I watched a video of a guy who stated he was not a cat-person, befriending a stray cat outside his property and eventually bringing it inside after years of feeding her. The cat's name was Mona. There was a comment on this video that I found true, yet quite humorous. If you know cats, you will completely agree. The man: "I'm not a cat-person" Mona: "We'll see about that" I know many (real) men who would state they don't like cats. I was one of them... only to become the biggest cat lovers you will find. You won't know for sure until you spend some time up close and personal with one. They will choose their humans. You don't own a cat; they own you.