I was in agreement with you until I saw your writing style then 100% agreed with your secret admirer who privately tried to help you. You are one of those people who type like you speak by using keyboard characters or spaces to indicate pauses and/or emphasis. It's similar to people who overuse the word "like", which in the vast majority of cases can be omitted if not being used for comparative purposes, but instead carries over from their poor speaking habit and manifests into a poor writing communication. To a reader of basically decently written information your posts are painful to read.