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Spiritless People

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I was sitting in traffic the othere day when a young girl stepped out in front of my car in to the path of a motorbike. The motorbike swerved but the rider still give the girl quite a heavy blow with his shoulder. The girl was shocked but without missing a step she just continued across the road and didn't even gance at the passing bike. The guy on the bike also never even glanced back and just continued on his way :)

Since this incident i have become ever more aware of many people who just seem to be almost drones, without any real level of consciousness - soulless, spiritless if you like. Very strange :D

I can see where you're coming from, BUT.....I think you misinterpret it.

I think both parties in your story just accepted it and instinctively knew there was no point getting animated or emotional as what happened, happened. No use crying over spilt milk.

The girl knew she was at fault for her own injury, so can't blame the rider. The rider knew he wasn't to blame so no apology needed, and he only had to swerve so it was not a big deal to him.

It's nothing about consciousness or spirit. I wouldn't assume there is no passion in Thailand.

Thats the mai pen rai attitude thats all. since being here over a year now myself im sort of developin the same thing, for instance other day my motorbike taxi driver with me on the back crashed into anuva bike only slow but still nearly came off an all 3 of us didnt even acknowledge it! if that happened back in uk there well of been a scrap!

I think Harcourt has summed it up pretty well. Forbearance (tolerance and restraint in the face of provocation; patience) is highly valued in Thai culture. (Not too sure about forethought though.) :)

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I can see where you're coming from, BUT.....I think you misinterpret it.

I think both parties in your story just accepted it and instinctively knew there was no point getting animated or emotional as what happened, happened. No use crying over spilt milk.

The girl knew she was at fault for her own injury, so can't blame the rider. The rider knew he wasn't to blame so no apology needed, and he only had to swerve so it was not a big deal to him.

It's nothing about consciousness or spirit. I wouldn't assume there is no passion in Thailand.

I agree in part - Thai people do have a mai pen ry attitude, but that doesn't (for me anyhow) account for othere such incidents of observing people who seem to be of low consciousnees. I don't neceseraly mean Thais. I mean how many times have you (for eg.) seen ferangs walking around a shopping mall in speedos :)

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I think Harcourt has summed it up pretty well. Forbearance (tolerance and restraint in the face of provocation; patience) is highly valued in Thai culture. (Not too sure about forethought though.) :)

The incident i describe is just an example in order to raise the point of 'people who seem spiritless'

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Thats the mai pen rai attitude thats all. since being here over a year now myself im sort of developin the same thing, for instance other day my motorbike taxi driver with me on the back crashed into anuva bike only slow but still nearly came off an all 3 of us didnt even acknowledge it! if that happened back in uk there well of been a scrap!

sorry to be pedantic Stevey - but you don't really think 'anuva' is how to spell 'anothere' :)

I'll remember to make a big scene next time i encounter misfortune; to make sure doomster isn't watching and branding me a "spiritless person"

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I'll remember to make a big scene next time i encounter misfortune; to make sure doomster isn't watching and branding me a "spiritless person"

you miss the point DAVE

Maybe They have more important things to concentrate on . Like Finding Food and water , A Job , maybe her parents or Boyfriend are giving her a hard time,

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Maybe They have more important things to concentrate on . Like Finding Food and water , A Job , maybe her parents or Boyfriend are giving her a hard time,

Again my dear boy you have missed the point - forget about the girl :)

Since this incident i have become ever more aware of many people who just seem to be almost drones, without any real level of consciousness - soulless, spiritless if you like

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Maybe They have more important things to concentrate on . Like Finding Food and water , A Job , maybe her parents or Boyfriend are giving her a hard time,

Again my dear boy you have missed the point - forget about the girl :D

Since this incident i have become ever more aware of many people who just seem to be almost drones, without any real level of consciousness - soulless, spiritless if you like

Making a generalization by referring to something as soulless, spiritless, etc. based on one incident of a person not paying attention while crossing the street, and never giving it a second thought or a person walking around the mall in Speedos is just YOU passing judgment so it is just YOUR opinion (and you know what "they" say about opinions). Would this be fair to say "doomster"? How do you come to the conclusion that a person lacks soul, and spirit? Please enlighten the rest of us. :)

If similar things have happened to you enough times before maybe you just don't worry about it, how many times before has she stepped out into traffic with out looking, how many times has the bike rider had close calls like this? They just don't seem to care, after all Buddha will take care of them, I am amazed every time I see someone ride out of a side road and turn left on to main road with out looking to the right or stopping at all.

