Another Farang Marriage Ends

[terry57]

i dont speak thai, but i have to say that it is kind of rare that i meet a thai who i feel really understands what i am saying. this might not make much sense, but i could have the same conversation with two thai people - all their responses the same, and I can tell by looking in one of their eyes that they understand what i am saying, while the other does it. Also, I can see in the eyes of many thai people that they have self esteem issues when being around a farang and do not feel comfortable, and this is not nessecarily because they speak bad english.

really, this entire thread is pointless besides the following fact: DONT PUT MONEY AND LAND IN WIFES NAME IF YOU CANT AFFORD TO LOSE IT, AND IF YOU DO, PLEASE BLAME YOURSELF.

i think that your negative responses come from your negative opinions of thai people.

maybe if you bothered to learn thai, give off a positive persona your experiences with the locals may be more positive.

and no your post makes no sense to me.

thank you very much.

[aussiestyle1983]

if you say "old farang" on thai visa, i am pretty sure that is an automatic crucifixtion. Applying that 20 year old thai women are not sexually attracted to their 50 year old husbands, that is a double crucifixtion. Time to run and hide because these guys are gonna eat you alive emperor.

He will be old (er) and single one day, wonder where he will end up !.. On a lighter note i brought my uncle frank over for a holiday when he was 66 and had been in the living room for 8 years watching tv and waiting for god since his wife passed away,.he loves it here,. before we came over i read him the riot act, no involvement, and read this book on the plane ( money number 1 ),. hes now been coming 4 times a year for 4 years and is often out with me til 5am,. one time i was back in the uk and he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70,. these young guys just cant get their head round that the darling they were with last night will go with an old fart tomorrow night,.

ROFPMSL

Well, if they can afford viagra, they can proably afford a $2 hooker as well!

have you heard the bar girls say " i no like young man " its because they dont want to pay, they think they have pulled !

They don't like us because they know we don't need to pay. They are well aware of the fact that we can get it for free!

So TBG, you can earn an extra note by going with fat, old, stinky freddie over there, btw, you might also get squashed, or, you can come with me. I won't pay you what he will because i don't have to, the choice is "up to you"

[mikethevigoman]

if you say "old farang" on thai visa, i am pretty sure that is an automatic crucifixtion. Applying that 20 year old thai women are not sexually attracted to their 50 year old husbands, that is a double crucifixtion. Time to run and hide because these guys are gonna eat you alive emperor.

He will be old (er) and single one day, wonder where he will end up !.. On a lighter note i brought my uncle frank over for a holiday when he was 66 and had been in the living room for 8 years watching tv and waiting for god since his wife passed away,.he loves it here,. before we came over i read him the riot act, no involvement, and read this book on the plane ( money number 1 ),. hes now been coming 4 times a year for 4 years and is often out with me til 5am,. one time i was back in the uk and he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70,. these young guys just cant get their head round that the darling they were with last night will go with an old fart tomorrow night,.

ROFPMSL

Well, if they can afford viagra, they can proably afford a $2 hooker as well!

have you heard the bar girls say " i no like young man " its because they dont want to pay, they think they have pulled !

No, wrong there, they say it to make the old farts feel better

ahh you are obviously a young one,. by the way where do you get the one for $2 bucks, uncle frank wants to know 1

[aussiestyle1983]

if you say "old farang" on thai visa, i am pretty sure that is an automatic crucifixtion. Applying that 20 year old thai women are not sexually attracted to their 50 year old husbands, that is a double crucifixtion. Time to run and hide because these guys are gonna eat you alive emperor.

He will be old (er) and single one day, wonder where he will end up !.. On a lighter note i brought my uncle frank over for a holiday when he was 66 and had been in the living room for 8 years watching tv and waiting for god since his wife passed away,.he loves it here,. before we came over i read him the riot act, no involvement, and read this book on the plane ( money number 1 ),. hes now been coming 4 times a year for 4 years and is often out with me til 5am,. one time i was back in the uk and he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70,. these young guys just cant get their head round that the darling they were with last night will go with an old fart tomorrow night,.

