I am the same, but wary of a new bloke that appears at my local watering hole, where it is usually only me with Thai locals.
In fact, we do have a new bloke, who is a complete tool, an old, fat tosser that thinks is so sort of Casanova, he hasn't fell in yet that the ladies sussed him out a while back.
He knows I am not amused with his antics, and phone on speaker chatting to old slappers...........π