brian272727

Thanks... translators just bring back gibberish.

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What does this say?

Thanks in advance

Many thanks!

Makes no sense:

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Anyone???

Split up from my Thai ex, she emailed me this:

ฉันก็หวังว่าคุณคงมีความสูขกับคนที่เธอเจอ เราเพื่อนกันถ้าเธอต้องการให้ฉันช่วยอะไรเธอบอก แล้วฉันก็เจอแล้วกับความเจ็บปวด ขอคุณสำหรับทุกอย่าง brian ฉันขอโทษ

What does this mean?

Many many thanks!

Cool, cheers!!!

Kind of expected that.

ฉันรักเธอ แต่ฉันทำไห้เธอเสียใจ ฉันยอมรับผิด ได้โปรดเดินไปจากฉันเพราะฉันไม่อย่ากให้เธอเสียใจ

<deleted> it, she is gone for good.

I got sucked in like 1000's of Farang do every year.

Technically not out of pocket but I did book up to specifically go away and see her, not to mention the flight I got for her.

I guess we live and learn.

Uptoyou

I am 100% no troll.

Anyway, I have nothing more to add.

If I hear anything I will post but doubtful.

Re Malaysia, she was all excited about it, her parents were excited, she had been sending me links to website of things we could go and do. Its not a Caribbean cruise but its a start for a girl from the slums of Bangkok, nice 5* hotel down by the harbour etc

Also why would she be better off with someone 33 years her senior? Its hardly the basis for a great relationship is it? Not exactly going to have many shared interests. She said it herself she found him disgusting.

The sportsman was married so I doubt he was doing nothing more than treating her as a bit on the side. I know exactly who he is as I have seen her emails to him. You want me to post his name??? thought not.

The Norwegian millionnaire, again I know about, I have also seen the pictures and quite frankly I can see why he needs to sponsor a girl to have female company. He is repulsive. She also showed me the bank card he gave her and the Gucci handbag and shoes.

I am not exactly poor myself, I can afford to go visit her 5 times a year and we did get married I could afford to support her.

She has never been abroad, if she did she would have a passport, they last for 5 years do they not??? She eventually emailed me through a picture of her passport, so I know she got one made 2 weeks ago, expiration Jan 2014

I don't proclaim to be some saviour or gods gift. I am a decent guy though. And before you go on abour flaming her on an internet forum, you have no idea who I am talking about. She is faceless.

If I wanted I could EASILY get some revenge on this girl, I have no intention of that, if she does contact me I will go meet her for lunch and ask for an explanation.

I know, I know, I know, she is clearly at it.

I am sooooo keen to hear her excuse/lies/explanation though.

The reality is that in a few weeks time I will be heading to the airport myself with the world as my oyster.

I will feel a little sad that someone I had got to know(or so I thought) is going to be living within 2/3 miles of me and I can't see her. I know her address in BKK as well, thats gonna make it difficult.

Even 24 hours ago, when I last spoke to her she was discussing our hypothetical wedding in great detail.

The thing is, surely if she is with some fella she, can make her excuses and leave his side to at least text me??? That's what I find really really strange. Now unless this guy is a major sponsor, dropping 10'000's on her why would she jeapordise our 'relationship' so close to me coming over and taking her to Malaysia? Christ if I was doing the dirty I would be a bit more savvy about it, quick trip to the shop, hairdressers, even going to take a sh*t and then getting in contact.

I KNOW she is at it, but something, somewhere is intriguing me, you don't bite the hand that feeds you a few weeks before it arrives in town to whisk you off on a foriegn holiday, the same hand that you have been grooming incessantly for the last 8 weeks.

Update:

No communication at all

Her OLD mobile was switched on a minute ago, that's the give away.

I doubt she will be back in contact, its pretty obvious that I know she has lied to me. No point trying to understand her actions.

What is pretty difficult to take is we used to talk 4/5 times a day for up to two hours at a time, having spent 12 days with her in December and then spoke to her every day for 6/7 weeks you think you know someone a little bit, obviously not.

Also why the hel_l is she still proclaiming to want to get married to me next month?

Anyway, my non-contact will continue...

Hey, thanks for the advice, sounds like a good offer. I will see how the next couple of days pan out and report back my findings.

For the record she is not from Issan, comes from south of Chang Mai.

The trip up north has sort of developed:

She lost her job so said she wanted to go away for a 3/4 days, this was last week

Come Monday she was meant to be going Monday PM, this turned into Tuesday AM as her mum wanted to come

The trip then became a 'family incident' which she has detailed but I won't go onto here

This then turned into a week of "no contact" as she was stressed, "Trust me, I love you etc etc"

Its now 3 weeks away as she wants to go to some 10 day music concert???

As far as her past goes I know quite a lot, from her old boyfriend(a 50 year old millonaire) who bought her a car/house etc but who she left cos she didn't love, she was 17 at the time.

When I met her she was two weeks out of a relationship with a pro-sportsman, turns out he had a wife.

I guess I sort of fell in love with her, or perhaps an infactuation of sorts, I am interested to hear her excuses to be honest, I am furious at her but going to try and contain my anger and concerns until I hit Thailand.

I am guessing she won't phone in the next few days as she knows, that I know, she is lying.

She will give it a while and then contact me asking if we can meet for one minute when I come to Thailand as she wants to give me a present (some sentimental tat) which she hopes will hook me back in.

This is very much a game of chess for me now...

Cheers man, you are 1000000% right

"Stop think too much", ha ha, she actually said that to me.

I have deleted her number and resisted the urge to email her today, this will continue until I hear from her.

Cheers man,

I think that's the best couse of action.