ROFPMSL

Well, if they can afford viagra, they can proably afford a $2 hooker as well!

have you heard the bar girls say " i no like young man " its because they dont want to pay, they think they have pulled !

No, wrong there, they say it to make the old farts feel better

ahh you are obviously a young one,. by the way where do you get the one for $2 bucks, uncle frank wants to know 1

Uncle Frank must have a bad memory if he can't remember who he was with 2 nights ago!

Oh, what! You mean Uncle Frank paid more than $2! Hahahaha!

Edited April 15, 2007 by aussiestyle1983

[mikethevigoman]

if you say "old farang" on thai visa, i am pretty sure that is an automatic crucifixtion. Applying that 20 year old thai women are not sexually attracted to their 50 year old husbands, that is a double crucifixtion. Time to run and hide because these guys are gonna eat you alive emperor.

He will be old (er) and single one day, wonder where he will end up !.. On a lighter note i brought my uncle frank over for a holiday when he was 66 and had been in the living room for 8 years watching tv and waiting for god since his wife passed away,.he loves it here,. before we came over i read him the riot act, no involvement, and read this book on the plane ( money number 1 ),. hes now been coming 4 times a year for 4 years and is often out with me til 5am,. one time i was back in the uk and he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70,. these young guys just cant get their head round that the darling they were with last night will go with an old fart tomorrow night,.

ROFPMSL

Well, if they can afford viagra, they can proably afford a $2 hooker as well!

have you heard the bar girls say " i no like young man " its because they dont want to pay, they think they have pulled !

They don't like us because they know we don't need to pay. They are well aware of the fact that we can get it for free!

Free in thailand ?, ha ha ha ,theyre the most expensive ones!

So TBG, you can earn an extra note by going with fat, old, stinky freddie over there, btw, you might also get squashed, or, you can come with me. I won't pay you what he will because i don't have to, the choice is "up to you"

[duratanium]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

[mikethevigoman]

if you say "old farang" on thai visa, i am pretty sure that is an automatic crucifixtion. Applying that 20 year old thai women are not sexually attracted to their 50 year old husbands, that is a double crucifixtion. Time to run and hide because these guys are gonna eat you alive emperor.

He will be old (er) and single one day, wonder where he will end up !.. On a lighter note i brought my uncle frank over for a holiday when he was 66 and had been in the living room for 8 years watching tv and waiting for god since his wife passed away,.he loves it here,. before we came over i read him the riot act, no involvement, and read this book on the plane ( money number 1 ),. hes now been coming 4 times a year for 4 years and is often out with me til 5am,. one time i was back in the uk and he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70,. these young guys just cant get their head round that the darling they were with last night will go with an old fart tomorrow night,.

ROFPMSL

Well, if they can afford viagra, they can proably afford a $2 hooker as well!

have you heard the bar girls say " i no like young man " its because they dont want to pay, they think they have pulled !

They don't like us because they know we don't need to pay. They are well aware of the fact that we can get it for free!

So TBG, you can earn an extra note by going with fat, old, stinky freddie over there, btw, you might also get squashed, or, you can come with me. I won't pay you what he will because i don't have to, the choice is "up to you"

us old hands are laughing at this one,.. give a bg a choice of a free young one and an old one for money and i think you have some lonely nights ahead ! ,aint this a great topic ? i love it,

[Loz]

Mike with the Vigo said:

he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70

Stop it Mike, you bar steward! I think I bust a rib laughing. This thread has taught me to look at the old chaps with a little more of a sense of humor. Why the hel_l not get it on with some syoung lovely lady if you can?

I'm sticking to my guns and keeping it single. I like looking. hel_l, what am I doing in my apartment on my own talking to you guys if I came here for the poontang????

