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I had an identical experience on Friday, June 6th.
(Just a little touchy when a uniformed official at the
information desk said I needed 800K and bank-book
in addition to my notarized letter of income.)
Once over that hurdle, just about a 20 minute wait for
my number to be called and treated very courteously
after that!
Total time - 1 hour, 15 minutes!
Chaeng Wattanna is so much more pleasant and
professional than Lat Phrao!
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LaraC, What you described is 2nd-hand heresay- gossip. You only heard, (and described to us,) her side of the story. Without hearing his side of the story, there is actually nothing anyone can or should do- which includes telling her to dump-the-bum. After hearing his side of the story too, it might make perfect sense for him to try to get her to dump him because he might be tired of being smothered- ??? We will never know until we hear both sides. So, for us to waste our time concerning ourselves with this incomplete drama is neurotic.
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There have been times when the only female interaction, (aside from the commercial, bar-girl ones,) have been the little Sweethearts working in the 7-11. Although I do my best not to perve at them too much, I have seen some absolute angels working in some of them!
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I can assure you that America has no interest in supporting your idiotic plutocratic , militaristic paradise chump. Our government has placed sanctions against Thailand for a reason, and us Americans support it.
You sir, Mr. MichaelScottFan, do NOT speak for me- so your statement, "..and us Americans support it," is completely opposite of my feelings about the matter. I don't know where you think you got the presumptive attitude that you speak for all Americans but, sir, you don't and I don't appreciate you putting words in my mouth!
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The only complaint I have about Lesbians/Toms/Dees; is that so far they haven't let me play too
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Wonderful report - thanks! (No mention of the social interactions/nightlife situation- ????)
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I was here in the early 70's and it was just as good as being legal.
The going price was 1 Brick (of 20 "Sticks") for 20 Baht.
Me and all my buddies would ride all over the city in tuk-tuks always
"having-a-puff" between stops for pooying. Routinely, we would even
walk along Sukhumvit smoking away and only receiving curious
glances from passersby. We pretty much stayed "shit-faced" 24/7.
Thai society was much more friendly then. Noticeably less materialistic,
ambitious, judgemental etc. The famous "Thai Smiles" were more frequent,
genuine and didn't necessarily depend on a commercial transaction nearly
as much as now.
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No, I wouldn't recommend it.
"Farangs" are always outsiders here
no matter how fluent, friendly, civilized, virtuous....
It is a very distrustful society that is
fixated on appearance and superficiality.
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What has changed is the type of expat and tourist who stays in Thailand and their attitude. I think many farang who came here (including many on thai visa) thought that thailand was going to be a cheap , quaint third world-esque country and an easy place to pick up women. What they found instead is that:
a) they can only afford to buy alcohol in 7-11s or cheapest bars and spend their days raging about 10 baht differences in drink prices in bars and double pricing at national parks.
they have zero success in meeting /picking up non-bar thai girl type cuties and instead find themselves with rather unattractive aging thai bar ladies- its the getting rebuffed from the pretty non-working thai girls that burns the ego (and the resentment to all things thai builds)
c) they come here expecting third world but are shocked to find infrastructure newer and better than their own home towns back home (how come these 'backward thais ' have better facilities than us super smart farangs back home?? further burning the old ego).
d) they see the middle class and wealthy thais enjoying a better lifestyle and standard of living than their own lives back home (and again that burns - how can these backward thais and their ways be more successful than me!?).
Overtime it builds up and the end product is the grumpy old farang so common in thaivisa and thailand (we all know the type) who begins to hate thailand for all of the above reasons but tries to disguise it with a faux concern for democracy and corruption.
For me, MOSTLY B and D - only sometimes A and C.
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If Thailand became "undo-able," I would have to research the plusses and minuses of Laos, Cambodia, Myanmar, Philipines. I also am spoiled by the climate, cost-of-living, and infinite "eye-candy." (My pension is so small that I wouldn't be able to be retired anywhere else!)
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Yes, he was great in "Capote" and also in "Flawless" with Robert DiNero. I am sad that we won't be able to enjoy any more movies with him in them doing an excellent job.
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Sounds great! - I'll be interested in seeing how it does
for a couple of months then I might "give-it-a-shot."
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It's a "mixed-bag."
Most wouldn't risk the disapproval and ridicule
from their peer group. Occasionally, you could find
a curious one that needs "sponsorship."
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I remember whe the Beer Garden and the restaurant across the soi were mere "sidewalk tables."
