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I guess @RSD1 no longer believes we are the same person 😊 Another swing and a miss 😊

Dear @SoCal1990 Allow me to explain how conversation works and does not work 😊 What works is making your point concisely in order to keep your subjects engaged. What doesn't work is to talk incessantly or to write a wall of text, expecting people to be interested enough to stay engaged. Most will either tune out or simply bypass. Are you a crashing bore in real life? Then of course is the arrogant assertion that I need to "address all of the points you have made" 😊 I don't even remember what you wrote. If you wish to engage me in conversation, please follow the normal etiquette or risk being ignored. A shame that I needed to explain that to you. Has no one told you that before? Notwithstanding, I can give you a reply without needing to read your wall of text. This is social media, not 'real life'. In person you can assess the situation on an individual basis and behave accordingly. For example, if I see a thirsty old man walking along with a young local girl, I'm not going to say anything about it to him. What I think about it is another matter. Similarly, he's not going to stand up on a soapbox to tell us all about his ED and what he takes to supplement his performance so he can plug that 24 year old girl. If he did that, he'd likely get a reaction from the public. Do you see where I am going with this? Don't do something the majority of the public would find disgusting and not expect that someone expresses disgust. That it upsets someone, that many find the thought of a wrinkly old man forcing himself on a woman forty years his junior, is nothing to do with me. I simply voice what the majority of the population really think about it. If he didn't announce it proudly, likely no one would say anything at all. If the protagonist doesn't want to know, then better not to read or to undertake the action in the first place. If you cannot stand the heat...

Thank you for expressing your thoughts. 😊 Perhaps I seem an enigma to you. Something beyond your understanding, so you try to fill the gaps with your imagination. But it's just your imagination, which is limited to your experiences. The truth is that nothing that you have written applies to me. What I see are a few sex tourists and delusional old men, desperately slinging mud, in the hope that something by chance might hit. But it's all wrong. 😊 My personal life, my motivation. All hopeful guesses and all missing the mark. It's rather obvious why this is the case.😊 Let me leave you with this simple illustration: There are quite a few old men here who express their disgust at the thought of having sex with a woman their own age. Yet those same men tells themselves that a much younger woman enjoys having sex with a wrinkly old man 😊

Sad creature...

I guess you bought a package costing 199 baht at some point.

I've seen worse 😊

All I can say is that we didn't walk in their shoes. Different people see different things as normal. Some were brought up in chaos, so that will be their norm. A calm person will be annoying to them. I might appear brutally honest on this forum because I believe it's the best way to be. It gives us a beacon as to where our fellow men are standing. Without that, we are alone. So I don't shy away from being true on this forum. In real life, you decide if you want to tell and if the person can accept what you see. Just as it took you a while to find a good woman, it's the same with friends. You are lucky if you have even one or two who really have your back. There are a lot of good and true people out there. Don't be disillusioned by some negative experiences.

Come on...we've moved on to a slightly more adult level now. @Hummin has some real concerns. Perceived urinating contest over.

I am certainly not one of those people. A forum is not the same as in person. Everything appears more extreme and black and white. In real life there are more nuances. Here...it's more like a boxing ring. Do not enter if you are a shrinking violet, as people will be more general and forthright. Most of the people who have a problem with me here, would probably love me in person. But here is quickfire and often from the hip. You need to be on the ball 😊

We? You mean you and the other sex tourists? I'm okay with that. Anyone with anything about them can recognise someone who is true. Slippery snakes often cannot recognise which end is which.

Don't get upset (hugs) It's just an outlet for many. For me, it's a view into a world that I don't care to enter. But interesting to learn and discuss nonetheless. You are one of the few regular posters who still has something about him, if that means anything to you 😊

Again, I wrote there is nothing wrong with that. It was only @JensenZ who tried to make something of it. I have friends from all over. One or two even ex bar girls who have moved on to better things. But an old man pretending that a young girl wants to have sex with him and pretending that it's a relationship is quite something else.

😊 Still clutching at straws? 😊

I'm happy for you to go away thinking that I've made it up. If you had any integrity at all, I would happily discuss. But there are way too many....(trying to think of a polite word). So...no. I reveal what I choose to reveal.

I definitely a man, as compared to what lurks here and that is precisely why I don't share my details. Birds of a feather and all that. Sorry but I'm not one of your group.

Yes, because I don't like to edit posts as a rule. It looks ugly. You are really grasping at straws 😊 Be a man. Own what you do. You want to pretend a young girl is attracted to you, that's up to you. Emperor's New Clothes and all that. But we aren't all sex tourists here. Keep that in mind. Anyway, let's get back on topic.

Not side tracking, you did it twice, in separate posts. Also tried to make a big deal out of me mentioning Issan. Old lady? I'm not old myself, wrinkly. 😊

It's the other way around. I have less stress in my life, so I can be the voice of reason in stressful situations. She supports me in other ways.

With such an unpleasant introduction to your post, are you actually expecting me to divulge my personal details with a monger? Social skills my friend. When you lack them, your only alternative is to pay. Have a nice day.

Your post needs some work 😊 It reads as if you are Over 50 and Feeling the Frustration 😊

Why would I try to have a serious and honest conversation with someone who tries to dismiss me as a Troll? They buy gifts, they are actually attracted to me, (as I'm not some wrinkly old man pretending that a young woman wants to have sex with him), they can support themselves, we can discuss anything in depth, plan for the future, we support each other in all things...I could go on and on... This is a standard. Others may be happy to buy themselves a woman. Up to them. But don't expect everyone to give you a pat on the back for it. Childish to call someone a Troll because they have a different perspective than yourself.

Why is it that you scream Troll when someone has a different perspective than yours? A bit weak and pathetic don't you think? Man up! Now...where were we? We discuss psychology of people like yourself and her work colleagues. Not boring at all to understand the creatures that roam the earth. No, I don't believe that your girlfriend is attracted to you. How's that? You've been here long enough that you don't need to fool yourself. It's about the money. I'm pretty sure that you have funded all of your relationships, one way or another. Apologies for suggesting your girl was from Issan, nothing bad about being from that region. Shame that you took it as an insult.

Yes 😊 Why would you do such a thing? It was renowned for being a place mainly for sex with young women.

That was your mistake, to settle for such a woman. Girls/women that like you, give you gifts. My Thai friend did so on the very first day I met her. Left a huge Teddy Bear outside my door and continued in the same vein. I recently reconnected with her and again, first day wanted to send me things. Had similar experiences with other Thai girls. You might read it as a 'sense of superiority' and indeed it might be. Not settling for something below your standard and getting dragged down by it. It sounds like you were just happy with regular sex and a kind of companion and ignored the rest until it was too late. Whereas, I only move forward with girls who actually like me and vice versa. It's seems you were easily convinced.