Internet Dating Or Goings To Bars.....?

[expatdreamer]

ayayay as i keep posting, i am not a desperate 50 year old loser trying to make everyone look bad. Stop classifying everyone in your category. Even in the west only the loser part of the high earner go for the weak poor little girl to take care of. I could name you hundreds of couples from the west where they're would be less than 10 of them where the money is very far apart. But of course male earn a little bit more, as the salaries for the same job is usually a little bit higher for the male.

A male wants a nice looking interesting girl who will elevate his status among his peers

a female wants a nice interesting male with high test levels and good sperm that is good with his hands, strong to protect her and shows class to make her look better around her friends.

Its genetics, money has nothing to do with genetic, the confort it brings only affects few women, someone with just a normal job but with strong arms, the ability to build wood and a good sense of alpha male fashion is a lot more appealing than anything.

In thailand any normal woman would be glad with someone that has anything over 30k per month, just like in the west anyone with 3-4k usd per month would be fine as long as they are a nice person who can protect them and is usefull in case of zombie apocalypse.

Lower salaries than this means you're a non-working loser for the most part. No one wants a loser. Nothing to do with money. 30k in thailand can be had by anyone with higher than an 80 IQ

OK then, well how does that explain the following:

I was earning well over 4k usd per month, yet I lost count of the number of times my ex farang wife told me "you dont earn enough" during my marriage. Zero age difference between us, and I had plenty to choose from when I got married in the west (not trying to blow my own trumpet, just wanting to point out that I wasnt some loser who couldnt get anyone))

And when a single chap came along during my marraige who supposedly was going to inherit a multi-million dollar portfolio of properties in the west, guess who the ex farang wife suddenly took an interest in and wanted to become VERY good friends with.

In general, a desirable woman, IF she has options / choice AND can see a clear opportunity to follow through with executing this choice with little penalty, will choose the man with the most resources.

I remember a guy called AndrewBKK, a young guy on this forum who we havent heard from him for a while, seemed nice enough but I remember his Thai wife left him and her son for some old farang guy who happened to be some high earning coach of some sport in Thailand - presumably earning much more than himself - she even said something like "I like f..k old man, you go back to England little boy". Presumable AndrewBKK was earning at least 30k baht per month

Same same, thailand west

[HardenedSoul]

Actually I DID read your posts and that's what I based my impression of you upon. Of course, it may be that I'm completely wrong and you're really not deluded and jaded enough to think that most women prize a man's income or wealth above all else but with each and every rambling, off-the-track reply, you convince me that I was right all along.

Seems to me that,

If what you say is true, then your current girl would kick you into touch if your income went down to THB12,000 a month, right?

If what you say is true, then you must be paying her or at least making it worth her while to remain with you, right?

If what you say is true, then does the next guy who rocks up with more dosh than you have a good chance of blasting her through the nearest hotel room headboard?

It must be awful to live with the fear of losing your bird like that unless . . . of course . . . your girl is different

Edited April 10, 2012 by HardenedSoul

[ayayay]

What kinda pension is that, 10 000 thb/month??

And right there is the reason why ayayay thinks the way he does. He scoffs at the modest sum because in his mind, a guy can't attract or retain a woman's interest as if that's the number one consideration.

You see, guys like him simply don't have anything else but money in their arsenal to attract a woman and, consequently, believe that other men must be reliant on the same weapons.

Before I left London, there was a truly cringe-inducing trend that had taken hold in some of the glitzier bars and clubs where any guy ordering champagne would insist that the waitress bring it over with tiny sparkler-like fireworks attached to the sides of the bottle so that 1) onlookers would know who had ordered it and 2), to demonstrate that they were having so much more of a better time than anyone else by virtue of the size of their alcohol spend. Some of the venues would actually interrupt the regular music people were dancing to and play the fanfare from the Rocky movies as the bottle, held aloft for all to see, made its way from the bar to the table. The girls with these tacky buffoons were always tanning-booth brown, dolled up in skin-tight micro-dresses and willing to engage in a little dry humping with another plastic Barbie lookalike on cue in order to give the gimp with the credit card a glimpse of the porn-inspired spectacle awaiting him later if he kept the booze and the cocaine flowing.