Like I said, we are going to Malaysia for a couple of days, now I don't want to wander about myself and it will be nice to have a pretty bed partner who is 10 years my junior so will just go along with it.

TBH this full thing has ruined my trip, I feel like a mug and I HATE continual lying especially when its so obvious.

I REALLY don't understand her actions, surely I was going to catch her out at some point?

Also, any advice would be appreciated, I am 100% legit, neverdie has had a couple of PM's from me translating some emails from her.

Dilemma is as follows:

She is clearly at it, 100% no doubt.

Do I

a) Act like nothing is going on, continue as normal, meet her in BKK and butterfly around a bit

Call her bluff? Tell her to admit it and see her reaction

c) Ignore her for good? There are 10000000 Noi's in Thailand (name has been made up)

I am not trolling, my friend reads this forum and I don't want to give my details away.

I have changed some facts like destinations etc

For the record I am 29

Hey, before you start on me, can I establish some facts.

I have not named and never will name her.

I treat her extremely well, send her flowers, bought her a laptop(although still in my possession etc) and just sent her an old(but still expensive mobile phone)

She needs a passport because I am taking her to Malaysia when I am over. Which obviously I am paying for.

The only thing I draw the line on is cash, I am 29 and too young to be sponsoring some Thai girl, also I am no whore monger, I have never visited a go-go bar and am certainly not desperate enough to travel 8000 miles to find a girl, I have no problem with that back home.

I simply fell in love with someone and now feel I am being lied to, the trip is booked so I will continue as planned, under no circumstances am I going to marry this girl though and I may even spread my wings a bit in Bangkok this time and see a couple of other girls.

For a few weeks everything was fine, I am naturally suspicious and can normally tell when someone is not as it seems, perhaps I even go looking for it, yet, she changed her mobile number, old one is always switched-off now(I check 4 times daily) and gave me her email password(yeah I know this is standard but given what I have read in her outbox its not exactly made her seem like an angel). I am not stupid and far from vunerable and realise this is a business for these girls, from the tears at the airport right through to the picture of us as wallpaper on her mobile phone, its ALL an act.

What I will say in my favour is that I am youngish, slim, decent looking, have a few quid, am a good man and not a butterfly and treated this girl like a queen. I don't deserve these lies so naturally want to find out what is going on...

Will have a further update when I hear anything.

Most likely one of her sponsors has turned up and she's busy with him.

You don't need to be Dick Tracy to figure out what's going on!

Exactly what I thought, and I am 90% sure thats what's happening but she was still able to speak to me for an hour this morning at 2pm and said she would phone at 7am tomorrow morning. The sponsor thing is the most obvious but something just doesn't ring true with that, unless the dude leaves her company twice a day at specific times?

The thing is you don't just go from 5 calls a day to 1 call a day for no reason.

I don't want to push it too far though cos she is hot and I still would like to nail her again. No point in me burning my bridges, she was never exactly wife material anyway and meeting a 20 year old stunner with DD t*ts at the airport is always going to have its benefits.

Like I said, I will cut all contact for now, wait til she arranges to meet me. With the exception of sending her 3000 baht for passport and waitress uniform I am not out of pocket.

Yeah, no more emails, thank god!!!

Have had a couple of phone conversations since but all very strange.

Things were going well with her for around 8 weeks, almost hourly phone calls etc etc etc

Then on Monday she said she is heading up north, she had mentioned this previously but suddenly a 4 day trip turned into a 7 day trip which has now turned into a 3 week trip and that she won't be able to speak much.

Obviously something is going on, but what? I guess I will never know, she is not going to admit it and see a potential cash cow disappear Her standard response when I ask is "If you don't trust me, go away from me now!"

Its weird because she is still insistant that we get married when I go over and try to give her a baby (this wont be happening!!!)

Anyways her phone number has been deleted and if she wants to contact me she can, I will head over, spend 2 weeks having fun with her, few false promises etc and then call it quits for good.

No, I am not living with her, nor am I serious with her.

Just wanted to know if that sort of thing was normal behaviour.

I would say I am 99% certain that she is 'at it' with me, she has headed up north for a few days and claims she can't really speak to me as her extended family don't know she go with farang. Her hourly phone calls have dried up and she gets flustered when I press for an explanation. So far she has offered:

Family problems

Farang issue(mentioned above)

Being drunk

Having to go back to college for a week to get her certificate

A 10 day pop/rock concert

The only reason I am staying around is that I have booked flights to go see her in a couple of weeks and don't know anyone in BKK or Thailand. Will spend some time with her then finish it at the airport. Thank god I have not given her any money, nor told anyone back home about her.

Oh, and she still claims to want to marry me and have a family with me when I come over???? Eh, that won't be happening.

For the record she is 20 and I am 28.

Is it normal to just up and leave to go back to your village at a few hours notice?

My TGF never seems to pre-plan anything, one minute she is at the laundry, the next she is going on a 7 hour baht bus ride to Northern Thailand.

She seems to live very much day to day, nothing is ever planned.

Also do Thai people lie a lot?

I am not talking major lies, more lies to save face. For example, I am going to Malaysia with my TGF so I send her 1000 baht to make passport.

I ask her if she has got it and she says "I make already", I then ask for the passport number to book the flights and what follows is three days of fake numbers and not being able to understand me followed by her finally admitting she has not got it.

Another time I send her 2000 baht to buy a uniform and shoes for her work, I ask if she has picked up the money from Western Union and she says "I do tomorrow". The thing is I know she has already picked up the cash as WU automatically email you. I have no idea why she would lie about something like that???

Is this normal Thai behaviour or is she a 'wrong un'?

Cheers, thanks for that

Does anyone know what this says

Fell out with the TGF and not sure if is worth me travelling.

Help

Thanks