Please Help

[Robski]

Get on with your life and don't get screwed up over it, try laughing at how stupid you can be and move on.

Next time you're back in Thailand you'll be a bit older and a bit wiser.

There are some wonderful women in Thailand, it just depends where you meet them.

[Wunzen]

Wunzen - ever heard of the long con???

No, what is it?

[viciouskitty74]

She makes me angryer every week, more with her stupidity than with her butterflying...

Your earlier posts mentioned you want to know how to handle her tricks.

Is being angry helping?

Licken is right. Be gracious, give her your thanks for housing you for a month and bow away. You tells yourself you arent stupid, then do act like one.

You believed her story for her sick child. She dont believe your story about being a student for the next 3 years. Both of you have your own reasons for believing. So why make a fuss now or become angry?

[viciouskitty74]

The long con.

Chinese has another saying: 'Fang Chang Sien, Diao Da Yu'

It means, to put out a long fishing line, to hook a big fish.

To explain to you will be: she believes in your potential to provide for her. And she is willing to wait for you to bite.

Basically, you are now a student. Who knows....3 years down the road, you are a Doctor something or someone that is earning big bucks. Hers & her son's future will be secured with you in the long run.

[Wunzen]

Was you with her all the time the month she looked after you? or did she go off "shopping" alone sometimes, leaving you holding the baby?

We were together all the time, I even forced her, to tell everybody, who was calling her, that she s together with me...

Bit crazy, I know.

I even was carrying her wallet and handphone with me all the time...

Because she wanted it.

[Wunzen]

Sorry, I dont let it be.

You ve seen the bed, heres the balcony with her.

Does someone know, wich hotel it could be.

I am interrested about her reaction, when mentioning the hotels name...

The pix are so obvious, that I feel ridicilous.

[viciouskitty74]

Sorry, I dont let it be.

You ve seen the bed, heres the balcony with her.

Does someone know, wich hotel it could be.

I am interrested about her reaction, when mentioning the hotels name...

The pix are so obvious, that I feel ridicilous.

Ok....maybe there is a reason why you are only 22.

cheers & good luck.

[Wunzen]

Ceers! Yes, I m nuts, she did her job very well.

Just looked, how many hotels there are in phuket...

I know I should give a Fkuc on her, but we had a real nice month.

I should forget her,

or otherwise just go on with this game.

In fact, I m on the longer arm. Because: If I stop loving her, the way to her goal(wich she will not reach, if I stop loving her) is my goal.

But isnt this just a wast of time?

No, its sureley waste of time, because its not the same, if I stop loving her.

Ergo:?

I hate it.

[Wunzen]

[Wunzen]

I am not as stupid as it sounded in the first post.

Shes got strategies, sure, but I try to handle them.

Well, I think, shes a bit scizophrenic(as many I met), wich makes it more difficult, to get an idea, of what shes thinking. Probably impossible. I remarked her having halluzinations sometimes.

Scares me a bit, to be honest.

On the other side, I know, she is cheating me, I m not nuts.I just want to handle her strategies, live a couple of months with her, then I will know more. As I really liked and loved her, more than any girl before. Yes, I m only 22.

I know she can make maybe 10 or 20 thousand a week, now, in low season...

And she told me, that she slept with 5 Fallangs,

I think the only way, to find out, if this has future, is to live with her for a couple of months.

From me this could really have future,

As I said, I m not nuts...

Yesterday she told me, she ran out of money absolutley and brought her son to the hospital. Hmmmm...

If I would get one cent per lie...

You asked for advice, but you don't want to hear what you already know.

You're going to need more than luck son, I think you are going to find out the hard way.

She is a bar girl after all and much much smarter than you.

Why should she be smarter than me. I think I could do it better.

What will be the hard way?

[sbk]

All non-English posts have been deleted. Lets keep the posts in English per forum rules.

[qwertz]

Quote Wunzel.:Also nich euch, ich bin ja wie gesagt kein Troll.

Aber so lang sie mich verarscht, verarsch ich sie ja auch irgendwie, ob jetz physikalisch oder was auch immer

Sorry Wunzel, I should have mentioned, we can only use English on this board.

But now you understand long con in your mother tongue.

Don't get burned, kid. It would be a shame to get cynical at your age and there's plenty of crispy young German girls to keep you busy.

PM me and come up to Schwerin some time, I teach classes at a graphic design school and it's full of beautiful girls for whom I'm regrettably way too old.

You can guest in my class for a day and get your head straight.

Take a tip from the board, there's a lot of good advice being thrown your way from men and women.

[Wunzen]

Cheers qwertz, sounds like theres much party in the class youre teaching.

[Wunzen]

Get on with your life and don't get screwed up over it, try laughing at how stupid you can be and move on.

Next time you're back in Thailand you'll be a bit older and a bit wiser.

There are some wonderful women in Thailand, it just depends where you meet them.

Where should I meet them?

[dr_Pat_Pong]

Get on with your life and don't get screwed up over it, try laughing at how stupid you can be and move on.

Next time you're back in Thailand you'll be a bit older and a bit wiser.

There are some wonderful women in Thailand, it just depends where you meet them.

Where should I meet them?

TROLL