Nothing to do with what I think or grey areas, it's a matter for the law and commonly held principals, which agree that children should not be employed as prostitutes. Sex tourists in their late 50's seeking out teenage bar girls and thus supporting illegality in a business mired in corruption, depression, exploitation and drug abuse are morally reprehensible, and bordering on abusers. You brought your ex bargirl wife into the discussion as some sort of justification for under aged girls in the sex industry, it's not.