hotrod4098

a new girl to sit on it...that aint cheap

even some girls can not survive issan...my new gf of 8 months goes home when i go back to the uk...stays there 2 months..

spoke to her yesterday..she said no more issan...i want stay pattaya...i asked why....family keep asking for money..they yak yak me...give me headache

going in to it a bit more..she said they want me to pay for everything as i have falang...pay for car go market, pay for petrol motorbike,,pay food,, pay whisky..pay all..i am fed up...

so she is bailing out after songkran...thats when they will really apply the pressure for money...

issan now need a lot of cash to keep them happy...

car payments

satellite tv

credit telephone..

electric bill

that can be 15000 thb...then the other costs...so i would think around 30000 thb..if you have a car etc

living with a thai girl can be like a hand grenade..you just wait for it to explode

the slightest thing can trigger there temper..

no easy if the girl has a very short fuse..

live with thai chinese...very good ..no temper

thai cambodia..very thick and temper high when not get what she wanted...like a big baby

thai loas...very lound when speaking..also very high temper...grabs the beer bottles and knife when she loose her temper..

as thai can not think outside the box..its there way or no way..and if ot no way...there temper flares

i speak thai..not perfect..some with out tones..i get understood no problems...thats in pattaya..thats 7/11 ..malls or bar...

just make a litle fun if not sure what to say....

mai loo...not sure the spelling...means i dont no etc

i speak thai..not perfect..some with out tones..i get understood no problems...thats in pattaya..thats 7/11 ..malls or bar...

just make a litle fun if not sure what to say....

mai loo...not sure the spelling...means i dont no etc

Take toilet paper!

Been there done that.

Drunken males dancing in the yard.

Females no longer allowed to dance because of the fights it causes.

Hot as blazes.

No longer married to that one.

had that many times...girls dance then the thai guys get jelouse and the fights start...morons

as i see it...visa on arrival ..get 30 days ,,then pay immigration 2000.. for 30 days extension...and every 30 days..why the need

to go outside thailand...at least every one would no the visa rules..

as it it...what a mine field

had the op done the right thing this would not have been a issue..

condoms...

pill

jab..

all available in thailand easy..so why do the deed knowing you could get her pregnant,,and she is no better ,,,pill easy to buy 30 baht...jab in the bum...last 3 months..around 100 baht..

problem solved...

why get pregnant...if you dont wont to

where in sisaket are you..i lived in sirratana sisaket...but been to many places there....kantalak and

kantarom are close to where i was

sisaket speaks ..issan...karmer as well as thai... and other

i spoke thai they then spoke as they say,,isssan..and would ignore me

so i learnt issan..they spoke kamer etc...

so in the end i was speaking bits of every thing..

sawadee krup...sabaide boer in issan...

takes a while to get your head around it

most of the bar girls i no in pattaya are there for one thing money....most will not take a young guy as he can offer nothing...

they say..old man have money..houses pension..take care good...means i can cream him off and take the lot when he is dead..

young boy boom boom to much..drink to much..and no have nothing...why waste time...

and yes many have more than 1 man

you will need loads of cash for sure

any one taking on a girl who has married a policeman is crazy...

think what the implications could be....money money money...dont pay...could be just 1 phone call to the monkey house....

they are his children..and always will be...so if he wants to see them any time,,he will...

for me its a no way

If your wife really cared about you she would discuss this whole matter with you empathetically and the two of you would come to a solution that suited you both. But it appears that she is suffering from the desire to show off to her family and other locals by getting you to build a big house on HER land and in HER name. You will be used increasingly as a doormat.

You'd want and expect her to take your side, you are her flaming HUSBAND. Her mother is not numero uno any more, you are.

Don't go further down the road of investing your hard earned and your golden years in someone who doesn't care about YOU enough. If you cannot persuade her to understand, then hold onto your sponduli, stay in Chiang Mai and enjoy your twilight years without her.

Please think very carefully about the depth of her love for YOU. That's my advice.

This woman has no love for him , she has only love for his money and the security it provides. Her actions and demands are proof enough.

He should let her go and good riddence. You don't go to these villages to live , you go there to die. That's why it's called Gods waiting room. I've seen a few guys stuck in this situation , all have a strange emptyness in their eyes which light up at the mere sight of another farang to talk with. How sad to think you've worked your whole life to end up in a place where nobody genuinely cares what happens to you.

Stay where you're happy OP , you seem like a decent caring guy and i'm sure it wouldn't take long to find a nice CM lady to see out the rest of your days.

If your wife really cared about you she would discuss this whole matter with you empathetically and the two of you would come to a solution that suited you both. But it appears that she is suffering from the desire to show off to her family and other locals by getting you to build a big house on HER land and in HER name. You will be used increasingly as a doormat.