I suspect guys like ayayay really find women like these appealing because they reinforce their dim view of women by apparently dispensing with the "wishy-washy" attributes that most regular women regard as far more desirable and important than money . . . . .and let's be honest there are hordes of them in almost every farang-targeted bar in this country.

Go to any foreigner-oriented bar and you'll see one of them: standing there, chest puffed out, gut sukced in, Benny Hill-like grin, bottle of Johnnie Walker, soda, coke, ice bucket, 4-6 strumpets with full glasses flirting with him and his equally gormless mate at the table. They look at other men with some sort of pitying expression on their faces as if to say, "Look how many girls we've got with us. Aren't you jealous" but when the bottle of JW's empty, the birds disappear into the loo, their re-appearance coinciding with the arrival of a fresh bottle.

It's highly amusing shit, gents . . .

Third try, the other two long posts somehow strangely disappeared

A real short version of my other long replies

You need to learn biology

Guys and girls does not look for the same things when they look for a partner.

Edited April 10, 2012 by ayayay

[ayayay]

Actually I DID read your posts and that's what I based my impression of you upon. Of course, it may be that I'm completely wrong and you're really not deluded and jaded enough to think that most women prize a man's income or wealth above all else but with each and every rambling, off-the-track reply, you convince me that I was right all along.

Seems to me that,

If what you say is true, then your current girl would kick you into touch if your income went down to THB12,000 a month, right?

If what you say is true, then you must be paying her or at least making it worth her while to remain with you, right?

If what you say is true, then does the next guy who rocks up with more dosh than you have a good chance of blasting her through the nearest hotel room headboard?

It must be awful to live with the fear of losing your bird like that unless . . . of course . . . your girl is different

I do as most other foreigners, I have much more money, than most average thai guys on the street. When my gf got together with me, she could afford a better living, yes.

Guys who do not admit that this is a very common thing, are just stupid and live in a denial. Do I think I am young and handsome, and a little of a ladies man? Hell yes, but can I sometimes also understand and realize, that guys and girls are different, and that we do not always go for the same things, yes.

[Johnniey]

Do online dating - in bars and discos 90% will be working girls or gold diggers - respectable Thai girls either don't go to such places or only in groups and are not easily approachable.

What rubbbish.

Most girls online are goldiggers or more bluntly, prostitutes.

Of course respectable Thai girls go to bars. Get out the tourist areas.

[ayayay]

ayayay as i keep posting, i am not a desperate 50 year old loser trying to make everyone look bad. Stop classifying everyone in your category. Even in the west only the loser part of the high earner go for the weak poor little girl to take care of. I could name you hundreds of couples from the west where they're would be less than 10 of them where the money is very far apart. But of course male earn a little bit more, as the salaries for the same job is usually a little bit higher for the male.

A male wants a nice looking interesting girl who will elevate his status among his peers

a female wants a nice interesting male with high test levels and good sperm that is good with his hands, strong to protect her and shows class to make her look better around her friends.

Its genetics, money has nothing to do with genetic, the confort it brings only affects few women, someone with just a normal job but with strong arms, the ability to build wood and a good sense of alpha male fashion is a lot more appealing than anything.

In thailand any normal woman would be glad with someone that has anything over 30k per month, just like in the west anyone with 3-4k usd per month would be fine as long as they are a nice person who can protect them and is usefull in case of zombie apocalypse.

Lower salaries than this means you're a non-working loser for the most part. No one wants a loser. Nothing to do with money. 30k in thailand can be had by anyone with higher than an 80 IQ

OK then, well how does that explain the following:

I was earning well over 4k usd per month, yet I lost count of the number of times my ex farang wife told me "you dont earn enough" during my marriage. Zero age difference between us, and I had plenty to choose from when I got married in the west (not trying to blow my own trumpet, just wanting to point out that I wasnt some loser who couldnt get anyone))

And when a single chap came along during my marraige who supposedly was going to inherit a multi-million dollar portfolio of properties in the west, guess who the ex farang wife suddenly took an interest in and wanted to become VERY good friends with.

