Hey, Married-men, Do Your Wives Sometimes Turn To Be Your Mommy?

[DCasper]

All women will try to Mother (Control) in someway. No man can change this.

My Wife even before we married would change my clothes around, being a normal guy would grab the first set of clothes. She started to change the clothes are around. She was dressing me. . I think this is the first sight or is there one before?

Wait just one minute. What is manly or "normal guy" about being a slob with no style or dress sense?

How many Tank tops and shorts do you need.

[villagefarang]

All women will try to Mother (Control) in someway. No man can change this.

My Wife even before we married would change my clothes around, being a normal guy would grab the first set of clothes. She started to change the clothes are around. She was dressing me. . I think this is the first sight or is there one before?

Wait just one minute. What is manly or "normal guy" about being a slob with no style or dress sense?

How many Tank tops and shorts do you need.

If you were already wearing Tank tops and shorts then I don't understand what her problem was.

[GracelessFawn]

Men used to confused me. Someone once told me to just think of men like 6-year old boys. It made my life easier.

I doubt it did much for them or your relationships, however.

Don't take it literally. If you check what I wrote earlier, you'll see what I mean.

[bratpack]

graceless fawn,my post was for apple,so why do you say mind my p and q,are you apple then.

[bratpack]

i get it,you are the married girl friend,oops you slipped up there didnt you .

[GracelessFawn]

graceless fawn,my post was for apple,so why do you say mind my p and q,are you apple then.

KK sorry. I'm already kinda pissed so thought you aimed it at me. Please accept my apologies.

[villagefarang]

Men used to confused me. Someone once told me to just think of men like 6-year old boys. It made my life easier.

I doubt it did much for them or your relationships, however.

Don't take it literally. If you check what I wrote earlier, you'll see what I mean.

OK, I reread and it only made things worse. It all sounds like trickery and manipulation. Code, strategies and game play techniques don't sound like a good attitude or foundation for a lasting relationship.

Now, if this is just a fun thread, to show that men are childish, brutish, buffoons who are easily manipulated then I'm sorry for missing the point. In that case it is all quite funny.

[bratpack]

ok no probs,wish i was kinda pissed too lol.my night in tonite,got to look after my body so i dont get my bum spanked for being naughty lol lol.

[thaiclan]

And what about the other side of the coin which is far more prevailant over here in LOS where there is often a huge gap in age? I frequently have to listen to the drool of past middle age men treating their 20and 30 something yr old girlfriends (and boyfriends) as pre-adolescent children..."oh baby, you are so cute, oh look at the way she does this/that, oh baby let me do that for you, are you really sure you dont want to eat that/drink that/do that" all said in a cutesy pathetic tone that even a 6 year old would stamp on you for.

Add this to the "i'll take care of everything with my $" rhetoric and in return she will cook, keep house and take care of the guy - well thats kinda like asking for a mother......

[F1fanatic]

Now I see why I waited so long to get married. Too many women with this arrogant belief that they run the show and men are simpletons. (6 year old boys as one poster put it) We are not incompetant, the International Space Station runs fine when there are no lady astronauts about. Of course you'll never see a man with superior intellect or having more common sense than a woman, in any movie or TV show; that just isn't cool. Even the little girls are put up as being more clever then men. Reverse sexism is all that is.

I get along just fine with or without my wife in the house, even during long absences. Not much has changed here since she moved in, I still do what I like, and she does what she likes, sometimes we do stuff that we like to do together. She doesn't tell my what to eat, or what to wear. Yes she does take care of me if I am sick, that is a logical thing for a life partner to do.

I think that people are confusing mothering with manipulating. Females seem to take endless pride in their ability to acheive results through subterfuge and wiles. I prefer an honest relationship with up front discussions and agreements (or disagreements). I despise manipulation.

You misunderstand women. Most women are unable to deal with aggression or confrontation so have to find other ways to achieve equality in a relationship.

