FrankieGoesToHolly

Does that sound like an intelligent man to you?

My opinion is that Mr D Trump is as thick as mince. He just has people whispering in his ear and sees dollar signs. He's not intelligent enough to have thought up any of this by himself. He's just willing to do the things that moral people would not. That's not to state that everything he does is bad, but that it's easy to talk him into something if he can get something out of it. He lies like his life depends on it. Do those observations mean that I am on the LEFT? Remember that many Republicans, even those in the current government, stated exactly the same things. But now they are happily playing along. Why? Because he is also willing to do the things that benefit them. Totally unscrupulous people. That's how I see it. Does this mean that I am on the LEFT? Am I am Leftist for telling it as I see it?

That's a bit of a random rant, don't you think? Why would you get angry about that and then start a completely unrelated thread, seemingly angry at some invisible people? That seems like unhinged behaviour to me. How does it seem to you? Normal?

But it's you demonstrating hatred. You seem to hate the LEFT, whomever that may be. But in fact it's just you hating yourself. There's no one there but you, tapping away on your keyboard. Weird.

You too? Shouting and raging into the abyss? Why are you so angry? Why so much hate?

This post reeks of mental illness. Are you ok? You do know that this is not a U.S. board, don't you? Maybe you can try to crawl out of that dark hole and emerge into the real world.

I guess the OP needs to see her, to see if the feeling is the same. If not, then it will be easier for him to move on. He has veered from "She either goes to CM or it's over" to him going to Pattaya to meet her. Hopefully he'll meet up with a couple of members there and have a laugh about it all. Rather than taking it to heart. If she's in Pattaya, she's not there for the beach. So he'll need to offer to cover her expenses going forward. An uncomfortable situation. If she has no income other than from men, then any 'emergency' situation will be on him. My advice would be to part amicably and find himself a more appropriate partner. Keep what he had as a pleasant memory. Either way, put love at the apex of your thoughts, rather than to seek to control.

So what's the plan? When will you go to Pattaya to meet her?

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Thought about it for a second, since he was highly disrespectful to your wife, over someone who very obviously sells herself. Added to that, it is in his interest that he knows the truth...

But he already knew this...from his very first post... "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time" Maya Angelou Meaning of the quote Actions speak louder: Focus on what people do, not just what they say. Don't make excuses: Avoid rationalizing bad behaviour or hoping they'll change just because you want them to. Recognize patterns: Repeated actions, even subtle ones, reveal a person's core nature, says Tiny Buddha. Self-awareness: People often know their own flaws (e.g., "I'm selfish," "I'm mean") and revealing them is a form of honesty, says Instagram user.

What I like best about her profile info is that literally anyone can apply. If a girl was looking for a relationship, other than purely financial, there might be at least an age range. But still the OP thinks she is worth traversing the country to 'save'. He cannot let her go. She is going to milk him good. I suspect that is what he likes about her. Age 24 Gender Female Looking for Man Min. age Any Max. age Any Country Thailand City Phuket Last Active 9 hour ago Height 160cm / 5 ft 2 in Weight 48kg / 106lbs

You are correct, she has merely hidden the account. States Offline: (2 hour ago) She's hedging her bets. Just like Camshafted.

It was only deleted an hour ago... maybe she blocked you first 😊 Okay, changed to two hours ago now. Literally every time I checked, she was online or online less than a minute before. I'm not Trolling you, it's the truth. Hard to believe that you are still carrying on with this. You've got it bad. It's going to cost you.

I cannot say that I've ever lost a relationship. Even the most difficult situations, I still keep a dialogue going and through that gain a better understanding. Doesn't mean that we can live together, but the time was not wasted. What you had is all that was possible at the time. Each new relationship is a continuation of the one before. Gaining new skills and insights as you go along. I don't throw my past away, as it was me. Why would I throw myself away? So even the most toxic of partnerships is invaluable to me. Even if it simply helps me to understand what I need to avoid. Those same 'toxic' people are still there for me, because I'm there for them. Eventually, they all get it. It's all in the mind. My girl calls me a Honey Badger. Even if fighting with and being bitten by venomous snakes, can just take a rest and then get up again, as normal. 😊

To be honest, you could see the guy was on the edge. Totally stressed out about his pipeline and not able to contemplate being alone. But he was going in the wrong direction. Demeaning himself with these women. Women that do not and cannot love him. What else can we do for him, but to tell it as we see it? I don't wish bad for the guy. It would be great if he could begin to respect himself and go on to demonstrate respect for the people around him. A lot of the stuff was quite painful to read and many of us were simply incredulous. It's not a good path for him to tread. But, as always, it's up to the individual to decide which way to go.

