consider increasing it a little more when your job situation improves in the future. The other alternative is to cut her off - but that means you won't be able to see your son or be involved in his life for an indefinite amount of time, if ever.

A few encounters with bar girls/staff or freelancers, and you'll quickly lose any disillusion that they don't just want your money. Don't need government officials to learn that. Can still have great fun (in bars, and Thailand in general) but one does have to watch the bill here...

Exactly. One would think that given so much publicity over the last week these *****s would lay low for a while - but nope! Straight into another scandal.

And likely the only action that will not be taken.

Common misconception that vapes are less harmful - they are not - they are far more toxic than normal cigarettes, and to make matters worse people think they are candy sucking on them all night long - far more than they'd do with a cigarette. There should be a better effort to educate people on the dangers of vaping, as well as better enforcement to disallow vaping around other people as the toxic fumes are even worse than cigarette second hand smoke. Ever since these cancer vaporizers became more popular I routinely suffer respiratory complications whenever some ***** blows it in my face. I've tried telling people not to so many times but since they don't think of it as cigarettes they keep forgetting every time. I guess the solution is to avoid people who vape completely - no big loss.

I was going to comment that apparently his health and fitness advice don't work - but seems like his longevity was more affected by staying in Pattaya and likely either drugs or questionable dating choices. RIP.

So either a wannaba hiso (posts a lot of <deleted> on instagram but in reality broke), a gold digger, or a working girl. Or some combination of the three. Either way buyer beware. ????

Sounds like she just likes foreigners. Working a respectable job and having no visible tattoos are actually good flags. Beyond that it really depends on what she posts - the real red flags would be constant selfies, bikini pics, party pics, and other attention seeking behavior. Anyway just talk to her and meet and find out.

In any other country this would be normal and legal. It's a mystery why in Thailand being married to a Thai does not automatically grant you the right to work. It's an even bigger mystery why some stickler farangs get offended by such behavior. It's usually not Thais who care - it's farang. Live and let live.

You must be fun at parties.

Confidence level: the elections were fair. They should've however arrest and fine her for vaping - this has quickly become a menace to the rest of society who doesn't like sucking on embalming fluid. Literally it contains embalming fluid, paint solvent, and various other toxic gasses. And the worst part is *****s think it's harmless candy and will blow it right in your face without even realizing it's poison.

Exactly. Also zero sympathy to any coward who hits someone with a bottle over the head. Bottom of the barrel - all parties involved.

If they made it easier to hire foreigners legally then this wouldn't be an issue. Businesses are reluctant to hire legally because of all the bureaucracy, time, labor, and money involved. Not to mention the process takes too long.

Imagine being a Pattaya citizen, concerned about prostitution. Mind blown.