Momo8

The exact location of the Penis Rock of Guangdong

"A sexuality museum opened to the public recently in Danxia Mountain in Shaoguan City of south China's Guangdong Province.

The museum, covering 2,400 square meters, is divided into six exhibition areas under twelve themes, including "Sex in Waters and Mountains", "Sex in Phallism", "Sex in Chinese Characters" and "Sex and Literature".

The sexuality museum, believed to be the largest in the country, was established with an investment of 15 million yuan from Humen Economic and Trade School in Dongguan City.

Danxia Mountain is well known for its special red physiognomy and called "a naked park" for its penis-like big stone, vagina-like cave, rocks shaped like breasts and naked "sleeping beauty".

On February 13 this year, the mountain was approved by UNESCO to be included on the first list of 28 world geoparks.

The museum is a perfect integration of sexual culture and tourism, said the park's head. The museum is open only to adults."

Maybe this explains your fascination for sex as described in your own threads...?....

LaoPo

Behave ZPete.It's a great place and wasn't that hard to find after all how many cities have these kind of natural wonders at their doorstep?

In extended Asian families it is the childrens' duty to take care of the parents.See it from a different perspective for a moment.You are living in his mother's house,trying to save money when the MIL has expectations that her offspring would take care of her in her decrepit old age and not have to put herself out for her son and daughter-in-law.You're a farang so maybe she thinks you have money just don't want to spread it around.

So she doesn't care about the situation any more than you do.I'd be careful about the culture thing here too as your husband has so far backed off from any confrontations/discussions it means he does not want to be placed in the position of making him choose between you and his mother.Maybe subconsciously so but so far nobody has been proactive about changing the current situation....and it's been 3 long years.

You're also setting up a situation where you will alienate the whole family if the MIL is talking to everyone else in the family about this..You have a strong relationship with your hubby but blood is thicker than water and at some point he's going to blame you.A job in Bangkok will save the situation but you really need to take control of your life and be independent.This is not an insensitive thing to say as in your current position your blood is boiling but you need to step outside the square and think how you can change it.

It's OK to vent but ultimately YOU are the only one who has the power to change things and don't place hubby in the position of having to choose.Hard call,hope you are sccessful with the prospective new job.

Not if you're on top.Why do men need to do all the work?

No, that's not what I meant, Momo8; I didn't explain properly. I didn't mean "perform" as in doing all the work; hey, I like to lie back and enjoy the view every now and then. I meant "perform" as in preserving his erection as long as possible. A woman doesn't need to bother about that and can (if her partner is being attentive) relax and enjoy. The bloke, though, has to continually balance two sets of emotions; wanting to abandon himself to the moment but at the same time, prolong things as long as possible.

It's a shame men and women can't swap now and then. It would be a real eye-opener for both!

Haha well my tongue in cheek post then needed clarification.Yes though your take on a guy's perspective is very true,more men need to see that movie 'What Women Want' classic.As for swapping genders hmmm fascinating as long as we can swap back.

?????? shenma?What's with the old quote and the finger?

LaoPo your turn,post away.

Spot on LaoPo.Shaoguan is one of the most beautiful places on earth.

Er no I don't have a fascination with sexy rocks maybe a bit of an obsession about sex though.Did a photo shoot in these mountains,awesome.

Cheers,your turn.

Lol that one takes the grand prize.

A thing to understand about living with the inlaws is the generation gap and people being set on doing things their way.Personal space is important unless you live in a mansion there's no getting away from the fact that there is someone else always there,always watching.Builds tension and resentment for everyone involved.

My inlaws are darlings especially my mum-in-law.She went over the top when the babies came and virtually took over the household but in a good way.Every morning she'd come with fresh veggies and meat and spend the day cooking even though we have a maid.She reorganized the whole place with military precision to the extent where I couldn't find where anything was.

At one point being hormotional I wanted to tell her to back off and talked to hubby about it but realised he felt very much like the meat in the taco poor darling.The situation did pan out but in the OP's case,honey you have to move and keep your sanity.Have you tried to find someone to help with the household chores?That may ease the situation but if you don't get on you don't get on.

When you finally do move you may discover she will do a complete turnaround.

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Thanks for the comments, particularly the recent ones... They're helpful...

We spent a great night out, eventually romantically touching and holding, and kissing a bit, in a quiet corner of a nice restaurant, particularly as more hours together passed..

You are welcomed.

I forgot to mention that (red text) in my last post in the (Don'ts) list in your first (50) date..

IMO;Such physical acts as you had mentioned is a bit way too for a couple on a first date ,eh? especially from/with a freshly broken hearted lass;don't you think?

Is this turning into a 'dating rules' thread? In part the OP wanted to know about the protocol of dating in Thailand (and not be seen as a butterfly) but as to what happens on a first date depends on a number of factors.