Lately everytime I've walked through all I saw were 2's, 3's and 4's, with an occaisional 5 or 6 - (on a scale of 1 - 10.) Didn't see anything that interested me so kept walking. Seems like with the passing of time, the "foreigner" appeal becomes less and less desireable - to the point now where we're (mostly) forced to pick and choose among the destitute 40+ year-olds. In answer to the question in the OP, No, I don't know of any similar venue. 40 years ago, Thermae was a fun, happy, great place to frequent but now it is utterly depressing!
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I have pointed out to some young women in my village that their shirts, shorts or pants are made from the flg of my country ( USA ).
They had no idea that it was a flag or what country it represented.
They just think the colors and pattern are cool!
It's like all of the Tshirts with English writing on them that they wear and cannot read.
At a school function recently, I saw a young mother wearing a shirt that had the word "F*uk" printed on it at least 20 times.
She had no idea what it said.
I informed a woman once that the shirt her 10 year old daughter was wearing said " I am good at using my mouth to make boys happy"
Again, she had no idea what it said until I told her.
I guess it's kind of like all the Americans who had Japanese characters tattoos on their bodies and have no idea what they mean...
It's just stupidity!
At an evening Market in Isaan, I saw a beautiful little 13 or 14 year-old angel wearing a large black T-Shirt with big white letters on the front that said: "I <deleted> FOR COKE!" (Obviously having no idea what it means!)
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In 1973, I was years-old and FULL of youthful arrogance and stupidity. I rented a Honda 350cc and drove it from Bangkok to Chiang Mai. On the way, during a severe downpour, I pulled into a police booth along the road. The policeman on duty silently dried me off and gave me a place to lay down and take a (much needed) nap before resuming travelling when the rain stopped. Once I arrived in Chiang Mai, I went up into the hills north of the town. Little kids with a handful of rice saw me
on a dirt road and I could tell my the looks on their faces that they thought I had come from outer-space! Coming down from the hills approaching Chiang Mai- my motorcycle froze-up completely! I coasted into town and stapped at a little garage. The owner informed me that there wasn't a drop of oil in the crankcase at all. The owner took my motorcycle apart and attempted to fix it. The little money that I had wasn't even enough for the parts but the owner of the shop put the bike back together, and paid for the cost of me and the bike back to Bangkok on the train. Now, 41 years later, if I could find that shop owner, I would most happily pay him- with interest, for his kindness and generosity freely given to a complete stranger.
In Buriram a couple years ago, I was waiting for a friend- just standing at a Saturday Bizarre- ("Flea Market,") when I overheard the sweetest little angel of about 12 or 13 years-old on the phone with her friend saying "Ma! Ma doo farang!"
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I'm a human being, you can apply whatever labels you like. The whole concept of nationalism is primitive and outdated.
WRT to comparing us to other countries is that the US claims to be a force for good, based on ideals, but the underlying reality is very different, used to be a lot more true in the past, or maybe most Americans were just a lot more naive.
If we just were honest that our government's purpose is to rape the planet to benefit the top percent, not be such hypocrites that we're "helping" other countries, maybe we'd get more respect.
In any case from a purely practical POV our strategy is flawed, it's all just a house of cards built on shaky ground, we've already jumped the shark a long time ago just a matter of time this Empire crumbles just like every other in history. . .
As usually I find my self in agreement with brother Wym except on the point of Nationalism, and I will get to that later,
First I want address The US's behavior around the world that we all agree is something less than desirable to say the least.
The US does what it does because it can, this is the nature of human beings, When Britain could Britain did also, so did the Spaniards , etc, etc,etc, The only difference is that now, with communications and travel being what they are, the problem is not localized as it was in the past.
What most people say about Nationalism being the opiate (along with religion) of the masses is true, but it is certainly not outdated.
It is an institution necessary fot the survival of the species.
I used to be a committed internationalist until the following revelation.
Me and a partner had opened a Pet shop, and among all the other services we offered we had a section with tropical fish. We had a number of fish tanks , no different from the pet-shops you are used to, that housed all the different fish,
and each tank was serviced by it's individual water filter.
Avery few days we had to clean these filters, it as a lot of work.
So me being lazy and the egghead that I am , devised a system where all the tanks would be interconnected with siphon tubes, a large diatom filter would remove the water from the last tank , clean it and return it to the first tank.
Brilliant!!!!
When I told my friend , who was experience in the business, he looked at me as if I was crazy,
we cant do that he said
aside from the fact that some tanks have different temperatures, If one tank gets infected with a disease, they will all get infected and we will loose the whole lot.
Years later I was thinking that story and that;s where my revelation came from.
as counter intuitive as it might sounds, All the different countries are the check and balances that keep as from killing or enslaving all of as.
