When I fall asleep on the sofa my nanny has a habit of touching my head and then walking off when I wake up. This is a very personal touch. It's a bit creepy so I was wondering whether anyone else out there has a similar experience.

Apart from that she is very good at her job of taking care of my 1 year old.

Well my wife has told me that it's a no no.

touching head in thai culture is disrespect.

maybe your nany is good but probably it's her way of saying 'pay me more for my work'

When I fall asleep on the sofa my nanny has a habit of touching my head and then walking off when I wake up

Which head? :D

When I fall asleep on the sofa my nanny has a habit of touching my head and then walking off when I wake up. This is a very personal touch. It's a bit creepy so I was wondering whether anyone else out there has a similar experience.

Apart from that she is very good at her job of taking care of my 1 year old.

Hide a camera and film her doing it, then post it on here!

What you can feel is probably the barrel of a handgun, pay her more!

Edited September 16, 200718 yr by Maigo6

problem with your toupee, merhap?

giving a serious answer to the question (heaven forbid), i would say that she 'likes' you and wants to make a move. could be wrong, but thats what i would be thinking.

hopr you dont have a rabbit. you may find it in the pot one day...

giving a serious answer to the question (heaven forbid), i would say that she 'likes' you and wants to make a move. could be wrong, but thats what i would be thinking.

hopr you dont have a rabbit. you may find it in the pot one day...

dont knock it ,i'd be glad of the attention

Have you ever read Of Mice and Men?

Edited September 16, 200718 yr by Briggsy

Hard to put a finger on this one.

Nannies that perform 24 hr a day child care really miss out on a lot of interaction from similar aged people.

Looking after baby & watching Thai soaps all day can be almost a prison sentence for some people & even though they try and tough it out to live up to their responsibilities, sometimes a little physical contact can have great effects on one's self esteem. (I am a human, not a robot!)

Soundman.

When I fall asleep on the sofa my nanny has a habit of touching my head and then walking off when I wake up

Which head?

Dear oh dear JS !!!!!!!

BTW , is the nanny fit

When I fall asleep on the sofa my nanny has a habit of touching my head and then walking off when I wake up. This is a very personal touch. It's a bit creepy so I was wondering whether anyone else out there has a similar experience.

Apart from that she is very good at her job of taking care of my 1 year old.

nannys need love too

you may not realize it but she is your wife as well and probably loves you just as much

its a natural reaction to living in close quarters and caring for your child

treat her as such while avoiding offending your big wife

(ie.. show her love when your wife is not in the room)

nannys need love too

you may not realize it but she is your wife as well and probably loves you just as much

its a natural reaction to living in close quarters and caring for your child

treat her as such while avoiding offending your big wife

(ie.. show her love when your wife is not in the room)

While I agree with your sentiment this "(ie.. show her love when your wife is not in the room)" may not be very appropriate!

I wouldn't worry about it, it's probably nothing much and she probably considers herself a part of the family. Maybe she thinks it will bring her good luck.

When I fall asleep on the sofa my nanny has a habit of touching my head and then walking off when I wake up...

Maybe you're snoring too loud.

I've got this housekeeper who's an absolute little cracker and she's not laid a finger on me yet.

Seriously maybe she likes the feel of your hair, mine's really fine and I've had a few Asian girls who were just friends run their hand over it.

When I fall asleep on the sofa my nanny has a habit of touching my head and then walking off when I wake up. This is a very personal touch. It's a bit creepy so I was wondering whether anyone else out there has a similar experience.

Apart from that she is very good at her job of taking care of my 1 year old.

that sounds very weird. tell us more about her

maybe she is doing some voodoo

Edited September 16, 200718 yr by Grover

Nothing wrong with it. However, if there ever is a "happy ending" involved, then it gets freaky!

what colour is your hair???

what colour is your hair???

What has that got to do with the nanny?

Blonde and red hair is a source of wonderment for Thais.....

It could be that it is the colour of the hair that is causing the attraction.

I agree with Donna - prob wants a shag.

Blonde and red hair is a source of wonderment for Thais.....

It could be that it is the colour of the hair that is causing the attraction.

Maybe that explains the attraction over the years.... Nothing to do with my fat gut, grizzly personality & smelly feet!

Blonde and red hair is a source of wonderment for Thais.....

It could be that it is the colour of the hair that is causing the attraction.

Maybe that explains the attraction over the years.... Nothing to do with my fat gut, grizzly personality & smelly feet!

smelly feet......probably reminds her of Som Tam......

Blonde and red hair is a source of wonderment for Thais.....

It could be that it is the colour of the hair that is causing the attraction.

Maybe that explains the attraction over the years.... Nothing to do with my fat gut, grizzly personality & smelly feet!

smelly feet......probably reminds her of Som Tam......

No, no, no - Parmesan! Can't keep the hired help away from it!

Or maybe she considers you to be worthy of a gentle pat, like the kid. I often pat the dog or cat when I leave the room. Unless you are otherwise encouraging her, I wouldn't worry. People have their own peculiar habits. If you are a bit jittery, show some affection to your wife in front of her, and casually mention how much you love your wife and are soooooooo lucky to have her, when its just you and the nanny in the room. She'll get the hint.

Blonde and red hair is a source of wonderment for Thais.....

It could be that it is the colour of the hair that is causing the attraction.

Maybe that explains the attraction over the years.... Nothing to do with my fat gut, grizzly personality & smelly feet!

smelly feet......probably reminds her of Som Tam......

Maybe Durian

She's slowly increasing the dosage of the poison, day by day, and hopes every day that your head will be cold to the touch?

Just ask her, or have your wife ask.