Thank you to the Mods for keeping this open and Thanks to the Prof for getting the ball rolling in a forum friendly way. I think many people have got a lot off their chests.

Great thread.

[mikethevigoman]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

[Loz]

Everyone in danger of taking life too seriously should have a dose of Uncle Franks Wisdom right about now.

[markr]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Thats not what was said, you'll find it was "dont need" to pay!

you must be aged,

Mark

[aussiestyle1983]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

Edited April 15, 2007 by aussiestyle1983

[mikethevigoman]

Mike with the Vigo said:

he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70

Stop it Mike, you bar steward! I think I bust a rib laughing. This thread has taught me to look at the old chaps with a little more of a sense of humor. Why the hel_l not get it on with some syoung lovely lady if you can?

I'm sticking to my guns and keeping it single. I like looking. hel_l, what am I doing in my apartment on my own talking to you guys if I came here for the poontang????

Thank you to the Mods for keeping this open and Thanks to the Prof for getting the ball rolling in a forum friendly way. I think many people have got a lot off their chests.

Great thread.

Hear hear ,i think even the mods ( i was a rocker ) are having a laugh with us here,. as for me its all tongue in cheek,.im in the holiday mood,. .think ill get my zimmer frame out and get in walking st for a filly,. you only live once , or in my case twice !

[terry57]

i dont know what percent of farang are with former bar girls, but it has to be atleast 1/4, and probably closer to 1/2.

well to be strait up mate ,

you would never know, and your figures are assumption and mean nothing.

its like asking, " how long is a piece of string." ?

is it a quarter of an inch long or is it half.?

It would be way more than half. How many farang do you know have a non-bg wife?

Ask them how they met their wife. A classic line is that she was in a bar but she wasn't a bg.

sorry about this begbie,

but i can honestly say that of all the farang that i know that have relationships with thai girls, not one is married or going out with an ex bar girl.

suppose it boils down to who one associates with.

Or whos telling the truth.

telling the truth would be more apt i would think most of the people on this forum went to thailand in the first place to meet girls in some way shape or form

i have TGF ex BG 6yrs now both happy have house in patters and she has house and land in bung kan cant see how ex bar girl is any different to bank clerk ,maybe people get so used to telling porkies that they start to believe it themselves.

dave,

you have told us many times before that your wife is an ex bargirl and im not passing any judgements whether this is a good thing or not , as i simply dont give a toss one way or the other.

you seem to be happy and thats all that matters, but to suggest that in every farang /thai relationship, the girl is ex bar is simply ludicrous and boardering on slander.

actually its an insult to all the thai women that hold down respectable jobs and are happily married to farang.

im sure some of our thai ladies on this forum would be highly offended when reading this thread so blanket statements are not warranted in this case.

thank you very much.

a few people seem to think that my friends are all associating with ex bargirls and are being deceived,

but i certainly would not like to suggest that to them.

after meeting these girls i would be suprised if this is the case.

you may be wright, but you could also be wrong so another assumption is thrown up and unsubstantiated.

1. never mentioned that tgf was ex bg before today

2 like i said before what planet did you just drop off

3 take off the rose coloured glasses and see the real world

oh sorry about that,

you've told us that info on numerous occasions on many related threads, or have you forgotton that. ?

further more, who really cares, as thats your business and should be on a need to know basis.

it would be a respectful idea for you to realise and give credit to the many thai females that hold down honest jobs through out thailand with out resorting to other means to earn money.

i'll keep my rose coloured glasses on if it means not casting aspersions over every thai female that associates with falang.

your assumtions are rediculous.

[aussiestyle1983]

he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70

Regardless of what else is going one in here. This has been the funniest thing ive heard all day!

This thread is going to break some records

Edited April 15, 2007 by aussiestyle1983

[mikethevigoman]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

yes i do, kept poor uncle frank at it for days,.frank has only one eye, but as he said to me ,in the land of the blind the one eyed man is king !

