Forgive me, but it sort of sounds like: "The only good indian is a dead indian". And, we know that cannot be true.
As I stated, you should get out more, and meet some Russians more to your taste.
Might I suggest: The Russian Tea Room in NYC?
Oh, so solly, it has moved out of Central Park.....
Actually, I am not yet sure why so many here dislike the Russians.
Humans are Humans.
If you want to find the more refined Russians, to suit your refined tastes, rather than the boorish Russians people here seem to be complaining about....
Then you just need to change your haunts where you hang out.
Obviously, you are hanging out in all the wrong places, it seems to me.