When a cultural , or social disease, such as Nazism , totalitarianism, communism,capitalism, and any of the other 'isms rear their ugly head, there other countries to counter balance them.
Imagine if you will,if there was only one world governing body, and that government was infected with any particular 'ism. as all government tend to do, If that 'ism was malevolent .
we would loose the whole lot.
Nationalism maintains the different countries that in the absence of other effective institutions maintain a sense of Check and balances.
Good analogy!
My thoughts are:
I'm in complete agreement with "The whole concept of nationalism is primitive and outdated."
So, (using your analogy,) if we created another "system of check and balances"
that wasn't based on greed, domination, brutality and violence- then the "fish-tanks"
would have to make some (beneficial, creative, ...) adaptations- which
isn't necessarily a bad thing- (Especially in the case of North Korea, Cuba, USA, Israel,....)
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Is Thai Society Bereft of Social Skills?I have noticed that the vast majority of Thais don't seem to know many of the basic "social-skills" that are commonplace throughout the rest of the world. I'm referring to basic social graces such as introducing yourself, starting a light, mutual 2-way conversation, (either in Thai OR in English,) looking at people in your immediate vicinity,.... It's not just with farangs- frequently, they don't even converse or recognize each other. Busses, trains, vans, songteows, planes,...- are generally silent.
Last night I went to dinner with my live-in girlfriend in order to meet 3 of her co-workers. One spoke to me-once, and one played on her telephone the entire time.
At my girlfriend's periodic (large) family get-togethers there's drinking, karaoke singing, laughing, joking, - but no actual conversations.
The cutting in line at the BTS, the banks, the 7-11s, the avoidance of eye-contact or any recognition whatsoever after holding the door for someone with full arms- also indicate a lack of social awareness and common courtesy that seems more prevelent in Thailand.
I've heard it said that "Thais, generally, haven't gone anywhere and haven't done anything- so all they know is to work 6 or 7 days a week."
I know there will be "defenders" that will point out that THEIR Thai friends are socially-perfect and I agree that there are exceptions to every generalization. I try though, to not discount the 95% validity because of the 5% exceptions. I have met a lot of farangs that, after being here for some time, also adapt this antisocial attitude so as to fit-in with the society and not interact with people that they don't already know.
Just wondering what is missing from Thais environment in their youth to not become aware of others and caring about others. I think I learned "social-graces" by being around loving parents and grandparents, a small town, close friends,...What do you think would help Thais to learn to be a little more social, a little more courteous, a little more polite, - ???????
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I'm American too but I wouldn't be caught dead wearing the 'Stars and Stripes' because I am so ashamed of the foreign policy. I think Hollywood has a lot to do with the popularity of America among non-americans. What is a flag anyway besides a colored rag?
Look up the word 'symbol'. For example, your photo is not 'colored paper', it is a symbol for 'rumdum'...
I hope you feel better calling me a stupid drunk. Ironically, I very rarely drink anything at all. Most people agree that the "symbol" is not the thing - the "map" is not the territory. But, if it makes you feel superior to personally insult others, go ahead and we will just feel sorry for you.
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I'm American too but I wouldn't be caught dead wearing the 'Stars and Stripes' because I am so ashamed of the foreign policy. I think Hollywood has a lot to do with the popularity of America among non-americans. What is a flag anyway besides a colored rag?
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I dunno - methinks MOST of the people the world over
are selfish and lead insular lives. Possibly, Thais
haven't yet figured out how to mask their self-interest
as well as they're able to in the west- ?
Anywho, there are a lot of experiences I can relate to -
half a day at the bank, holding the door and not given
any recognition whatsoever, picking up litter, not putting
trash in bins,.... I first came to Thailand in 1973.
Good and bad people everywhere. A somewhat insular
lifestyle with your guard up frees one to enjoy the positives
more of the time.
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A little off topic but I just returned frm a 9-day maiden visit to HCMC. Surprisingly,it felt like MORE of a "Farang=Walking ATM" than Thailand. (Possibly on par with Pattaya and Phuket.) Additionally, my observation was that nightlife and P4P was quite scant and of very low quality.
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Soapy Massages
Pot Tai
BBBJs
Goothio - (Monkey-Ball Soup)
Taxi Fares, Train Fares
G.F.E.s
Mototcycle Taxis
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OP - "
Am I just a farang bank to her?"
Yes.
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Invitation to the Grand Opening of the Thaivisa Lounge Bar in Bangkok on July 4
in Bangkok
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Coming with my +1. Sorry though - My phone is too old to be "Smart."