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Just out of curiosity.. how do u mange to strike up a conversation with strangers that u find attractive? And how do u know or find out if they are or aren't gay?

I often find myself in the elevator with some cute farangs and the best i managed was to ask nicely which floor the person was going and punch the elevator button for him. I wouldn't dare risk flirting with any one of them though since its an office building and i'm not that open abouty sexuality with collegues. (The work demands a certain status of respectability too) But i often sense that those cute farangs maybe gay and maybe checking me out too but he too may not want to risk his work. I need some really good pretext for starting a chat with them but i wonder what would that be and how? And what do i have to lose if it turns out bad? Please share your farang/thai relationship experience that started out in workplace or as strangers in the same building.

Btw im thai in my late 20s. Never had a relationship with foriegner before except a long-distance one, which last only several months and had made me cynical about all long distance relations ever since.

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make eye contact. if no reaction, move on.

Just discussed this with a European friend a few days ago.

Here in Asia, if the person you make eye contact with is not interested, he might still smile at you, thanking you that you like his looks - but he just isn't interested in guys.

In Europe, that look might have offended the other person, and you'll end up with a broken jaw.

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I had a long distance relationship with a Thai guy which is now into it's 10th Year. We have been living together all this time and always faithful to each other.

I had a "sixth sense" about my man, which I cannot explain, but if the chemistry is right you will know!!

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I had a long distance relationship with a Thai guy which is now into it's 10th Year. We have been living together all this time and always faithful to each other.

I had a "sixth sense" about my man, which I cannot explain, but if the chemistry is right you will know!!

Sorry, I'm not getting it. You have had a long-distance relationship with a guy you are living together with?

You either need to define "long-distance" or "living together", better both, for this to make sense to me.

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