Got to be kidding me they have a shipping company? They should pay you but I know it’s not the custom. First of all you don’t need to show the dowry, me I gave mine $1,500 the other half I gave to wife in a future date well the one I gave to parent was given to sister to help with the farm but after 15 years she never paid it back, seconds hardly anyone gives that much even if your rich, lastly think with your head that’s on the shoulder dude the parents don’t have a right to dictate how much the dowry will be go low ball if they don’t like it you can tell them bye bye I already found another lovely girl (but masterbate before telling them it helps thinking with the correct head lol ).