In general, a desirable woman, IF she has options / choice AND can see a clear opportunity to follow through with executing this choice with little penalty, will choose the man with the most resources.

I remember a guy called AndrewBKK, a young guy on this forum who we havent heard from him for a while, seemed nice enough but I remember his Thai wife left him and her son for some old farang guy who happened to be some high earning coach of some sport in Thailand - presumably earning much more than himself - she even said something like "I like f..k old man, you go back to England little boy". Presumable AndrewBKK was earning at least 30k baht per month

Same same, thailand west

yes, but many foreign guys around here are scared to death to admit that maybe money is one of the reasons we got a headstart when we date thai girls.

[HardenedSoul]

ayayay as i keep posting, i am not a desperate 50 year old loser trying to make everyone look bad. Stop classifying everyone in your category. Even in the west only the loser part of the high earner go for the weak poor little girl to take care of. I could name you hundreds of couples from the west where they're would be less than 10 of them where the money is very far apart. But of course male earn a little bit more, as the salaries for the same job is usually a little bit higher for the male.

A male wants a nice looking interesting girl who will elevate his status among his peers

a female wants a nice interesting male with high test levels and good sperm that is good with his hands, strong to protect her and shows class to make her look better around her friends.

Its genetics, money has nothing to do with genetic, the confort it brings only affects few women, someone with just a normal job but with strong arms, the ability to build wood and a good sense of alpha male fashion is a lot more appealing than anything.

In thailand any normal woman would be glad with someone that has anything over 30k per month, just like in the west anyone with 3-4k usd per month would be fine as long as they are a nice person who can protect them and is usefull in case of zombie apocalypse.

Lower salaries than this means you're a non-working loser for the most part. No one wants a loser. Nothing to do with money. 30k in thailand can be had by anyone with higher than an 80 IQ

OK then, well how does that explain the following:

I was earning well over 4k usd per month, yet I lost count of the number of times my ex farang wife told me "you dont earn enough" during my marriage. Zero age difference between us, and I had plenty to choose from when I got married in the west (not trying to blow my own trumpet, just wanting to point out that I wasnt some loser who couldnt get anyone))

And when a single chap came along during my marraige who supposedly was going to inherit a multi-million dollar portfolio of properties in the west, guess who the ex farang wife suddenly took an interest in and wanted to become VERY good friends with.

In general, a desirable woman, IF she has options / choice AND can see a clear opportunity to follow through with executing this choice with little penalty, will choose the man with the most resources.

I remember a guy called AndrewBKK, a young guy on this forum who we havent heard from him for a while, seemed nice enough but I remember his Thai wife left him and her son for some old farang guy who happened to be some high earning coach of some sport in Thailand - presumably earning much more than himself - she even said something like "I like f..k old man, you go back to England little boy". Presumable AndrewBKK was earning at least 30k baht per month

Same same, thailand west

Yeah but what percentage of guys does shit like that happen to ?

Some guys just can't SEE the gold-digger right under their noses or maybe they just don't want to see it. I'm going to assume that your farang ex-wife knew full well what you were earning or capable of earning when you did the wedding march but she still married you. Love must've had something to do with it or maybe she, like you, just made a big mistake. Shit happens but just cos it happened to you, doesn't mean that other guys who are, perhaps, more in tune with womens' wants and needs will suffer the way you did.

If AndrewBKK got hosed like that it was probably cos he was a pussy. Plain and simple.

[HardenedSoul]

Actually I DID read your posts and that's what I based my impression of you upon. Of course, it may be that I'm completely wrong and you're really not deluded and jaded enough to think that most women prize a man's income or wealth above all else but with each and every rambling, off-the-track reply, you convince me that I was right all along.

Seems to me that,

If what you say is true, then your current girl would kick you into touch if your income went down to THB12,000 a month, right?

If what you say is true, then you must be paying her or at least making it worth her while to remain with you, right?

