What do you know about my life? It has not always been easy. Have had some bad times, and ups and downs as you say. Think that goes for all of us. In my world, as I have stated numerous of times, moving abroad is not for all and everyone. To be able to do that, you must know 100 % that you have financial means to make it. yet even more important if you start a family and have children in a foreign country.
Just too many foreigners that live on white fluffy clouds. Burn all their bridges in home and have nothing to return to. At least we read much about that here. It´s as simple as rent a place. However, abandoning your wife and children is not an option in my book. That´s why it´s so important, actually crucial, to plan your life carefully.