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  1. On 24/07/2016 at 1:55 PM, Falconator said:

    I am 25 now, and my girlfriend is 40. She is a shop owner in Chiang Mai.

    I've adopted her 6-year-old daughter as my own. She loves me a lot and is quite clingy.

    We've known each other for about half a year. We met as neighbors.

    As for me, I am an Asian American who was born in California. Looks-wise, I pass for Thai.

    I am currently studying at the graduate level at a local university in Chiang Mai.

    Been here for about 1 year and am very fluent in Thai. I only speak Thai with my girlfriend.

    A few questions:

    1. How common are serious younger man - older woman relationships like mine in Thailand? In Chiang Mai, I seem to be the only guy who's in this kind of arrangement.

    2. Any cultural advice in general, especially how this kind of relationship would be viewed and treated in Thailand?

    3. What would a family visit to her home province entail? She does not have any family members to support except for our daughter who is 6.

    Feel free to ask questions if you want more details.

    After reading your story and almost all the comments here there are few things I can tell you regarding being in a relationship with an Older Thai Female.

    1. You love her a lot, but does she has the same feelings for you? This is a long term relationship question which will always be in your mind as you are ready to do everything for her but does she?

    2. Older Thai lady will have more insecurities with you (though all thai girls/ladies do) as you are young and you can move on anytime with a younger or same girl anytime.

    3. Trust issues all the time, no matter how many years have passed in your relationship.

    4. Getting married, is going to be close to impossible as she will be more happy to be the way it is now. Again trust issue.

    5. Kids - No matter how much the kids love you and relate to you, she will always put her kids before you. More than you she will be thinking of her kids all the time.

    6. Money - no matter how rich or poor she is, she will still demand money in cash or material from time to time. When ever she needs something she will be very (SAAWEEEET) polite with you.

    7. Integrity test - this will go on the whole time and your every move will be watched and will be tested from time to time.

    8. Leader - more than you she wants to be in a leading role and want to rule you all the time. This is going to be a part of your training.

    9. Only advise would be NOT TO GET SERIOUS WITH THIS, YOU WILL REGRET LATER. SO BETTER PUT YOUR MIND FIRST THAN YOUR D***

     

    There is still a lot that I can go on and on about. PM me if you want to discuss anything more.

  2. Are the 15 yr old permanent residents in the UK? If not then keep their passports on their hands and lend them to where they came from.

    Regarding your little princess, I think you need to explore more options of getting her in to your custody and not your ex-wife.Sit down with her and make it clear in a straight manner. I know this is frustrating, Please do take good care and hope all gets better soon.

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