If what you say is true, then does the next guy who rocks up with more dosh than you have a good chance of blasting her through the nearest hotel room headboard?

It must be awful to live with the fear of losing your bird like that unless . . . of course . . . your girl is different

I do as most other foreigners, I have much more money, than most average thai guys on the street. When my gf got together with me, she could afford a better living, yes.

Guys who do not admit that this is a very common thing, are just stupid and live in a denial. Do I think I am young and handsome, and a little of a ladies man? Hell yes, but can I sometimes also understand and realize, that guys and girls are different, and that we do not always go for the same things, yes.

Yeah, yeah - complete waffle.

All you did there was to avoid the questions.

So come on then; let's hear the answers

[fredtitmus]

Dear OP

Firstly you will have noticed there are many thai visa experts on women,thai women and thailand.Unfortunetly none of them are really experts and as you can see many come across as teenage idiots arguing.Can see you are 41 so you will have had some experience with the ladies but i think everyone will agree thailand is a totaly differant ball game to england.

You say you arnt looking for anything serious but also dont want to pay for the girl,my advice would be go to ko san road plenty of western girls there for free and find yourself a proper thai nightclub where there is no falang away from the tourist areas for the thai girls.Also if you dont want to pay stay away from pattaya and buy a box of tissues.

[HardenedSoul]

Actually I DID read your posts and that's what I based my impression of you upon. Of course, it may be that I'm completely wrong and you're really not deluded and jaded enough to think that most women prize a man's income or wealth above all else but with each and every rambling, off-the-track reply, you convince me that I was right all along.

Seems to me that,

If what you say is true, then your current girl would kick you into touch if your income went down to THB12,000 a month, right?

If what you say is true, then you must be paying her or at least making it worth her while to remain with you, right?

If what you say is true, then does the next guy who rocks up with more dosh than you have a good chance of blasting her through the nearest hotel room headboard?

It must be awful to live with the fear of losing your bird like that unless . . . of course . . . your girl is different

I do as most other foreigners, I have much more money, than most average thai guys on the street. When my gf got together with me, she could afford a better living, yes.

Guys who do not admit that this is a very common thing, are just stupid and live in a denial. Do I think I am young and handsome, and a little of a ladies man? Hell yes, but can I sometimes also understand and realize, that guys and girls are different, and that we do not always go for the same things, yes.

Yeah, yeah - complete waffle.

All you did there was to avoid the questions.

So come on then; let's hear the answers

As I said, when I got together with my gf, she got a better standard of living. Do I think she will go for the first guy that offers her money, no, do I think she will leave me, if I had to start living on only 12 000 thb a month? no.

Can I be sure, yes, almost.

Can I be 100% sure, NO, yes, my ego will be bruised when I say this, and I know I am handsome, but no, I cant be sure.

Would she and I have gotten together in the first place if I revealed I only earned 12000 thb a month, hell no, she would have most likely picked another foreigner, even though I like to think, that I am more handsome and sexy than most other foreigners around here.

Priceless. Your credibility - such as it was - is stretched beyond belief. You simply cannot be taken seriously.

According to you, everyone else's girl would leave them if their income went down to THB12,000 but not yours cos you bring soooooooooo much more to the table in terms of good looks, charm, style and charisma.

Shit we need to get a medic to this guy quick

[ayayay]

As I said, when I got together with my gf, she got a better standard of living. Do I think she will go for the first guy that offers her money, no, do I think she will leave me, if I had to start living on only 12 000 thb a month? no.

Can I be sure, yes, almost.

Can I be 100% sure, NO, yes, my ego will be bruised when I say this, and I know I am handsome, but no, I cant be sure.

Would she and I have gotten together in the first place if I revealed I only earned 12000 thb a month, hell no, she would have most likely picked another foreigner, even though I like to think, that I am more handsome and sexy than most other foreigners around here.

According to you, everyone else's girl would leave them if their income went down to THB12,000 but not yours cos you bring soooooooooo much more to the table in terms of good looks, charm, style and charisma.

