aussiebebe Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Don't get stuck in 'friendship lagoon'! But seriously, nice one scoring a date with two sisters - good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WebBangkok Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Maybe she thinks your a decent man, I am sure its hard for ladies to find decent men here, we all all usually taken. Probably saw you, thought "wow" I got to get my sister with him..... But really I have no idea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phl Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Maybe she thinks your a decent man, I am sure its hard for ladies to find decent men here, we all all usually taken. Probably saw you, thought "wow" I got to get my sister with him..... But really I have no idea. I am not taken so i must be indecent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenSnapper Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 What is so difficult about a dinner with two chicks? Go out with them, be in good mood and funny, have nice food and don't try to shag them immediately. But make sure, each of them has your phone number. Then wait. Don't be needy. The girl(s) will contact you, message you. Then wait again 2-3 days. That way you keep their tension. In the meanwhile, you date other girls. And you will see what develops and what not. It is so easy here. Just remember: you are the price. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 What do you want? Are you just interested in getting her into bed, or are you looking for a potential girlfriend? Or maybe you just want some Thai friends. Either way, take care not to lead her on or boost your ego by playing games. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnieTheKhwai Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 What is so difficult about a dinner with two chicks? Go out with them, be in good mood and funny, have nice food and don't try to shag them immediately. But make sure, each of them has your phone number. Then wait. Don't be needy. The girl(s) will contact you, message you. Then wait again 2-3 days. That way you keep their tension. In the meanwhile, you date other girls. And you will see what develops and what not. It is so easy here. Just remember: you are the price. Prize. But yes, I agree with this completely. Phone numbers are a bit 10 years ago though, I assume you're already Facebook friends.. And if so you should also be able to figure out who her sister is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 (edited) Here is a few guidelines from the beetlejuice vault of common sense and wisdom. A few facts that may save a guy a fortune and a lot of emotional trauma. Cute girl sends out signals to a guy that she likes him. After spending a passionate evening with her and a night of lovey-doveyness with and perhaps the best sex the guy has had for years, he becomes smitten and can hardly believe his luck. He holds her hand and listens intently to her pitiful hard luck stories and then wants to be her knight in shining armour, to the rescue, at any price, dreaming that at last he has discovered a true soul mate and love of his life, believing in a dream the guy decides to invest in her for a good future. This is how it begins and of course in most cases the result will turn out completely different to the guy’s expectations. Three major clues that will determine if the girl is not sincere and giving a guy a load of BS: 1. Most of her problems can only be solved with money. 2. The girl is not willing to give up any of her usual social schedules to be with the guy. 3. Appears to have many relatives, friends, acquaintances or colleges that she prefers to keep to herself and separate from her so-called relationship with the guy. It`s very simple. If a girl really likes or loves a guy, she will unconditionally follow him anywhere with no strings or provisos attached. Her main ambition in life will become solely to be with her man without any financial stipulations and social limitations. She should in fact be proud and keen to show off her new boyfriend and let everyone know that he and she is now an item. They may be judging you under the Falung vely kine category, meaning they are looking for mugs who will easily part with money on a few smiles, kind words and some hard luck sob stories, maybe with a bit of sex thrown in, if they consider the bait is hooked. So however you play this must be left up to your own discretion One sure way to test the water and ensure it`s safe to dive in, is to give them the impression that you are not a Falung of wealth and money is tight, and then see how their attitudes and hospitality progress towards you. Edited July 3, 2012 by Beetlejuice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Scully Posted July 3, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted July 3, 2012 (edited) I can help you with your date after reading tv. Before said date have a bath in lime juice followed by a roll in corn flour or starch to prevent sweat. Then for your perfect shave use an old bic razor sharpened on your local somtam sellers pok pok. Finish off with a splash of your favorite Thai whisky and then propose a 3 some. Good luck. Edited July 3, 2012 by Scully 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MiG16 Posted July 3, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted July 3, 2012 In the meanwhile, you date other girls. And you will see what develops and what not. It is so easy here. Just remember: you are the price. Nothing wrong with the...wait and see strategy But the mentality of 'you are the prize' hmmmm If you don't care about the woman, then go ahead and adopt that approach. But if you care just a tiny bit....in the sense of wanting proper dates to continue.....then remember that when they say there's plenty of fish in the sea, the fish are not all female. Lots of men out there too, especially in Bangkok. Women do have choices too. Ohh, and beetle juice, he's just been invited to one dinner. Probably just a first date. Relax!! We aren't always spending time scheming how to make money off farang men you know If she wanted to only take, she could have suggested he take her out. Why spend effort cooking You guys really should look for some positive in situations. Be wary by