Well said.
But you still read up on hip replacements...? Isn't that funny?
And your surgeon maybe thought " oh, another f...ing dentist who knows nothing about real medicine but thinks he knows after a bit of googling"
The alternative would be, just find out who is the best surgeon, see him, let him do his thing and don't think too much. Not exactly intellectually satisfying. I did my hip replacement that way, as I am not an orthopedic surgeon.
(The result was not good BTW).
But people who suffer from chronic prostatitis like Xylo, or fibromyalgia, or CFS, or long Covid, you name it, they will invariably start reading up on their disease. And they will come across all kinds of studies, some of which they don't fully understand. And as they keep being dismissed by their doctors ("their is nothing", "it's all in the mind", "you must learn to live with it") they will feel that sometimes they know more than their doctors. Often, they are right. More often, they are wrong.
It's not that clear-cut.