I would LIKE to think that my girl cares about me more than anything else. So when I talk about my own relationship, I think about it as you.

However, I am also much more real and clear to what is going in with female and biology, and thats why it is easy to see the patterns that I talk about in other relationships.

[ayayay]

Here is an even better one:

Honestly, do you really think your thai girl would have started dating you, if you, within the first few days, the would have become aware that you earned only 12 000 thb a month?

I know, honestly for sure, my girlfriend would robably not have picked me, but would have waited until another handsome and attractive foreigner would have come around.

[HardenedSoul]

Here is an even better one:

Honestly, do you really think your thai girl would have started dating you, if you, within the first few days, the would have become aware that you earned only 12 000 thb a month?

I know, honestly for sure, my girlfriend would robably not have picked me, but would have waited until another handsome and attractive foreigner would have come around.

I never talked about what I earn when I met the woman I'm seeing because it just never came up.

She said she'd observed me several times at a regular haunt and liked the way that, unlike the seemingly sex-starved, drunken foreigners she usually saw, I didn't spend the night trawling around the club trying it on with every girl. She said I looked like someone who'd seen it all before and could take it or leave it. She was spot on !!

That, my friend, is what gains and retains a woman interest through good and bad times; a man who knows himself, knows what makes women tick and doesn't need to impress her with the size of his wallet.

[Koratpat]

I know a scruffy, morbidly obese, 60 something year old farang that lives near Don Muang that makes $500 a month (15000 Thai baht) from his US Social Security disability pension check. His Thai wife makes 10,000 Thai baht at her job. The wife is attractive and fit and they have a luek krueng 5 year old daughter together. The wife says - we have a child together, he is nice and faithful, so will not leave him.

I know another extremely wealthy Thai Chinese lady that (worth millions of baht in cash and 3o or 40 rental houses in Thailand and the US) that is married to a Samoan fellow. He is nice enough, but when you get to know him, all you can think is TIN HAT BRIGADE. He swears the spirals on the temples are for communicating with aliens and that he can visit others in dreams via astral projection. When he I first met him she was trying to sell me a house for 6 million baht and he announced ---- my wife is very rich, please take it as a gift, we do not want your money. The Universe has revealed to me that the house is a gift!!! The wife, of course, did not agree. The wife often tells him to shut up and rarely takes him out. She gives him several thousand baht a month for his "allowance" and they take trips around Thailand together. She even bought him a Mercedes. She is no looker and in her 50's and he is in his mid 60's and they have been together around 12 years. She says Buddha always gives her "crazy man" and that is her karma. She says she loves him.

Neither guy is rich, both are older and not "hot" and one is crazy. So you tell me why theses girls are with these two men?

[Hostile17]

ayayay as i keep posting, i am not a desperate 50 year old loser trying to make everyone look bad. Stop classifying everyone in your category. Even in the west only the loser part of the high earner go for the weak poor little girl to take care of. I could name you hundreds of couples from the west where they're would be less than 10 of them where the money is very far apart. But of course male earn a little bit more, as the salaries for the same job is usually a little bit higher for the male.

A male wants a nice looking interesting girl who will elevate his status among his peers

a female wants a nice interesting male with high test levels and good sperm that is good with his hands, strong to protect her and shows class to make her look better around her friends.

Its genetics, money has nothing to do with genetic, the confort it brings only affects few women, someone with just a normal job but with strong arms, the ability to build wood and a good sense of alpha male fashion is a lot more appealing than anything.

In thailand any normal woman would be glad with someone that has anything over 30k per month, just like in the west anyone with 3-4k usd per month would be fine as long as they are a nice person who can protect them and is usefull in case of zombie apocalypse.

Lower salaries than this means you're a non-working loser for the most part. No one wants a loser. Nothing to do with money. 30k in thailand can be had by anyone with higher than an 80 IQ

OK then, well how does that explain the following:

I was earning well over 4k usd per month, yet I lost count of the number of times my ex farang wife told me "you dont earn enough" during my marriage. Zero age difference between us, and I had plenty to choose from when I got married in the west (not trying to blow my own trumpet, just wanting to point out that I wasnt some loser who couldnt get anyone))

And when a single chap came along during my marraige who supposedly was going to inherit a multi-million dollar portfolio of properties in the west, guess who the ex farang wife suddenly took an interest in and wanted to become VERY good friends with.

