Yes but this depends on who you are, many do not care about this aspect of the couple that they only ask to be served at the table, while others desire other more intellectual aspects even if the difference in vision can be very different for our different origins, that can be stimulating but also presents risks of mutual incomprehension, and before venturing on this path it is good to know the Thai vision on many aspects that can be very incomprehensible for us, both in the religious and social aspect.
I believe that if you are lucky enough to have an intelligent person in an emotional relationship it could be wise not to want to impose yourself with your own ideas or concepts but to respect the visions of others to find a good harmony in the couple's relationships, after all having other visions to evaluate or discover are an enrichment to your own vision.