Possibly not helpful for me to point this out to you, but haven't you noticed that the person you mentioned has no problems with me at all. No arguments. No disagreements. Just normal. I attribute that to the fact that he corrected course by himself. So there's no need for me to bring anything to his attention. Maybe time with his family helped with that. Sometimes you need your close people around to get you back on track. I just say what I see. If you think that you don't need to take note of what I'm telling you, that's okay. But no need to get mad about it. I'm not trying to harm nor embarrass you.

I spend time here, as I don't have things to do outside all the time. So I can stimulate my brain with various issues. When I go outside, I interact with strangers and my friends. Normal. I'm prepared for it. I have true friends. We'll look after each other. Hopefully your family and friends will look out for you. That's the way love is. I think you waste too much time and energy on trying to deflect. Ironic that you have dealt with extreme challenges externally, but cannot deal with what I described. It seems elementary, at least to me. We all excel at different things I guess.

Eeek It's actually a bit sad... Anyone, let's move on. They have these little avocados at the market. 120 baht per kg. Really creamy and tasty. I just put a little salad dressing in the holes and eat them just like that.

I guess this means that you wish to continue? Do you think it is normal that you are still raging about this and cannot let it go? Of course I'm not going to back down from the truth. Are you insane? 😊 You are literally demonstrating everything that I have asserted in the first place, but you want me to back down. You have a warped view of reality. I'm happy to drop the subject, but that doesn't change anything. So, are you ready to move on or do you want to continue to discuss it? Please make a decision and then stick to it. It's not the subject of this topic. so we can take it back to private messages. But then you freak out about that too. My suggestion, is that you should either explore it or just stop writing about it. You are just making yourself mad, but not really moving forward. So...stop or continue? You decide and let me know. I'm always ready to discuss. Either in complete confidence or on the open board. Kindness depends on your perception. I think that I am being kind. You see it differently. So I'm happy to stop. But then you continue raging, stating that I won't back down. 😊 That just might be yourself you are describing. As for me, I took a look around and I see the results. People there for me. People giving me confirmation of my love and truth in real time. What do you want me to see?

Back to the topic, I can only assume that the OP's 'girl' is super busy due to this thread. Every time I check, she has been online seconds ago. The OP must be devastated.

There's nothing friendly about your behaviour. You aren't being honest and that's part of your problem. Edge of normal behaviour? It's exactly what we were doing with @Cameroni . Giving advice based on the information given. You just don't like it when you are the subject, so I'll respect that. But it doesn't change the fact that you have that problem. It just demonstrates that you are vehemently opposed to dealing with it. I'm happy to leave it there. Are you?

It's not all about you. You are just one of many. I will always help and there will always be those who cannot be helped. Makes no difference to my life at all. As long as my good stays a constant, I'll be okay. You'll do you. That's okay too. Your destiny is your destiny. As long as I do my best for you, I'm okay with myself. I'll take your recent words into account: It didn't take long for you to demonstrate 😊 Hopefully in time, you'll get better 😊

You can trust that if I say something, it's because I think that dealing with that problem will improve your life considerably. It has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with any conversations between you and I and it is ABSOLUTELY NOT any kind of criticism. It's like me telling you that you have jam on your shirt. You clean it off and job done. But if you refuse to listen, you walk around with jam on your shirt the whole day. I don't waste time and energy on bad thoughts and trying to hurt people. I feel good helping people and passing on knowledge. I noticed that you were upsetting yourself in certain ways and thought that if you changed your approach, you might solve the issues in a different way. But first you have to acknowledge that the problem is yours. It's not just about you. Everyone has to do it it if they want to thrive and be happy. This thread has been a masterclass. We all pitched together to give @Cameroni the best advice we could from our experience. Sometimes brutally honest. We tell him when we think he is not being nice. We told him of the pitfalls. He bared his soul and took, at least some, of the blows. That's how we learn. We have to learn for ourselves, with a little help from our friends. That's why we are here. There are no enemies here.

You are thinking a lot of wrong things... I don't ever give up on helping people, because that IS love. The people described as toxic, are just you and me. When we cannot make sense of the world and so adapt it to what we imagine it to be. But what you imagine is far away from reality. I know what I am doing. You imagine something else. Something so far fetched that I wouldn't even imagine someone might think that. If you can clear your mind of those bad thoughts, you'll be a better man, for sure. I'm not attacking nor criticising.