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Maybe They have more important things to concentrate on . Like Finding Food and water , A Job , maybe her parents or Boyfriend are giving her a hard time,

Again my dear boy you have missed the point - forget about the girl :D

Since this incident i have become ever more aware of many people who just seem to be almost drones, without any real level of consciousness - soulless, spiritless if you like

Making a generalization by referring to something as soulless, spiritless, etc. based on one incident of a person not paying attention while crossing the street, and never giving it a second thought or a person walking around the mall in Speedos is just YOU passing judgment so it is just YOUR opinion (and you know what "they" say about opinions). Would this be fair to say "doomster"? How do you come to the conclusion that a person lacks soul, and spirit? Please enlighten the rest of us. :)

Just my opinion - thats correct. Me passing judgement - thats correct. Must be something wrong with me :D

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If similar things have happened to you enough times before maybe you just don't worry about it, how many times before has she stepped out into traffic with out looking, how many times has the bike rider had close calls like this? They just don't seem to care, after all Buddha will take care of them, I am amazed every time I see someone ride out of a side road and turn left on to main road with out looking to the right or stopping at all.

Yes. like - Empty people. Puppet people. Cardboard cutouts. Drones. Organic Portals :)

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I agree that people do appear somewhat robotic when going about their daily tasks. But that doesn't make them soulless. What are you expecting from them? To be gaily skipping along whilst wistfully reading out some romantic poetry?

Maybe They have more important things to concentrate on . Like Finding Food and water , A Job , maybe her parents or Boyfriend are giving her a hard time,

Again my dear boy you have missed the point - forget about the girl :D

Since this incident i have become ever more aware of many people who just seem to be almost drones, without any real level of consciousness - soulless, spiritless if you like

Making a generalization by referring to something as soulless, spiritless, etc. based on one incident of a person not paying attention while crossing the street, and never giving it a second thought or a person walking around the mall in Speedos is just YOU passing judgment so it is just YOUR opinion (and you know what "they" say about opinions). Would this be fair to say "doomster"? How do you come to the conclusion that a person lacks soul, and spirit? Please enlighten the rest of us. :)

Just my opinion - thats correct. Me passing judgement - thats correct. Must be something wrong with me :D

No no, nothing wrong with you. After all this is a forum so we all have them. I was just curious how you came to the conclusion that based on your observations people lack soul and spirit. :D

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[Since this incident i have become ever more aware of many people who just seem to be almost drones, without any real level of consciousness - soulless, spiritless if you like

Making a generalization by referring to something as soulless, spiritless, etc. based on one incident of a person not paying attention while crossing the street, and never giving it a second thought or a person walking around the mall in Speedos is just YOU passing judgment so it is just YOUR opinion (and you know what "they" say about opinions). Would this be fair to say "doomster"? How do you come to the conclusion that a person lacks soul, and spirit? Please enlighten the rest of us. :)

Just my opinion - thats correct. Me passing judgement - thats correct. Must be something wrong with me :D

No no, nothing wrong with you. After all this is a forum so we all have them. I was just curious how the came to the conclusion that based on your observations people lack soul and spirit. :D

My conclusion (or opinion) is based on observation - as you correctly state :D

Some people just appear to be were strangely one dimensional and hollow inside - just an observation.

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WOW!!! I guess that doomster is the new Guru! Thanks for your insight!!! :)

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WOW!!! I guess that doomster is the new Guru! Thanks for your insight!!! :D

Thank you i accept your nomination :)

I must say though i am a little surprised at the numer of posters who seem to want ot deny this observation and spring to the defence of this concept :D

WOW!!! I guess that doomster is the new Guru! Thanks for your insight!!! :D

Thank you i accept your nomination :)

I must say though i am a little surprised at the numer of posters who seem to want ot deny this observation and spring to the defence of this concept :D

I do not deny your concept, Its your concept not other peoples concept , other people have posted there concept, do you grasp our concept.

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WOW!!! I guess that doomster is the new Guru! Thanks for your insight!!! :D

Thank you i accept your nomination :)

I must say though i am a little surprised at the numer of posters who seem to want ot deny this observation and spring to the defence of this concept :D

I do not deny your concept, Its your concept not other peoples concept , other people have posted there concept, do you grasp our concept.

sorry, you represent who?

WOW!!! I guess that doomster is the new Guru! Thanks for your insight!!! :D

Thank you i accept your nomination :)

I must say though i am a little surprised at the numer of posters who seem to want ot deny this observation and spring to the defense of this concept :D

I do not deny your concept, Its your concept not other peoples concept , other people have posted there concept, do you grasp our concept.

sorry, you represent who?

Do not be sorry because you do not understand other peoples opinions on concept, I am a free thinking person who represents myself with thoughts of other living beings wether it be Animal or Human,

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Thank you i accept your nomination :)

I must say though i am a little surprised at the numer of posters who seem to want ot deny this observation and spring to the defense of this concept :D

I do not deny your concept, Its your concept not other peoples concept , other people have posted there concept, do you grasp our concept.

sorry, you represent who?

Do not be sorry because you do not understand other peoples opinions on concept, I am a free thinking person who represents myself with thoughts of other living beings wether it be Animal or Human,

Look in the mirror Thong: do you see an emptiness behind the eyes and feel a very shallow conscious essence - no, oh well!

PS I am not psychic but i can feel a strong sence of your nationality - I gues your from the Netherlands :D

As this appears to be more of a troll and observation than a topic of discussion believe we can end it here before we get into the name calling arena.

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