[A_Traveller]

dave,

you have told us many times before that your wife is an ex bargirl and im not passing any judgements

Terry, wrong Dave from Pattaya,

Regards

/edit format //

Edited April 15, 2007 by A_Traveller

[CymruAmByth]

i dont know what percent of farang are with former bar girls, but it has to be atleast 1/4, and probably closer to 1/2.

well to be strait up mate ,

you would never know, and your figures are assumption and mean nothing.

its like asking, " how long is a piece of string." ?

is it a quarter of an inch long or is it half.?

It would be way more than half. How many farang do you know have a non-bg wife?

Ask them how they met their wife. A classic line is that she was in a bar but she wasn't a bg.

sorry about this begbie,

but i can honestly say that of all the farang that i know that have relationships with thai girls, not one is married or going out with an ex bar girl.

suppose it boils down to who one associates with.

Correct Terence. And being a man of the cloth, you are spot on!

[markr]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

yes i do, kept poor uncle frank at it for days,.frank has only one eye, but as he said to me ,in the land of the blind the one eyed man is king !

Good to see you dont loose your sense of humour once you reach your twilight years mike!!

[aussiestyle1983]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

yes i do, kept poor uncle frank at it for days,.frank has only one eye, but as he said to me ,in the land of the blind the one eyed man is king !

My regards to King Frank

BTW, how much of his pension is spent on viagra?

[terry57]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

i thought that it was wa-king that made one blind.

<deleted>,

i better give up taking that bleeding viagra.

[markr]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

yes i do, kept poor uncle frank at it for days,.frank has only one eye, but as he said to me ,in the land of the blind the one eyed man is king !

My regards to King Frank

BTW, how much of his pension is spent on viagra?

We should have a poll, how much do the old farts spend on viagra per month

[Sakeopete]

if you say "old farang" on thai visa, i am pretty sure that is an automatic crucifixtion. Applying that 20 year old thai women are not sexually attracted to their 50 year old husbands, that is a double crucifixtion. Time to run and hide because these guys are gonna eat you alive emperor.

He will be old (er) and single one day, wonder where he will end up !.. On a lighter note i brought my uncle frank over for a holiday when he was 66 and had been in the living room for 8 years watching tv and waiting for god since his wife passed away,.he loves it here,. before we came over i read him the riot act, no involvement, and read this book on the plane ( money number 1 ),. hes now been coming 4 times a year for 4 years and is often out with me til 5am,. one time i was back in the uk and he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70,. these young guys just cant get their head round that the darling they were with last night will go with an old fart tomorrow night,.

ROFPMSL

Well, if they can afford viagra, they can proably afford a $2 hooker as well!

have you heard the bar girls say " i no like young man " its because they dont want to pay, they think they have pulled !

They don't like us because they know we don't need to pay. They are well aware of the fact that we can get it for free!

So TBG, you can earn an extra note by going with fat, old, stinky freddie over there, btw, you might also get squashed, or, you can come with me. I won't pay you what he will because i don't have to, the choice is "up to you"

LOL you maybe forgeting these "old farts" were young once too and getting it for free. Now they are "old farts" and are still getting it from the same girls young guys are. Really, young guys should be thanking the "old fart" for taking care of the girls. I don't think old unatractive guys believe these women are physically attractived to them, they may be just realists who are not willing to settle with unattractive women from the west. I say "Good for them" why settle if you don't have too.

[aussiestyle1983]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

yes i do, kept poor uncle frank at it for days,.frank has only one eye, but as he said to me ,in the land of the blind the one eyed man is king !

My regards to King Frank

BTW, how much of his pension is spent on viagra?

We should have a poll, how much do the old farts spend on viagra per month

I don't think there is a number high enough to cover that ammount!

[duratanium]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

yes i do, kept poor uncle frank at it for days,.frank has only one eye, but as he said to me ,in the land of the blind the one eyed man is king !

My regards to King Frank

BTW, how much of his pension is spent on viagra?