Most men don't realise they are being aggressive to get their own way and would be horrified if they realised this is how their wife interpreted their behaviour. Your wife will rarely tell you that you are being selfish, but in my experience men are far more selfish than women, driving women to nag etc. and exhibit other behaviour that can be interpreted as manipulation, subterfuge or wiles.

Sorry to go on, but women don't think men are simpletons either, until it comes to relationships. For the reasons explained above, we have a poor opinion of their abilities in this one respect. However, from some of the posts here, obviously men feel the same way!

[bratpack]

THAICLAN,

Dont know who you knock about with but non of my friends or me ever talk to our gf like that.age difference is not too great with most of them but the odd one where i think the girl is too young they still dont talk like that.

Never mind we all move in different circles.

[thaiclan]

THAICLAN,

Dont know who you knock about with but non of my friends or me ever talk to our gf like that.age difference is not too great with most of them but the odd one where i think the girl is too young they still dont talk like that.

Never mind we all move in different circles.

That must be nice for you. Come down to Pattaya one day and just sit in Sizzler, Deli France or most eateries and it will crack you up! Worth the visit just for that! lol

[bratpack]

I am in Pattaya so i will have a look one day lol.

[Naam]

And you spank them if they do something wrong

Now, what's wrong with that?

there's nothing wrong with that... as long as you can handle a backhand in your face and a kick in your butt

[rick75]

I would say the only time mothering is nice is when you are sick.

The whole female supremacy thing has really worn thin, we men are simple but not that simple.

If only women were half as smart as they think they are it would be nice, they would not need all those cook books they would be able to remember the recipes.

Just Joking

[Saiyan]

No man wants to sleep with his mother.

never heard that nearly 8% of all men have a straight or latent Oedipus complex? and NO, you can't buy an Oedipus complex in a supermarket and you can't eat it!

Should I have put this in bold and capital letters "MAN"

[dominique355]

A wise woman lets a man think he is in control.

No man wants to sleep with his mother.

Men likes to feel in control and loves to be appreciated. So 'prase his actions' if he does or gives you something.

About the control part, my strategy is to let the man win when it comes to the small things that doesn't matter. E.g. He wants to go to the movie. I might say no but, after 10 mins tell him, "You're right. That movie does sound interesting. Let's watch it." Little things like that........ I do tend to hold my ground when it comes to the things that matter but, coz I let him win a lot when it comes to small things, he doesn't feel that he's losing control when he doesn't get his way.

Now here is a fine example of female manipulation. You mean you just say NO to anything your mans says, then you pretend to change your mind to do him a favor in order to make him change his mind when, at a later occasion, you want him to go your way? A bit childish, in my opinion. Why can't you be honest and straight forward? Is there some sort of feeling that you man is inferior to you and you most coerce him "for his own good"? After all, what do men know?!

What will happen if you man reads this post of you and wakes up?

[cluezo]

No man wants to sleep with his mother.

Know what the shrinks call that? The "Madonna Complex." Numerous studies have proven this. When a wife becomes pregnant for the first time than has a child, she becomes a "mother." Not your mother but a mother nonetheless. Studies indicate that once this happens the sex life of many couples drops off dramtically. The shrinks suggest that somewhere in the husband's mind, the difference between wife and mother becomes blurred. This theory may be dribble but if you Google it, you'll see that it may have some credence.

Edited June 14, 2008 by cluezo

[Saiyan]

No man wants to sleep with his mother.

Know what the shrinks call that? The "Madonna Complex." Numerous studies have proven this. When a wife becomes pregnant for the first time than has a child, she becomes a "mother." Not your mother but a mother nonetheless. Studies indicate that once this happens the sex life of many couples drops off dramtically. The shrinks suggest that somewhere in the husband's mind, the difference between wife and mother becomes blurred. This theory may be dribble but if you Google it, you'll see that it may have some credence.

Come on. Read the sentence again. It’s not long and not difficult to understand. It does not say “No man wants to sleep with a mother”