Chemistry has a lot to do with it/how long you have known this person before dating/mood/environment/two consenting adults/communication/attraction.I'm sure many people have slept with each other on a first date from my own experience it was the second date (and no I never did that before with anyone) but did marry the guy few months later....and I did kiss a few toads before I found my prince.

If you click and it feels right on all levels then why not?Will he respect me in the morning went out last century very archaic,so is the 'On what date should we sleep together' or 'why didn't she/he put out on the 'th date' games are for children.

Yeah,yeah I'm a diehard romantic and it doesn't happen to everyone but you just know when you've found that elusive 'The One' that's when you become exclusive.

So OP the sexual element is the key thing here and trust.

But, she said, once we became BF and GF, then, she'd expect I wouldn't go out with any other lady. Of course, not exactly clear in all this is at what point, or triggered by what, we would change from being just "friends" to being BF & GF..... One guess, perhaps, might be that sex together would be the trigger in her mind to change to BF-GF status, though that's just a guess on my part.

You've answered your own question here.If it's just dating no prob but if you're shagging more than one woman at a time then it becomes a problem.The same as in any country.Sex puts a whole different perspective on the situation, the try before you buy approach is OK but not if you're stringing along a lot of women,going out and having sex with them but not being commited to just one.

Stick to bar girls for that.

Hahaha Sub you're too cool but some fantasies one can't publish on a public forum so it will remain private......and no it does not involve a threesome or a bicycle now if you were to mention a washing machine.

I think people have given some good advice may break it to him over a couple of glasses of vino tonight.Accidentally creating a scenario.

Well LOve is a wonerful thing and strange enough sometime it got to do with the balls we hold between our legs .

. anyway if you need help -

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Well there you go ShortTimer,you can hook up with this guy for serious advice.

Donna there is the very real and frightening possibilty that with all the great advice he's had from TV members she'll say yes.

Now that's scary.

No,it's in Guangdong province.Not Guangzhou.There sure someone will get it soon.

Yes I guess you are right but just a bit shy about this as my hubby would want to know where I heard about this hence the problem.

We have a great realtionship but maybe the culture thing and all that about women taking the initiative to try out something fruitier than the normal makes me a little shy.

Well I'll give it a try anyway,have to try everything at least once,right?

Thanks LP.And everyone has lots of clues already.

Keep it up ShortTimer this is just getting too funny!

Man if you are for real good luck and all the best to the gf,if you are shiteiing us you're one of the best trolls around.

Thunderstruck by beauty my foot.And they say men are ruled by their d**ks haha you should read that thread you may learn something.

Crikey and they closed my thread down.What's the world coming to?

ShortTimer why not buy the book 'Dating for Dummies' or what about 'How To Cheat on your Current GF?' see if they've got it in the electronics shop on DVD.Seriously though,you have a girlfriend and you want a bit on the side and with your limited English you are trying to take in all this advice is any of this making sense?.....Because to many people here at your age this is just too adolescent and silly but sure good entertainment value.

What's a European Chest?

Not if you're on top.Why do men need to do all the work?

I'm not divulging anything just wondering of the approach to it.And it is the Ladies Forum where I hope we can be free to discuss such things.

Nothing smutty I assure you.

Me neither but have you ever had some fantasy you wanted to try out but wasn't sure how to approach it because it was em too fruity?

Your antenna is still up so you must be doing something right! If you get banned can I steal your avatar?

I'm sure many ladies have fantasies of one kind or another whether it is sleeping with different partners or real life fantasy stuff not necessarily sexually related.A guy's ultimate fantasy is the three kind maybe.

If you had a fruity kind of fantasy you wanted to try out with your partner,how would you approach them with it if you thought there was no way they'd try it?

Guys would you go outside a relationship to fulfill anything out of the ordinary?

I'm a hanging Mick but your wheels and back end seem to have dropped off.

What have you been doing bad boy?

Give us an example.

I'm a saucy minx after all but you haven't answered the question.

Well, it'll probably sound corny but I reckon the best way to ensure years of rewarding nooky is to approach it as you would any other aspect of a long-term relationship i.e. study the other person's needs and put them first. Lets face it, you only get out what you're prepared to put in. If you see what I mean...

Hahaha Mick is that pun intended?Must be just my dirty mind then.

Other parents are supporting YOUR kids so you should be considerate and support THEIRS.

School functions are about marketing,show as well as procedure and with young children it shouldn't run so long but that's not the most painful thing a parent has to endure.I watched as my son who had pneumonia had IV drips in his head and feet because his hands couldn't take the needles anymore.He was just 13 months at the time.

Think yourself lucky you can watch your children and be sensitive to others.