In general, a desirable woman, IF she has options / choice AND can see a clear opportunity to follow through with executing this choice with little penalty, will choose the man with the most resources.

I remember a guy called AndrewBKK, a young guy on this forum who we havent heard from him for a while, seemed nice enough but I remember his Thai wife left him and her son for some old farang guy who happened to be some high earning coach of some sport in Thailand - presumably earning much more than himself - she even said something like "I like f..k old man, you go back to England little boy". Presumable AndrewBKK was earning at least 30k baht per month

Same same, thailand west

Well let me just address the last part. From her english level she definately wasnt on par with any decent woman. Bargirls and uneducated women do not fit in the "average"

And with you. Well you just chose a shitty woman? what kind of job did she have? She painted nails? That would explain it. You could chose a lot of women? Young studs in clubs with their whores are again not part of the norm. I would never consider a woman that hangs in club for a wife unless she had millions and i was planning on killing her at some point.

Normal people in love Do not care about earnings as long as its enough to have a small place to call home and enough to eat better than ramen. Losers, professional whores or regular loose women, depressive people who only care about iphones are NOT the norm. They're just the most spoken about because they are the one coming out as weird and despicable in everyday life.

[Hostile17]

ayayay

Please provide a picture of yourself with id proof and if you are above 7.5/10(upper body included) i will wire to your thai account 500baht.

Pictures in thai forums always explain a lot.

Your post are nonsense for anyone decent looking, not that its anyone's fault to be ugly. But being fat is and when you're dealt the ugly card you should have the personality to make women fall hells over head for you to keep them. Not money.

Edited April 10, 2012 by Hostile17

[ayayay]

ayayay

Please provide a picture of yourself with id proof and if you are above 7.5/10(upper body included) i will wire to your thai account 500baht.

Pictures in thai forums always explain a lot.

Your post are nonsense for anyone decent looking, not that its anyone's fault to be ugly. But being fat is and when you're dealt the ugly card you should have the personality to make women fall hells over head for you to keep them. Not money.

post your picture first, and I will think about it.

[ayayay]

Normal people in love Do not care about earnings as long as its enough to have a small place to call home and enough to eat better than ramen. Losers, professional whores or regular loose women, depressive people who only care about iphones are NOT the norm. They're just the most spoken about because they are the one coming out as weird and despicable in everyday life.

Yes, correct.

Imagine your hometown, on all main avenues, there was these new kinds of tourists, they came in all sizes, all shapes, lets call them "gringo-aliens". in spite of all there differences, they had one thing in common, they all had a salary in one month, the same size as you and your local friends, earned in a whole year. Not all girls would chase them, and hang out with them, and try to get to know them. But SOME would do.

Most of them local girls would just look at the gringo-aliens and shake their heads at the spectacle, but some of them would jump right in.

Guess who are the gringo aliens in Thailand? you guessed it, its you and me.

[barefoot1988]

I know a scruffy, morbidly obese, 60 something year old farang that lives near Don Muang that makes $500 a month (15000 Thai baht) from his US Social Security disability pension check. His Thai wife makes 10,000 Thai baht at her job. The wife is attractive and fit and they have a luek krueng 5 year old daughter together. The wife says - we have a child together, he is nice and faithful, so will not leave him.

I know another extremely wealthy Thai Chinese lady that (worth millions of baht in cash and 3o or 40 rental houses in Thailand and the US) that is married to a Samoan fellow. He is nice enough, but when you get to know him, all you can think is TIN HAT BRIGADE. He swears the spirals on the temples are for communicating with aliens and that he can visit others in dreams via astral projection. When he I first met him she was trying to sell me a house for 6 million baht and he announced ---- my wife is very rich, please take it as a gift, we do not want your money. The Universe has revealed to me that the house is a gift!!! The wife, of course, did not agree. The wife often tells him to shut up and rarely takes him out. She gives him several thousand baht a month for his "allowance" and they take trips around Thailand together. She even bought him a Mercedes. She is no looker and in her 50's and he is in his mid 60's and they have been together around 12 years. She says Buddha always gives her "crazy man" and that is her karma. She says she loves him.