all means, but don't let all the negative thoughts overtake your life. Just my musings for the day 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenSnapper Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Nothing wrong with the...wait and see strategy But the mentality of 'you are the prize' hmmmm If you don't care about the woman, then go ahead and adopt that approach. But if you care just a tiny bit....in the sense of wanting proper dates to continue.....then remember that when they say there's plenty of fish in the sea, the fish are not all female. Lots of men out there too, especially in Bangkok. Women do have choices too. Haha, did I trigger the "princess nerve"? Yes, women have choices, but millions of attractive single women in Thailand show that their choices are very limited. And why would I care? If you are a subservient beta male, then you have to beg for some attention and sex. If you know you are the prize, the girls will beg. And there is no woman "so special" that you cannot find a "more special" one. Remember this and you will have success with women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttthailand Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Here is a few guidelines from the beetlejuice vault of common sense and wisdom. A few facts that may save a guy a fortune and a lot of emotional trauma. Cute girl sends out signals to a guy that she likes him. After spending a passionate evening with her and a night of lovey-doveyness with and perhaps the best sex the guy has had for years, he becomes smitten and can hardly believe his luck. He holds her hand and listens intently to her pitiful hard luck stories and then wants to be her knight in shining armour, to the rescue, at any price, dreaming that at last he has discovered a true soul mate and love of his life, believing in a dream the guy decides to invest in her for a good future. This is how it begins and of course in most cases the result will turn out completely different to the guy’s expectations. Three major clues that will determine if the girl is not sincere and giving a guy a load of BS: 1. Most of her problems can only be solved with money. 2. The girl is not willing to give up any of her usual social schedules to be with the guy. 3. Appears to have many relatives, friends, acquaintances or colleges that she prefers to keep to herself and separate from her so-called relationship with the guy. It`s very simple. If a girl really likes or loves a guy, she will unconditionally follow him anywhere with no strings or provisos attached. Her main ambition in life will become solely to be with her man without any financial stipulations and social limitations. She should in fact be proud and keen to show off her new boyfriend and let everyone know that he and she is now an item. They may be judging you under the Falung vely kine category, meaning they are looking for mugs who will easily part with money on a few smiles, kind words and some hard luck sob stories, maybe with a bit of sex thrown in, if they consider the bait is hooked. So however you play this must be left up to your own discretion One sure way to test the water and ensure it`s safe to dive in, is to give them the impression that you are not a Falung of wealth and money is tight, and then see how their attitudes and hospitality progress towards you. I agree with all of this...spot on ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nkg Posted July 3, 2012 Author Share Posted July 3, 2012 I'm pleasantly surprised with all the helpful advice that has been offered to me on this thread. Thanks I will stick to the "being extremely friendly without actually flirting with them" approach, and pretend to be embarrassed if/when either of them make flirtatious remarks. I'm not expecting any smooching to occur on date number 1 with a "respectable Thai lady", and if we hit it off I'm sure there will be plenty more meetings to follow. Now if you'll excuse me I'll go and get ready for dinner! Fingers crossed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payboy Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 No worries about the sister, it's the brother you need to watch out for. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WebBangkok Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 No worries about the sister, it's the brother you need to watch out for. 4 some? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banzai99 Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Why would you ask for advise on a potentially life changing situation, from people who have no idea who you are, and you have no idea who they are ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banzai99 Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 We aren't always spending time scheming how to make money off farang men you know Have to agree, the myth that ALL Farangs are rich is history, most Thai people know that many Farangs ain't got a pot to piss in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MiG16 Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Nothing wrong with the...wait and see strategy But the mentality of 'you are the prize' hmmmm If you don't care about the woman, then go ahead and adopt that approach. But if you care just a tiny bit....in the sense of wanting proper dates to continue.....then remember that when they say there's plenty of fish in the sea, the fish are not all female. Lots of men out there too, especially in Bangkok. Women do have choices too. Haha, did I trigger the "princess nerve"? And there is no woman "so special" that you cannot find a "more special" one. And the same could also be said of men. That's why I said,it's how special the op feels towards the girl he is talking about. It's early days. Things could go either way, but often we know whether we are hoping for things to develop or not. Unless you are still in your early to late teens then things might be different. What's a princess nerve? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Nothing wrong with the...wait and see strategy But the mentality of 'you are the prize' hmmmm If you don't care about the woman, then go ahead and adopt that approach. But if you care just a tiny bit....in the sense of wanting proper dates to continue.....then remember that when they say there's plenty of fish in the sea, the fish are not all female. Lots of men out there too, especially in Bangkok. Women do have choices too. Haha, did I trigger the "princess nerve"? And there is no woman "so special" that you cannot find a "more special" one. And the same could also be said of men. That's why I said,it's how special the op feels towards the girl he is talking about. It's early days. Things could go either way, but often we know whether we are hoping for things to develop or not. Unless you are still in your early to late teens then things might be different. What's a princess nerve? Think GS is still a teen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huayrat Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 If 2 is more of a handful for you then gimme a call ill come do the washing up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 If 2 is more of a handful for you then gimme a call ill come do the washing up Eh. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Good luck. All the points have been covered and the lady extending the dinner invite is interested and has invited her 'sister' as chaperone as well as getting the valued second opinion. It doesn't present much of a challenge to be polite and make sure the lady with the primary interest gets most of your attention. If the 'sister' turns your head more, then most likely you will end up with bugger all. Sent from the Back 'o Bennachie with an Asus eePad Transformer TF201 thingumabob. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 No worries about the sister, it's the brother you need to watch out for. No mention of a kathoey yet. Unless......... This has the makings of an adventerous thread...... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missymoo Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 My 2 cents is pull her aside (providing you know for a fact that she doesn't have a boyfriend) and say something along the lines of be honest with me, do you like me or are you really trying to set me up with your sister because I like you? In this way, you can't go wrong because she will still be flattered even if she is trying to set you up with her sister. Of course she's not going to tell her sister this if this was the case but if it's only a test then you've passed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinfoilhat Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 They have already decided which one you get. if either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pseudolus Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Has the OP done her yet? Did she call back telling he'd left the money? Will the pics be posted on the internet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rsquared Posted July 3, 2012 Share Posted July 3, 2012 Wakey, wakey........time to get up and tell us all the details. Did you or didn't you? Which of the two girls were better? When is the next date? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharp Posted July 4, 2012 Share Posted July 4, 2012 bang um both.... Sent from my GT-N7000B using Thaivisa Connect App Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post nkg Posted July 4, 2012 Author Popular Post Share Posted July 4, 2012 Well, since you were all kind enough to show an interest in my love life ..... The date went very well, I think. Not much in the way of "banging" or "3somes", merely a very pleasant evening. We ate some delicious Thai food, we drank some beer, a good time was had by all. As some of you predicted, the sister was in fact not really her sister at all, but one of her close friends. From my limited knowledge of the Thai language, the title "Pee" translates directly to the English word "sister", but can mean sister, sister-in-law or best mate. Sister was attractive all right, but her English was pretty limited, and most of the time I was chit-chatting to my Thai friend, with some translation going on. I dutifully denied being a "handsum man" when sister mentioned it, either she was being polite or she needs an eye-test I somehow resisted the temptation to whip out my camera and say "can you pose for some sexy pics for the guys at Thaivisa"! I'm pretty sure that me and my Thai friend will be meeting up again. In the end there wasn't much to worry about, but I'm sure I scored some bonus points by staying on the right side of friendly. Either that or I missed out on an awesome 3some 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuddhistVirus Posted July 4, 2012 Share Posted July 4, 2012 Why would you ask for advise on a potentially life changing situation, from people who have no idea who you are, and you have no idea who they are ? Have you read a novel or a manga or seen a tv series or watched a movie based on true events called Densha Otoko or Train Man? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wana Posted July 4, 2012 Share Posted July 4, 2012 Well, since you were all kind enough to show an interest in my love life ..... The date went very well, I think. Not much in the way of "banging" or "3somes", merely a very pleasant evening. We ate some delicious Thai food, we drank some beer, a good time was had by all. As some of you predicted, the sister was in fact not really her sister at all, but one of her close friends. From my limited knowledge of the Thai language, the title "Pee" translates directly to the English word "sister", but can mean sister, sister-in-law or best mate. Sister was attractive all right, but her English was pretty limited, and most of the time I was chit-chatting to my Thai friend, with some translation going on. I dutifully denied being a "handsum man" when sister mentioned it, either she was being polite or she needs an eye-test I somehow resisted the temptation to whip out my camera and say "can you pose for some sexy pics for the guys at Thaivisa"! I'm pretty sure that me and my Thai friend will be meeting up again. In the end there wasn't much to worry about, but I'm sure I scored some bonus points by staying on the right side of friendly. Either that or I missed out on an awesome 3some "Pee " usually refers to adressing an "older" person "Nong" is appropriate for a younger person and respectful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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