What can I do about my ex wife not sending my 13 and 11 year old sons to school? I contacted an official looking centre 2 years ago by email but they just phoned her and asked if she was sending them or not? WTF? She just takes the money from me, and who knows how many more men and spends it on her 15k condo. Of course she has never worked, now aged 42, has no banks or id card and Im pretty sure MANY people including the police are looking for her.