stephaniee

why doesnt anyone ask what to do with their uni educated, with good job vestibule virgin who comes from a good thai family?

dont get one who already has kids. sounds like a money situation if you worrying bout gold and stuff! and how to please them financially.

There's not some taboo against farang dating Thai nurses. Some Thais merely don't like seeing a Thai girl with a foreigner. It's like when some white people don't like to see a black guy dating a white women. It's just racism and ignorance. If you like the girl, go for her. If she rebuffs you, then you lose. If she likes you, then go for it. All other issues should not concern you. If you were trying to date the girl and that was her excuse for not dating you, then from your perspective, it's her loss. Just move on as she's just coming up with excuses that might sound plausible and she has her own reservations either about you or about dating a "farang."

Thank you. I agree with your comments. My story is rather lengthy & complicated, but the bottom line with her is that 1. She would prefer a suitable Thai husband & any visable involvement with me would no doubt tarnish her chances and 2. She expects involvement with a Farang man will bring her great riches. I have explained this is not the case with me. The relationship is over because of these reasons and has been for about two months. The final air was cleared last night on the phone. Interestingly, she had no reservations about asking me for considerable sums of money or big ticket items, such as a notebook computer, when she knew the realtionship was basically over in her eyes two or three months ago.

you guys call it romance. they see it as farang atm. not in all cases but most!

is there anything real in thailand?

on the other hand most of the farang that hang out in los are not all that great, leave em for the upountry girls

if things don't work don't worry there are plenty of nice girls willing to spend time with you.

isnt this the problem. there are very few desireable girls who are available for the farang.

i would like to know what does this girl do to make enough to bankroll alcohol and gambling things.

genereally men keep going to los coz of the babes

i say men becoz , have any of you ever seen a lot of women going on visa runs. on the ones ive been on men outnumbered women 8 to 1.

and you find this woman appealing? what am i missing here? cant wait till my next trip to los in a month. things that go on there is just hard to believe, in a fun kind of way!

getting involved with one is statistically a bad move

sorry about your pal , but ....

his Thai wife wants everything house and new car. She has moved all her family into the house and has been to see a lawyer about putting the house in her name or selling.

.........

is this some kind of joke?

You should also try Q bar, Suk Soi 11 - Club on the ground floor and Lounge/sheesa bar on the second floor if you dont want to relax and just want o chill out.

arent these where the "bad " girls go?

living in los on a limited income is no fun especially under the conditions op is describing. HE CANT EMPOWER THE GIRL HE FANCIES WITH A LIMITED AMOUNT OF MONEY!

farang drool over thai women, its natural 4 the thai boy to feel left out.

when was the last time a farang male or female built them a house!

so many fail coz so many relationships from the girls point of view it aint bout love. not hard to see from what guys write, why they cant see it is beyond comprhension. these girls have agendas that have nothing to do with love.

nice farangs girls just arent found in bkk...........sorry!

guys say they give money only in emergenciy situations. what constitute an emergency? repair the air con for the house the farang built?

the basic rule is you gonna pay money somehow someway, call it whatever you want you will invest in them. or as a lot say they are "helping to make their life better". only way to make life better is with money, preferably the farangs hard earned money.

im with the egg!

i just dont see what an (average farang who wants a wife ) sees in these types of thai girls. no offense to the thai girls!

ive read here that there are so many good girls , educated, no kids, good family available!

You've READ about the many good girls available? Have you had any of them climbing on you yet? I have not seen any who are interested in involving themselves with a foreigner, unless they need money.

no i havent! its just so hard to say that good girls dont want most of the available farang that hangs out in bkk w/o getting the boot .

saying that most farm type situations are just about money i believe is true just many dont want to hear it.

mia nois are people too!

im with the egg!

i just dont see what an (average farang who wants a wife ) sees in these types of thai girls. no offense to the thai girls!

ive read here that there are so many good girls , educated, no kids, good family available!

give the thais a break. if you marry people from poverty surely you cant expect them to be good with money!

just give and be happy!

The wife is bad with money, largely due to an inability to perform simple math sums.

this makes me want to cry!

Me too - I'm a math and physics teacher. I tried teaching my wife - but we quickly learned that doing that is bad for our relationship!

a teacher marries a girl who cant do simple math. now i am crying! im assuming teachers understand the value of education.

are there lots of farangs with mia nois?

The wife is bad with money, largely due to an inability to perform simple math sums.

this makes me want to cry!

whats a mia noi? do you already have a primary wife but want to make sure your mistress is taken care of?

What is the rule on the rest of her family she has 5 brother's and 2 sister's and her mother is seperated or divorced.

There is no rule unless you're new to the country and an idiot whence they'll take advantage of you. Don't be so bloody stupid - why on earth would you support 5 brothers and 2 sisters? Don't you have any self-respect? They'll be laughing at you and so will the rest of the supermarket when they see you and the trail of kids and scavengers.

im already laughing at this guys situation. i dont think a thai guy would go for a girl like this, why do farangs find these so desireable?