You'd want and expect her to take your side, you are her flaming HUSBAND. Her mother is not numero uno any more, you are.

Don't go further down the road of investing your hard earned and your golden years in someone who doesn't care about YOU enough. If you cannot persuade her to understand, then hold onto your sponduli, stay in Chiang Mai and enjoy your twilight years without her.

Please think very carefully about the depth of her love for YOU. That's my advice.

i built a house on her parents land..fool on me...lost it..reason being her mama decided to give my wifes

sisters a cut of the land...mama kept the house...the land was devided up between my wife and 3 sisters..

this was ordered by the family...ie her mums brother ,who was in the temple for 4 years,,his wife would see him every day..he was there for being a alcoholic..

he then left the temple..and went home with his wife...he was then called the crazy man...any thing he said ..they had to do as they where scared of him...

he controlled the village...lost count of how much beer he was given by my wife to go away...

village life aint easy

Absolutely don't move.

My wife did the same thing to me a year ago wanting to move to Buriram. I spend a ton of money upgrading her house and it turned into pure hell. Moved out in 5 months. If you are an ATM then they will love you but if they can't leach money or anything from you on a regular basis they can make your life a living hell.

you and your wife stay together after you quit the village mate?

Actually, yes.

She locked up the house and said we can move there when we get older. Fat chance. Her family made it miserable not her.

Good news you stayed together expat888 it can be hard when family get involved.

thats another thing some blokes forget that the village is all about her family so her family are always going to take her side in anything that happens and that cant be good like that having her family telling her she should do this and do that any why isnt her falang paying for this and paying for that

Absolutely don't move.

My wife did the same thing to me a year ago wanting to move to Buriram. I spend a ton of money upgrading her house and it turned into pure hell. Moved out in 5 months. If you are an ATM then they will love you but if they can't leach money or anything from you on a regular basis they can make your life a living hell.

you and your wife stay together after you quit the village mate?

Actually, yes.

She locked up the house and said we can move there when we get older. Fat chance. Her family made it miserable not her.

Good news you stayed together expat888 it can be hard when family get involved.

thats another thing some blokes forget that the village is all about her family so her family are always going to take her side in anything that happens and that cant be good like that having her family telling her she should do this and do that any why isnt her falang paying for this and paying for that

I have tried and didn't like it. I am an easy going person but just didn't like the boring life with nothing and nowhere to go on a daily basis. I couldn't even get internet into the house that I built. Every time I went for a short walk the dogs looked as if they where going to attack the strange falang. Villagers always asking for drinks, fags (I don't smoke) or money. I never felt safe walking around as I am an outsider and will always be. Any party nights or shows end in fights between the drunken locals. Daytime was just too boring, a visit to Big C or Tesco was the highlight. Sorry, not ready to lay down and die yet at 62. Stay where you are happy dude.

thats the same as i did...hightlight tesco big c,,,the the truck was full of outlaws for a free feed etc

in the village for 4 years..got to me in the end...at 70 years old..it must be a no no...you will get older very quickly...boredom

will turn you in to a sad mad...

as said village life is for village idiots and drunks

debts are accrued by bad choice....why sell so much rice just to gamble..drink whisky..show off etc..thats why a lot of farmers go under..

rice cut around december....get it sold quickly...its party time...think i will have new car..show off in the village,,rice was good this year,,,

so around march time...all the cash has gone...no money to replant...so borrow more money...and so it goes on...

farmers are poor because the way they do things...

you can grow all the rice you want...TRY TO SELL IT ,THATS THE PROBLEM...any one can buy,,not everyone can sell..

the millers have instant cash..so can control the price...dont like the price ,dont sell it..

thais are greedy and wont as much money as they can on everything...then spend it as soon as it comes....whisky

,gambling..etc..

no figures on any exports...so some one may get very rich

lived in issan for 4 years..not once did the rice sell make a profit...to many costs..all you do is spend out.and get back the same or less than the costs

rice for eating and seeds for next planting...otherwise dont bother growing it for profit

I believe this is right, I even think it's the 1st car bonus that let them kill them self .... they want only more and more and the banks alow them to make the debts... but one day it becomes to high for the bank, and to much for the farmer .

RIP my dear farmer.

in issan every one wants a car..never mind how to pay for it...so loosing face when it goes back..hurts big time.

come on ..1 million bhat truck on salary of less then 60000..a year...how stupid is that...

rice was 12 tb a kilo...nows it 5 tb a kilo..take it or leave it the millers are saying...that is going to hurt big time...tank of fuel for motorbike will be 20 kilo of rice..