Neither guy is rich, both are older and not "hot" and one is crazy. So you tell me why theses girls are with these two men?

the second story is pretty funny

anyway as for why these girls are with 2 men . . most likely the average thai men are far worse than the 2 men you mentioned

[Hostile17]

Normal people in love Do not care about earnings as long as its enough to have a small place to call home and enough to eat better than ramen. Losers, professional whores or regular loose women, depressive people who only care about iphones are NOT the norm. They're just the most spoken about because they are the one coming out as weird and despicable in everyday life.

Yes, correct.

Imagine your hometown, on all main avenues, there was these new kinds of tourists, they came in all sizes, all shapes, lets call them "gringo-aliens". in spite of all there differences, they had one thing in common, they all had a salary in one month, the same size as you and your local friends, earned in a whole year. Not all girls would chase them, and hang out with them, and try to get to know them. But SOME would do.

Most of them local girls would just look at the gringo-aliens and shake their heads at the spectacle, but some of them would jump right in.

Guess who are the gringo aliens in Thailand? you guessed it, its you and me.

And most people worth knowing in thailand DO not go out with these girls.

[ayayay]

Normal people in love Do not care about earnings as long as its enough to have a small place to call home and enough to eat better than ramen. Losers, professional whores or regular loose women, depressive people who only care about iphones are NOT the norm. They're just the most spoken about because they are the one coming out as weird and despicable in everyday life.

Yes, correct.

Imagine your hometown, on all main avenues, there was these new kinds of tourists, they came in all sizes, all shapes, lets call them "gringo-aliens". in spite of all there differences, they had one thing in common, they all had a salary in one month, the same size as you and your local friends, earned in a whole year. Not all girls would chase them, and hang out with them, and try to get to know them. But SOME would do.

Most of them local girls would just look at the gringo-aliens and shake their heads at the spectacle, but some of them would jump right in.

Guess who are the gringo aliens in Thailand? you guessed it, its you and me.

And most people worth knowing in thailand DO not go out with these girls.

yes, those would be the thais.

No matter if we find our girls on a dating site, in a shopping mall, or in our office.

We still are the gringo alians, well known for having 10 times higher salary than the average thai man. And to believe that the females arent aware of this, is very naive...

[TommoPhysicist]

.. the average thai man isnt making 12000baht. Yes its the average salary but this is brought down by the worthless part of the country and the women who are not allowed to stay home, the illegal aliens and the countless thais making under the table money.

..... theres thousands of moobaans with houses starting at 6mb filled with regular thais making 50-250k a month. Hell nowadays im probably the poorest in our estate and im the only farang. Middle class is middle class. Dont put everyone in the same basket because you pick your fruits in the lower class.

I think you have a fairly distorted view of Thailand, it's people and their wages.

8k a month is a common income for more than 70% of the population, mainly rural people.

Middle class in a normal city might jointly earn 25k if both the adults are professional workers (nurses, schoolteachers, etc.)

Just because people don't earn much money doesn't make them worthless, they grow the food you eat, without them you would be hungry.

Edited April 11, 2012 by TommoPhysicist

[Koratpat]

And, you are very racist by calling all the farm people in Thailand.."worthless". That so called "worthless" part of Thailand has kept all the bigots in Bangkok fed and clothed for centuries.

Isaan is not worthless, nor are the farmers from there. However him saying that is not racist, just his opinion. Why so many people put the racism parachute on and jump from 30,000 feet at every statement in this day and age is beyond me. I can only surmise they have been brainwashed over the years.

[metisdead]

This topic has gone a bit off topic, enough derogatory generalizations and comparisons of lifestyles.

Closed