Seems to me that you know a he_l of a lot more about viagra than I do

Then again, some of us don't need it

Quality rules !! LOL

[mikethevigoman]

So only the young 'STUDS' get it for free?

Nearly choked on my coffee at that one.

Those slightly older people generally know their way around a woman and give a darn sight better service than the young hopefuls ever could dream of doing.... maybe that is just it... they are having wet dreams again... or is it wet nappies they have? LOL

Come on old farts ,lets get em !

I don't recall anyone saying ONLY the young ones get it for free.

Your old age must be catching up with you, time to go and buy some glasses!

Or, maybe its the viagra thats blinded you................you know what they say too much viagra can do!

yes i do, kept poor uncle frank at it for days,.frank has only one eye, but as he said to me ,in the land of the blind the one eyed man is king !

Good to see you dont loose your sense of humour once you reach your twilight years mike!!

Hey im only ! 55 , but as you know in thailand we feel 20 years younger, combined with looking out of the same the same eyes as when i was 18 makes me a young man ! ,what next,. free se x, no,.

[sunshine13]

why do old farts always want to tell us young guys about how prostitutes like them better, like thats a good thing. rofl.

[terry57]

dave,

you have told us many times before that your wife is an ex bargirl and im not passing any judgements

Terry, wrong Dave from Pattaya,

Regards

/edit format //

that explains it then, as i thought dave might of been drinking to much of his profits.

[aussiestyle1983]

if you say "old farang" on thai visa, i am pretty sure that is an automatic crucifixtion. Applying that 20 year old thai women are not sexually attracted to their 50 year old husbands, that is a double crucifixtion. Time to run and hide because these guys are gonna eat you alive emperor.

He will be old (er) and single one day, wonder where he will end up !.. On a lighter note i brought my uncle frank over for a holiday when he was 66 and had been in the living room for 8 years watching tv and waiting for god since his wife passed away,.he loves it here,. before we came over i read him the riot act, no involvement, and read this book on the plane ( money number 1 ),. hes now been coming 4 times a year for 4 years and is often out with me til 5am,. one time i was back in the uk and he text me and said he was on jomtien beach with a 21 year old,. i text him back and said ' you be careful, it could be fatal " ,. he replies " <deleted> it, if it kills her it kills her !,..whats wrong with enjoying yourself at 70,. these young guys just cant get their head round that the darling they were with last night will go with an old fart tomorrow night,.

ROFPMSL

Well, if they can afford viagra, they can proably afford a $2 hooker as well!

have you heard the bar girls say " i no like young man " its because they dont want to pay, they think they have pulled !

They don't like us because they know we don't need to pay. They are well aware of the fact that we can get it for free!

So TBG, you can earn an extra note by going with fat, old, stinky freddie over there, btw, you might also get squashed, or, you can come with me. I won't pay you what he will because i don't have to, the choice is "up to you"

LOL you maybe forgeting these "old farts" were young once too and getting it for free. Now they are "old farts" and are still getting it from the same girls young guys are. Really, young guys should be thanking the "old fart" for taking care of the girls. I don't think old unatractive guys believe these women are physically attractived to them, they may be just realists who are not willing to settle with unattractive women from the west. I say "Good for them" why settle if you don't have too.

I don't blame them for what they do and I believe they have made the correct decision. A nasty western woman is nothing to compare to a TBG...................

[aznyron]

If you marry a thai girl and buy a house you have some protection so I was told by my thai friend simple solotion is not give them any more you can afford to LOSE keep most of your saving in your home country bank and if your married to a thai girl you don't have to pay cash for the house she can get a mortgage based on the fact she is married to you and use's your income as collorateral and take 20 or 30 year mortgage to pay it off this way if she screws up you walk away simple you lose very little but I know you all want to show how big spender you are LOL investigat the the rules don't listern to bar room lawyers there in every bar in thailand talk to a real attorney ask him qustions get a second opinion from another legal counsel before making decision that could cost you your life savings